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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all just recently joined

been let down twice in 2 days from what was thought to be genuine nice people and was just wonderd if this was a regular thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a regular thing sadly. I had 5 guys cancel on me in 8 days. I wldnt of met them all but id arranged a few to see how many wld cancel. One of the guys just didnt turn up, no texts nothing. The others cancelled. Unfortunately alot of ppl talk the talk but thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it happens a lot so pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by let down? I've never had a no show but I have had a last minute cancellation.

I like to chat for a while before I agree to meet and I wont meet unverified men.

Maybe you just need to chat a bit longer before agreeing to meet them to make sure they're genuine and really up for a meet. Shame you've been let down and better luck next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are ways of reducing the let-downs but I must run off to work now... catch you later with my ermmm wisdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot on here that cant walk the walk when it comes down to it. Not just the men. Fems and couples too.

Great pics by the way

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"hi all just recently joined

been let down twice in 2 days from what was thought to be genuine nice people and was just wonderd if this was a regular thing?"

What you doing tonight ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tending to my Sir's cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tending to my Sir's cock"

Lucky Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens and it piss people off. I understand that sometime thing happed but if they canned me 3 time I just block them.

Also if they cann me two within a hour of the meet I do the same and block them.

I never canned a meet, been late due to a flat tyre but i made it up to her.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Anyone who lets me down now never gets a second chance as unfair as that may seem.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"Anyone who lets me down now never gets a second chance as unfair as that may seem. "

Quite rightly so. People who do this evidentlylack manners and rrespect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one thing to type something it's another to physically do anything .

A phone call or a social meeting without pressure is always advised . Failing the dont put all your eggs in one basket .

Just come to me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all just recently joined

been let down twice in 2 days from what was thought to be genuine nice people and was just wonderd if this was a regular thing?"
..It happens but not by us.xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

should have had a meet yesterday with a young sub joining us

had hair done nails done new corset and so on for Sir to do some pics then did"nt come online while today

not even a sorry plus side was I got all Sir's cum and my ass fucked till 3.30 this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and sir simply must visit the south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your looking for something that is going to be very few people genuinely wanting to join...

As most women will shy away from what your offering.. so many of the offers are going to be fakes..

Speak with them on the phone early on, check verifications.. but I happen to know that your living near a hot bed of naughtiness..

I find similar problems when looking for a single female so we tend to meet couples.. but still find many want to swap not share.. ( everyone gets something)

Unfortunately most wont understand the dynamic you have either.. and would worry that your Dominant would be expecting them to be submissive too..

good luck.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the meets arranged was from them contacting me that's the part I don't understand the most

why get in touch then let you down

its just strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the time that we have been on here, we have never been let down!

Try changing your selection process!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are ways of reducing the let-downs but I must run off to work now... catch you later with my ermmm wisdom "

Ooops was in such a rush I didn't even notice you were part of a couple. My wisdom is for single ladies... if you have a partner surely it is not a total loss for you have each other.

I'll re-iterate what others have said though - check verifications (what they receive AND what they give) and ensure you have spoken to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a regular thing sadly. I had 5 guys cancel on me in 8 days. I wldnt of met them all but id arranged a few to see how many wld cancel. One of the guys just didnt turn up, no texts nothing. The others cancelled. Unfortunately alot of ppl talk the talk but thats it "

Sorry, not quite clear on this ! You agreed to meet 5 guys, had they not cancelled, you'd have been forced to, classic double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a regular thing sadly. I had 5 guys cancel on me in 8 days. I wldnt of met them all but id arranged a few to see how many wld cancel. One of the guys just didnt turn up, no texts nothing. The others cancelled. Unfortunately alot of ppl talk the talk but thats it "

Wow... maybe you are looking at the wrong guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a regular thing sadly. I had 5 guys cancel on me in 8 days. I wldnt of met them all but id arranged a few to see how many wld cancel. One of the guys just didnt turn up, no texts nothing. The others cancelled. Unfortunately alot of ppl talk the talk but thats it

Sorry, not quite clear on this ! You agreed to meet 5 guys, had they not cancelled, you'd have been forced to, classic double standards. "

5 guys in 8 days... why would she have been forced to cancel?

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