FabSwingers.com forum: Dealing with time wasters a solution

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dear all I would like to offer my service

Through no fault of mine I'm stuck in hospital so can't travel or accommodate but would love to be involved !

So if you think you've got a time waster point them in my direction ~ I would be happy to engage them in chat with no intention of meeting.

One day I hope my circumstances change ~ I would love to play !

So do you think this is a good idea ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if there not actually a time waster but you waste there time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if there not actually a time waster but you waste there time?"

Fair point

I would be upfront and honest from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrrr no. If someone thinks thier dealing with a timewaster then they probably end all chat and move on. Why would they waste even more time passing them on to you? Why would you even want to speK with them either? Very strange idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Errrrr no. If someone thinks thier dealing with a timewaster then they probably end all chat and move on. Why would they waste even more time passing them on to you? Why would you even want to speK with them either? Very strange idea."

Ok perhaps I didn't think this through

But I will talk to anyone as I'm stuck, anything else would be a bonus !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there are quite a few people who like to chat via message otherwise wy not get involved in the forums? You might not get so much of the sexy chat but you would have a laugh and sometimes a cry lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok perhaps I didn't think this through

But I will talk to anyone as I'm stuck, anything else would be a bonus !"

Don't take this wrong way but sounds a bit desperate. I would deffo look elsewhere for some companionship or chat whilst stuck. Must be some local groups you can contact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok perhaps I didn't think this through

But I will talk to anyone as I'm stuck, anything else would be a bonus !

Don't take this wrong way but sounds a bit desperate. I would deffo look elsewhere for some companionship or chat whilst stuck. Must be some local groups you can contact."

Just read it again it does sound sad and desperate lol. Not how I meant it

But I thought it would be a good service to offer. I'm well adjusted with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just read your profile mate. Your post doesnt sound sad or desperate, just a possible way to engage in a bit of chat and sexy banter that you cant get from the usual ways when stuck in a hospital. I know that ms isnt something that is going to go away, so enjoy life as best you can. Keep your hands of matron tho lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ive just read your profile mate. Your post doesnt sound sad or desperate, just a possible way to engage in a bit of chat and sexy banter that you cant get from the usual ways when stuck in a hospital. I know that ms isnt something that is going to go away, so enjoy life as best you can. Keep your hands of matron tho lol"

I agree. Especially about matron lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

But you can't beat Matron ~ that combination of experience and power, very sexy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps consider contributing with erotic stories on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps consider contributing with erotic stories on the forum. "

That's a good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear all I would like to offer my service

Through no fault of mine I'm stuck in hospital so can't travel or accommodate but would love to be involved !

So if you think you've got a time waster point them in my direction ~ I would be happy to engage them in chat with no intention of meeting.

One day I hope my circumstances change ~ I would love to play !

So do you think this is a good idea ?

Sorry, but I think your definition of what a timewaster is, is a bit off kilter. The Reporting System itself defines a timewaster only as someone who fails to turn up to an arranged meet, not someone who just messages you and then stops, or blocks you for no apparent reason (but there always is a reason...)

And putting yourself in that position, would you not be wasting someone else's time..??? Tit for tat is not always a sound policy....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone

A few of my friends were let down after arranging meets.

It sounded a good idea at the time ( story of my life, lol ) but I take the point I could be considered a time waster ~ should have worked out the details before posting. Doh !!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

As people have already said the forums and the chatrooms are for banter and Im sure youll be made welcome, but Im glad you agree intentionally setting out to wind people up is not a good idea

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

And Im closing this now

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