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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys. I have fantasied for a while now about sucking cock and taking it. But i am very very Nervous. I'm advertising to see if there are any considerate men out there that cud assist me thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may help to change your sexual orientation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm........you already have a veri from a man on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rumbled

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm........you already have a veri from a man on your profile "
only received oral from him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask someone local.... If you have bi on your profile you'll be surprised at the response from men

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just ask someone local.... If you have bi on your profile you'll be surprised at the response from men

Have fun!"
need to find someone who will respect me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ask someone local.... If you have bi on your profile you'll be surprised at the response from men

Have fun! need to find someone who will respect me x"

I would advise a few messages before meeting, don't rush into anything, and meet socially first. And whatever the situation, no always means no.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


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Have fun! need to find someone who will respect me x"

Hire or buy a smart three piece suit - that usually does the trick. And carry a clipboard too. Always gives a somewhat authoritative look. You'll certainly get a bit of respect then ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a sandwich board

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

wtf

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Try a sandwich board "

Good call. Smart suit. Clip board. Sandwich board. Tell the 'man' you are meeting you are 'doing a survey of 'straight blokes wanting a BJ from other 'straight' blokes' - with the incentive of a sandwich afterwards. Back of the net!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try a sandwich board

Good call. Smart suit. Clip board. Sandwich board. Tell the 'man' you are meeting you are 'doing a survey of 'straight blokes wanting a BJ from other 'straight' blokes' - with the incentive of a sandwich afterwards. Back of the net! "
he could have dominoe pizza on 1 side

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm lost here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people come on here to find themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just need lots of help gettin over the nerves. It's a fantasy I would like to forfil tho x

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick

As Richard Branson would say.. "screw it, juts do it"

Nerves are just a state of mind, we are all nervous on our first meets so just go for it. There are plenty of genuine guys out there who will be willing to go slow with a newbie, good luck.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I just need lots of help gettin over the nerves. It's a fantasy I would like to forfil tho x"

What about the chap you've previously met, would he possibly be interested in receiving a BJ and taking your anal cherry? As you've already met and received oral maybe it would be a more relaxed situation. Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people come on here to find themselves"

and to chat shit.....

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Most people come on here to find themselves

and to chat shit....."

Sometimes less words achieve more .... And those just did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just need lots of help gettin over the nerves. It's a fantasy I would like to forfil tho x

What about the chap you've previously met, would he possibly be interested in receiving a BJ and taking your anal cherry? As you've already met and received oral maybe it would be a more relaxed situation. Good luck xxx"
he was too full on x

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Full on? Full on what? Burgers? Look liked he was Lovin' It last time I asked ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Full on? Full on what? Burgers? Look liked he was Lovin' It last time I asked ..."
I don't understand

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Try fabguys

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

that was meant to be a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having straight on ur profile wont take you any nearer a gay experience

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Pen down your ideas,wishes in meets section. Be honest (including altering to bi curious). Invite any potential suitors to message you directly, build up a rapport and follow your gut instinct. Chat beforehand. Meet socially in public, see how things fare.

Good luck.

Just don't tell em you're a yam yam bab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

felt the same way with my first male meer but went slow and had fun just went for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Fab guys or one of the many other gay contact sites. Make clear what you are looking for, open a long dialogue with any prospective meets. Make sure that meet is not just for 30 mins so he and you won't be under anytime pressure.

But if you insist on looking on here change to bi-curious and looking for men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pen down your ideas,wishes in meets section. Be honest (including altering to bi curious). Invite any potential suitors to message you directly, build up a rapport and follow your gut instinct. Chat beforehand. Meet socially in public, see how things fare.

Good luck.

Just don't tell em you're a yam yam bab "

Haha I'm not a yam yam lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there any understanding guys out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys. I have fantasied for a while now about sucking cock and taking it. But i am very very Nervous. I'm advertising to see if there are any considerate men out there that cud assist me thanks xx"

considerate men, what planet do you live on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys. I have fantasied for a while now about sucking cock and taking it. But i am very very Nervous. I'm advertising to see if there are any considerate men out there that cud assist me thanks xx

considerate men, what planet do you live on "
I no. Basically I dnt want to feel push or pressured xx

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I know it can be a little scary but if you can get to one a bi / gay sauna can be a good choice. Firstly it puts you on neutral territory so you do need to worry over the visiting someone else home and worrying about them taking too much control or hosting and any issues with a stranger in your home.

Secondly they tend to be quite relaxed places and you may find you manage to start a conversation in a sauna / steamroom / hot-tub.

Whilst its a big step, and possibly a bit controversial, my next recommendation would be play in dark room space. This will mean that there are likely to be others on hand should your chosen partner be getting carried away and doing something that your not comfortable with. I have found others quite handy to assist on the one occassion when a dom top was too obsessed with attempting to fist me.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" I have found others quite handy to assist on the one occassion when a dom top was too obsessed with attempting to fist me."

And if that hasn't scared the bejeezus out of him then I guess nothing will

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Unfortunately this sort of thing does happen from time to time and whilst most are sensible and get the message with minimal direction. As with everything there will always be the occasional indervidual who too caught up in their own desires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont push you honest.

Brace yourself, I'm coming in!!!!!!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hey guys. I have fantasied for a while now about sucking cock and taking it. But i am very very Nervous. I'm advertising to see if there are any considerate men out there that cud assist me thanks xx

considerate men, what planet do you live on I no. Basically I dnt want to feel push or pressured xx"
You will feel pressure when he pushes it in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have found others quite handy to assist on the one occassion when a dom top was too obsessed with attempting to fist me.

And if that hasn't scared the bejeezus out of him then I guess nothing will "

lol it was a bit full on but a club would be a safe place.

try going to a gay bar and getting a few numbers of men you like. you don't just have to bed someone on fab good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for ur help guys

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Whatever you do don't go into the dark room in a gay club, accidentally fall onto your knees and open your mouth wide

In all seriousness, I wouldn't go to a public place unless you are gay and want to come out

I think you are after a gay experience then the easiest is to message of the easy going gay guys here (there are loads) and to be quite honest let them lead you at your pace

Or you could just do the top sentence and get it over with

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


" I have found others quite handy to assist on the one occassion when a dom top was too obsessed with attempting to fist me.

And if that hasn't scared the bejeezus out of him then I guess nothing will "

It scared me!

OP: change your status to bicurious and have a chat with the guy you already met and shut your eyes and pretend you're licking an ice-cream. Vanilla flavour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I have found others quite handy to assist on the one occassion when a dom top was too obsessed with attempting to fist me.

And if that hasn't scared the bejeezus out of him then I guess nothing will

It scared me!

OP: change your status to bicurious and have a chat with the guy you already met and shut your eyes and pretend you're licking an ice-cream. Vanilla flavour. "

Haha might just have to. Even dreamin about cocks now

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

The Greenhouse in Darlaston is fantastic.

Your postcode is WS, Walsall ? That's Yam Yam surely unless of course you don't originate from...

Yes there are some understanding guts on here. In terms of bi/curious though it's limited to those adults honest enough with their feelings not just everyone elses needs. Although we understand the reasons guys think they will be pigeonholed as gay by some straight couples. I'm very straight, very masculine but a gent with a kinky side which she loves. Be yourself, many can't or daren't be. We applaud you. Sooo many bi,straight guys on here including amongst couples that have meets with those that insist on no bi males. As everyone knows it's more acceptible for girls eh.

Fuck 'em

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't no the 1st thing to do or anything.

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