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Aaaaaaaargh. Is it just me?

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By *erendipity99 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

I know it is not Thursday but I don't care pmsl.

I know we all get one line messages. I block and delete. What really gets to me is the one line messages with things like

Fancy a fuck?

Want to meet now?

u up for meet now?

Why do these messages get to me? I have NO pics on fab never go on cam. So what these men who send the one line fancy a fuck messages are saying to me is I don't care what you look like. I know you have tits, a fanny and hopefully a pulse so you will do for me. I find it so insulting. For all they know I may be 60 stone, have bad breath and never wash. Also as I never chatted to these men they don't care about my personality either.

Rant over

Is it just me who feels like this?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I may be 60 stone, have bad breath and never wash. "

How about a blow job then?

Sorry, couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get the same from single blokes, even though we state we are not looking for them. Boils my piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't there a thing called filters ? Maybe some people just like being angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one of us gets those type of messages. Single guys will get them off other guys. It doessinly seem to be men sending these messages, I've never received one from a woman.

It is up to them what messages they send, they obviously like that type of approach whatever the results are. I don't worry about it, I simply do not

answer them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth getting stressed over, the chaps are brain dead morons for sure.

I had a friend in the 80's who would go to clubs and stand somewhere near the ladies loos and as a girl walked passed would say "nice dress, wanna dance". He would always end up with a fuck that night from one of the girls that said "really".

I suspect the "wanna fuck" short message works otherwise they would not bother. Personally I think sex is amazing when its in the head rather than the shorts .. But then in those clubs I rarely pulled, tending to chat to the 'nice girls ' ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get them best to just block and more on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hehe... doesnt matter how big you type up a message, end up deleted/blocked Lol. But yes, I agree... ill send you a message, maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP its not just you... basically thats exactly what they are thinking... I consider these TLTW... too lazy to wank.. they just want a hole to fill. Some women get off on that and each to their own... however im with you I want someone to at least appreciate im a 'real girl' behind my lady bits!

Just keep blocking blockity block!!!

Kitty

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no excuses for one liners but then again who wants you life story either ? lol keep it simple light hearted and respectful ,,, or is that just me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't there a thing called filters ? Maybe some people just like being angry. "

Im not sure FAB is clever enough yet to work out a filter for "three word derogatory messaging"

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By *earaWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I agree, keep it short simple and interesting. I always reply to a mail that's had a little thought put into it.

I don't block the "wanna fuck tonight" brigade, it'd be a hell of a list...

Live and let live, it's all part of the same game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 10 messages a day askin me to drop everything and go fuck women and cpls.........hang on a min......no I dont.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I get about 10 messages a day askin me to drop everything and go fuck women and cpls.........hang on a min......no I dont. "

I've had two of these in the last 20 minutes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its an approach that probably works sometimes and we've seen people at a party and a club (men and women) who literally do fuck anything that moved or stays still long enough for that matter.

I wonder if these guys have noticed the same and use the same approach on here. It is what some people want and enjoy and good luck to them I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i get loads of them as well..usually from guys that cant get a women on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it wd be good if we could filter messages of less than say 200 characters

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"it wd be good if we could filter messages of less than say 200 characters "

We sometimes get messages that are one or two words long but aren't rude such as "simply stunning" from people.too far away to have any hope of meeting so no ulterior motive. We wouldn't want to block them and I bet the " wanna fuck" merchants would simply add 190 kisses lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite. "

Aww bless that nice African man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't there a thing called filters ? Maybe some people just like being angry.

Im not sure FAB is clever enough yet to work out a filter for "three word derogatory messaging" "

The poster claimed they received messages from singles males even though their profile said otherwise ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had four of these messages today. Okay, so four isn't a lot, but they sure are tiresome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite.

Aww bless that nice African man "

Is he the same one who tries to purchase mobile phones on EBay ??

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Every one of us gets those type of messages. Single guys will get them off other guys. It doessinly seem to be men sending these messages, I've never received one from a woman.

It is up to them what messages they send, they obviously like that type of approach whatever the results are. I don't worry about it, I simply do not

answer them.

"

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By *reybearMan
over a year ago

medway


"I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite.

Aww bless that nice African man

Is he the same one who tries to purchase mobile phones on EBay ?? "

Hang on... He is speaking to other people too!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont use the filters because it's still worth a laugh. You're not breaking laws by taking the piss out of people.

I still get fellas sayin 'what u lookin 4 lad?' lol...

'TAKE A WILD GUESS OR READ THE PROFILE, SHERLOCK!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every one of us gets those type of messages. Single guys will get them off other guys. It doessinly seem to be men sending these messages, I've never received one from a woman.

It is up to them what messages they send, they obviously like that type of approach whatever the results are. I don't worry about it, I simply do not

answer them.

"

Just looked at ur pics and fabed some xx

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By *siris01Man
over a year ago

Luton

You have no pics and never cam..tho u list webcams in your interests....

You sure your on the right site ?

The clue is in the title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when you send a long message and get 3 words back its like pulling teeth honestly

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By *erendipity99 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"Isn't there a thing called filters ? Maybe some people just like being angry. "

I don't want to have to use filters on single men. I meet single men. Just not idiots who send one ine messages.

I wish there was a filter to block one line messages.

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By *erendipity99 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


" no excuses for one liners but then again who wants you life story either ? lol keep it simple light hearted and respectful ,,, or is that just me ?? "

You miss my point. It is not because it is a one line message per say. It is because they want to fuck me without knowing what I look like, what my personality is like etc. It says to me they don't care about me and they are only interested in getting a fuck. It is very disrespectful.

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By *erendipity99 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"Isn't there a thing called filters ? Maybe some people just like being angry.

Im not sure FAB is clever enough yet to work out a filter for "three word derogatory messaging" "

This

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By *erendipity99 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"it wd be good if we could filter messages of less than say 200 characters "

Brilliant idea.

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By *erendipity99 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"I would never send one of those but when polite not tooshort not too long mesages are just ignored i can perhaps understand a bit. Perhaps its a bit like the guy in africa who wants to share his money with you. Send out enough emails and eventually somebody will bite. "

You can understand why somebody would send me a one line message asking to fuck me without seeing what I look like first? Or without knowing what I am like peronality wise?

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By *ot-tottieWoman
over a year ago

derbyshire

I've just post new thred for same thing no point in filters cuz we wont find good guys

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By *erendipity99 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"You have no pics and never cam..tho u list webcams in your interests....

You sure your on the right site ?

The clue is in the title."

I am interested in WATCHING web cams in the chat room not being on one. I am a voyeur not an exhibitionist. Yes I am on the right site.

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By *ot-tottieWoman
over a year ago

derbyshire

you sound exactly what Im lookinf why it hard to find

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP its not just you... basically thats exactly what they are thinking... I consider these TLTW... too lazy to wank.. they just want a hole to fill. Some women get off on that and each to their own... however im with you I want someone to at least appreciate im a 'real girl' behind my lady bits!

Just keep blocking blockity block!!!

Kitty

Xxxx"

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