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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now not having much idea about 50 shades but caught the wife masterbating to it is it really that erotic and how many other women have done the same (or men who have read it )

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

I was reading it on holiday. The amount of women who came and spoke to me about it. Said there fellas wouldn't read it. It's a good way to attract the ladies

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

Partner read it and yeah it got her going she said can't wait for the film and the play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have read all 3 and yes I masturbated whilst reading them lol (f)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty erotic books and yeh another masterbator here lol

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By *attykitWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Oh dear. I think I read them after all the media hype so they were a bit of a let down from my expectations. Wanted to slap the leaf female character and not in a playful way more of a "get a grip bint"!!!! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was reading it on holiday. The amount of women who came and spoke to me about it. Said there fellas wouldn't read it. It's a good way to attract the ladies "

Well the wife does love the ladies might mention that to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear. I think I read them after all the media hype so they were a bit of a let down from my expectations. Wanted to slap the leaf female character and not in a playful way more of a "get a grip bint"!!!! X"

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is erotic and men should read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear. I think I read them after all the media hype so they were a bit of a let down from my expectations. Wanted to slap the leaf female character and not in a playful way more of a "get a grip bint"!!!! X

This ^^^ "

+1

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I thought it was pretty pants... I prefer Nancy Friday fir my erotic reading material. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose its ok for people who don't read the filthy stuff I suppose. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you read them books and find out what women really want be careful because you can end up spending a lot of money at your local sex shop on "accessories " !!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Tried to read them but they bored me to tears.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (f) really didn't like them, I found them to be poorly written and not particularly exciting/stimulating though I know lots of women do. I appreciate I might be in the minority there haha! As a woman who has fairly extensive sub experience, with switch tendencies, they just didn't sink my battleship I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard a lot of people say that they don't rate the 50 shades books but can anyone recommend a better book or books?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought they were poorly written and boring, my nanna's Mills & Boon are raunchier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sylvia Day are good ones , better than 50 shades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read all three and they are absolutely AWFUL - erotic not a bit, just hyped up trash, save your money forget about this trilogy there is better erotic fiction out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now not having much idea about 50 shades but caught the wife masterbating to it is it really that erotic and how many other women have done the same (or men who have read it ) "

you haven't realised that you don't mention that awful book on here.. it needs burning every copy. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now not having much idea about 50 shades but caught the wife masterbating to it is it really that erotic and how many other women have done the same (or men who have read it )

you haven't realised that you don't mention that awful book on here.. it needs burning every copy. Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more shitty messages because of that book...

It's going to get a million times worse when the movie comes out.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I remember reading a fantastic BDSM book once that I think was called "Constance", but I can't for the life of me remember the author or find the book to buy.

The main thing I remember was two "slaves" being tied together in a club and their masters playing a pleasure/pain game. Ring a bell to anyone?

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes miss Julie, think you right there.

Read a brilliantly trilogy by vina Jackson

Eighty days yellow, blue and red.

And Ella Ardent the plume.

Tiffany reisz trilogy, The siren. The Angel. The Prince. Mills and boon spice. Great read couldn't put it down.

Hope this helps.

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By *igerstyle2k2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

The language and structure used in the book is very poor, it's just not written very well. The subject matter aside, it's as if a 12 year old has written it.

I couldn't get past 3 chapters of it, it started to give me headache!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read them but didn't do a lot for me prefer the real thing than reading about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read Sylvia Day too.Different type of writing but prefer 50 shades. Id like a Mr Grey somewhere down the line, likewise anyway

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

A few months ago I was in the big Asda at Sport City in Manchester browsing the books section. A middle aged woman ran up, grabbed a copy of Fifty Sades and ran off. 5 minutes later she ran back put the book on the shelf and ran off again. I was really tempted to say 'Blimey that was a quick wank love.'

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

you could do worse than look up a site called literotica

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Read all 3 books, but never masturbated at all, as what was in the books was what happens in life to me.

I have to say my partner is my Christian Grey. x

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I read it and found it (unintentionally) hilarious. It was utter utter garbage and badly written garbage at that.

Mind you, the author is laughing all the way to the bank so good on her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was pretty pants... I prefer Nancy Friday fir my erotic reading material. .. "

Found one of her books (Nancy Friday) whilst rummaging through some house junk.

In this book she presented a collection of stories from written by women across the world and it had me hooked. So much so that I had to throw it away

I have replaced them with more Erotic tales

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one for blokes is called 50 Sheds of Grey! Its a hilarious spoof of the original!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone ever read Anais Nin, 'Delta Of Venus', wonderful erotic fiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear its up for the knobel prize

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

her squirting pussy, landed on my face as I licked her raging c*nt hard n fast

thats the first line of my porn novel

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I've read them and agree they aren't that well written but i enjoyed! Can i just say, EL James wrote the original as fanfic and it was picked up, good for her! She never claimed to be a scholar!

As for the others, I enjoy Sylvia Day but for me the Eighty Days series is too pretentious.

My other point is that if books like this get people talking about sex, what they enjoy, what turns them on surely it's a good thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read it and found it (unintentionally) hilarious. It was utter utter garbage and badly written garbage at that.

Mind you, the author is laughing all the way to the bank so good on her."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the use if tie wraps as a restraint is a bit amateurish . Daresay there are a few females who have had some numb hands after have a go hubby has raided the shed and pulled them a bit tight round her wrists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could do worse than look up a site called literotica"

I like Gideon cross more than Christian

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry


"I think the use if tie wraps as a restraint is a bit amateurish . Daresay there are a few females who have had some numb hands after have a go hubby has raided the shed and pulled them a bit tight round her wrists "

Not of you kink them and twist them properly

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Nancy Friday introduced me to erotic fantasy of women and opened my mind. The Story of O is brilliant classic and more grown up than 50 Shades of Grey. I also love Anais Nin books that explores the psyche and sexuality of women. All these books written by women has given me an insight into the sexual mind of the women. They are not only a turn on, and I have masturbated reading them, but awakened me sexually.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Extremely boring and tedious. And very poorly written. So many good BDSM books out there, this is not one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My missus was reading the second book wen I told her bout literotica beats 50 shades of shit

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Not sure why tie wraps are seen as amateurish, very effective in the right hands.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Nancy Friday introduced me to erotic fantasy of women and opened my mind. The Story of O is brilliant classic and more grown up than 50 Shades of Grey. I also love Anais Nin books that explores the psyche and sexuality of women. All these books written by women has given me an insight into the sexual mind of the women. They are not only a turn on, and I have masturbated reading them, but awakened me sexually. "

As I said before Anais Nin is wonderful, yes 'The Story Of O' is great too. Have you ever read 'Last Exit To Brooklyn'? one of my all time favourites, first read it as a teenager, still turns me on now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why tie wraps are seen as amateurish, very effective in the right hands. "

no self respecting dominant I know would touch them with a barge pole... They should not be used for kink. Saw a safety briefing at a club night about why too.

They are seen as a tool only considered by amateurs really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one for blokes is called 50 Sheds of Grey! Its a hilarious spoof of the original!

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it's actually hilarious.

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Have to agree i found 50 shades rubbish , bored me to tears and was badly written , and i didnt think the sex bits were anything out of the ordinary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard a lot of people say that they don't rate the 50 shades books but can anyone recommend a better book or books?"

Quite enjoyed "The time of her life"

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I am actually just in the process of reading the second book

I am enjoying it but I can honestly say it wouldn't cause me to masturbate as it would take more than a book to get me going

I wouldn't jump up and down about it like some people have but its not to bad

xx

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I read the 3 of them in 2 days because I couldn't put them down!

I really enjoyed the books, yes the writing was quite poor and awfully repetitive in parts, but overlooking that I thought the story line was great, and just like I fell in love with Edward Cullen, I then fell in love with Christian Grey, ahh swoon ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 shades - biggest pile of shite ever! Only managed to tolerate first book and half of second before I gave up. Erotic! Pah! Just wanted to punch all the main characters. Now Sylvia day's bared to you trilogy that's Erotic. Gideon cross - what can I say!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one for blokes is called 50 Sheds of Grey! Its a hilarious spoof of the original!

it's actually hilarious. "
I bought this for my husband - stood reading it in the shop, trying not to laugh - it was funny

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Nancy Friday introduced me to erotic fantasy of women and opened my mind. The Story of O is brilliant classic and more grown up than 50 Shades of Grey. I also love Anais Nin books that explores the psyche and sexuality of women. All these books written by women has given me an insight into the sexual mind of the women. They are not only a turn on, and I have masturbated reading them, but awakened me sexually.

As I said before Anais Nin is wonderful, yes 'The Story Of O' is great too. Have you ever read 'Last Exit To Brooklyn'? one of my all time favourites, first read it as a teenager, still turns me on now. "
Funny you should say that as I had forgotten about it I had a copy of the book and it went missing. Read first chapter and that's it. Must buy a copy.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

When I see little old ladies reading it on the train, it being discussed on This Morning I knew it wouldn't do anything for me.

Add to that the amount of username with something to do with the book...you'll more likely see me flicking my bean to the Old Testament: all that begetting is hot!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you read them books and find out what women really want be careful because you can end up spending a lot of money at your local sex shop on "accessories " !!"

You can only find out what women really want by asking them ,one book doesn't hold the answers I'm afraid if it did the author would be a millionaress

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Not sure why tie wraps are seen as amateurish, very effective in the right hands.

no self respecting dominant I know would touch them with a barge pole... They should not be used for kink. Saw a safety briefing at a club night about why too.

They are seen as a tool only considered by amateurs really"

Of course you will have a degree in that as well! Ties, used correctly are safe, like much of the kit in BDSM in the wrong hands they can be dangerous.

But you, as always, are an expert and we will go away and risk assess our play. Well that's the RA done, we will continue to use them!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"When I see little old ladies reading it on the train, it being discussed on This Morning I knew it wouldn't do anything for me.

Add to that the amount of username with something to do with the book...you'll more likely see me flicking my bean to the Old Testament: all that begetting is hot! "

So what do you think is the best begetting? We are more into new testament and can often be found reading the good book as our little sub is tied up in the corner.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I read 50 Shades to see what all the fuss was about. Didn't find them erotic at all, just badly written.

Have read the Sylvia Day Crossfire books (all 3) and enjoyed them. But can't say I found them erotic or a turn on, just enjoyed the love story and humour.

My friend gave me quite a few Marina Anderson books and they were ok but all very similar.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Its boosted swinging & the adult industry by 20% so its not all bad.

Anything that lowers the prejudice swingers / adult industry gets is a good thing, we have had lots of vanilla middle aged women contact us to do something naughty after reading the book so we are thankful for it.

Like "Secret diary of a call girl" it has put life back into this stale Victorian nanny state we live in which can't be a bad thing.

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Its boosted swinging & the adult industry by 20% so its not all bad.

Anything that lowers the prejudice swingers / adult industry gets is a good thing, we have had lots of vanilla middle aged women contact us to do something naughty after reading the book so we are thankful for it.

Like "Secret diary of a call girl" it has put life back into this stale Victorian nanny state we live in which can't be a bad thing.

"
Good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them when they came out and found them boring as hell and no way near the real thing at all. I should have put the money towards a new hitachi wand i would have got a better buzz out of that

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

To most of us the books are old news as we have done it & bought the tee shirt, to singles/couples who have never put their toes into the water they are horny filth which get their juices flowing.

Its aimed at a vanilla audience not us & it was very clever marketing on the distributers part in making them the biggest selling books of all time.

As we said earlier we get women/couples who have never done anything naughty asking us to set up role plays etc,they want to play out their fantasies on film/photos so these books have opened a can or worms for the normal average person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I(Mr)read them and to be honest after a while i found myself skimming the sex bits and just going to the actual story bit.My personal opinion is that it is porn for people who don't do porn.If that makes any sense!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard a lot of people say that they don't rate the 50 shades books but can anyone recommend a better book or books?"
anything by karin slaughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked 50 shades but for the story not the sex

Love sylvia day much better writer

I believe wot made them so popular is woman really do want to be looked after n loved n cared for in every way but men have a tendency to let them down which makes the more independent and unwilling to put up with there crap lol

Men need to always make sure the womans satisfied all the time

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the first half of the first one, and skimmed the other 2 1/2 books. I notice that every charity shop in Britain now has a copy, which tells me not many people would want to read it again.

I didn't think the Grey books were very well written, and the virginal washout at the heart of it a bit annoying ("I've got a date with CHRISTIAN GREY!"). One thing I noticed was that Grey doesn't seem to be a long-laster in the sack, but it might be me reading fast. But the Grey trilogy is just fantasy for women. Since the days of Jane Austen it seems that a lot of women like reading about heroines falling in love with a tall good-looking rich guy with tons of scratch. If it were the story of a hardworking postman, the Grey books would have bombed.

A lot of the Black Lace titles were actually better written than this, for instance some of the novels of Portia Da Costa (Continuum, and The Devil Inside are great BDSM novels). But if, like others in this thread, you are looking for a fine and nearly unknown novel about sado-masochistic dynamics that's pervy and challenging but is not porn, try Gordon by Edith Templeton (Penguin).

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By *ittle nelWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Now not having much idea about 50 shades but caught the wife masterbating to it is it really that erotic and how many other women have done the same (or men who have read it )

you haven't realised that you don't mention that awful book on here.. it needs burning every copy. Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive read them all but think they are a bit mild compared to any of the Marina Anderson books. Now they are very erotic. Infact they are filthy.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Its boosted swinging & the adult industry by 20% so its not all bad.

Anything that lowers the prejudice swingers / adult industry gets is a good thing, we have had lots of vanilla middle aged women contact us to do something naughty after reading the book so we are thankful for it.

Like "Secret diary of a call girl" it has put life back into this stale Victorian nanny state we live in which can't be a bad thing.

"

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read all 3 books, but never masturbated at all, as what was in the books was what happens in life to me.

I have to say my partner is my Christian Grey. x"

Where does he keep his helicopter in Bolton!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Story of O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Story of O "

Agree completely read the story of O very erotic;-)

although we have read all three 50 shades our lifestyle would require a few more shades its very vanilla

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By *enidormbabeCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Loved all the books amazing and detailed lol,everyone talks about them while your reading them love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 50 shades books are with a mate, she hasn't read them, doubt she will eitherill have to get them back

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By *enidormbabeCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Defo get them back lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i read them to see what hype was about found them a let down

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