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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see some verifications but it isn't a deal breaker; I have got chatting to unverified guys and met them and its turned out okay

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

I like to see verifications too especially as a single woman, need to know the guy is real etc, I have also met unverified, but ensured they have verified themselves first in other ways. Wouldn't meet them otherwwise!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I like to see that someone shows a range of verifications, I quite enjoy browsing them if there's a few, there are often some very funny ones (intentionally or not!) I don't put a great store by "best blowjob ever" or "he got me so wet" but if I can infer from the veris that he/she/they turned up, looked like their photos and didn't have any major BO problems then that's all good.

However, I've met one or two unverified people off the site after email and phone conversations where we've hit it off.

In summary, for me, verifications are one of the site tools I use along with my own common sense (what little there is) and good judgement (even less if you knew my last ex)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of ways to work out if someone is real if they hav'nt got verifications,they're not the most important thing to me,everyone started off with none when they joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like verifications to get to know what a guy is like personality wise.

As bev meets alot of them alone we like to read if they are polite not pushy or aggresive etc. But after. Saying that we have met unverified guys put the intro process is a lot longer as we have to feel comfortable with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally if have any ill have wee look. As a single woman it'd important to know who I'm meeting is who they say. If they have no verify but someone verified does know them I take that into consideration. Like others said all comes down to Individusls and use own common sense and judgement re meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet very young guys often starting off so chances are they are not verified - but with chat etc I am generally pretty good at working out who is not a nutter - and Ive met and then verified some fab guys ..... BUT if someone has been on here for months and no veri's then yeah it does put me off ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't personally meet anyone unverified, the only reason being in almost five years we've been on here the two or three we did try meeting really messed us about.

Don't know whether it was nerves or what, but we don't get out often and have to plan ahead so we'd rather make sure that whoever we do make plans with, sticks to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone"
NO as most I don't show .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes because you can tell what a person is like by the verifications they leave other people, i like to be careful about who i meet as i have met people in the past that werent right for me.

however i am meeting someone tomorow who hasnt got any because he has only been on here for 4 months, but he sounds ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read verifications, as I prefer to make my own mind up about people.

I will meet unverified guys, as long as I have seen them in the Chatroom on cam, first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Important to me

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Yep, too many people been on site for over a year no veris, makes you wonder if they are serious about swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I believed everything on the internet then I suppose they'd matter to me. But I'm not that naive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see that someone shows a range of verifications, I quite enjoy browsing them if there's a few, there are often some very funny ones (intentionally or not!) I don't put a great store by "best blowjob ever" or "he got me so wet" but if I can infer from the veris that he/she/they turned up, looked like their photos and didn't have any major BO problems then that's all good.

However, I've met one or two unverified people off the site after email and phone conversations where we've hit it off.

In summary, for me, verifications are one of the site tools I use along with my own common sense (what little there is) and good judgement (even less if you knew my last ex) "

Saved me a lot of typing there Caz!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Yeas, absolutely as long as there's more than one. A while ago someone created 2 accounts as a man and a woman and verified himself, unfortunately the moron used the same cock picture as the only picture on both accounts!

If you are not verified at all then we are suspicious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother showing mine, at the moment I'm showing one from a sort if regular playmate but most people don't read profile let alone veris lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone looks at me I read their profile and veris and the profiles of the people who veried them if I like the lookers profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone looks at me I read their profile and veris and the profiles of the people who veried them if I like the lookers profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don't really see them as being important and actually say so in our profile text. But if they only have one or none we will expect them to verify themselves another way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't read verifications, as I prefer to make my own mind up about people.

I will meet unverified guys, as long as I have seen them in the Chatroom on cam, first."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to read them esp if I'm going to send a pic, if they only have one and that one only has them then I won't send pic as it is too easy for ppl to have two accounts .... So is important to me as saves a lot of time trying to figure out if genuine or time wasters and pic collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are good for many reasons. Overall as good way of working out if they might be for you or you might be for them beyond the words on the profile.

One thing beyond the profile & verifications that I find handy is the profile status message facility. Some seem to spend all day/night incessantly ranting & spouting off via it. Although it gives a good insight seeing their hourly rants every time you look at what you thought was a 'hotlist'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost 3 verifications when friends left the site shame as they where great ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was on another site i met three men who didnt have verifications saying anything about them like they have on here, i met them because i thought they looked and sounded ok, but with two of them it was an awful experience so i left the site as hardly anyone had any verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've chosen to show ours occasionally, our profile shows we're verified but for us our veri's are for our pleasure. No veri's wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker for us, as long as we chat, get to know the person is genuine and all get on it's fine! I will add that this is one of the reasons we prefer to meet socially first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in short - NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone"

no, ive met loads of guys who arnt verified, i find none verified men more reliable tha men with lots of verifications

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone"

absoluetly, whats the likihood of you meeting someone thats been on for a very long while but has no veris? None

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone

absoluetly, whats the likihood of you meeting someone thats been on for a very long while but has no veris? None"

I'd have to disagree there. I was contacted by a couple who had no veris and had been on the site over a year. I asked why and they explained the reason, we chatted, met socially and got on like a house on fire and arranged a play meet - had a great time and I then verified them as genuine so it can happen

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone

absoluetly, whats the likihood of you meeting someone thats been on for a very long while but has no veris? None

I'd have to disagree there. I was contacted by a couple who had no veris and had been on the site over a year. I asked why and they explained the reason, we chatted, met socially and got on like a house on fire and arranged a play meet - had a great time and I then verified them as genuine so it can happen "

theres obvious exceptions but how many of those same unverified people have chatted to you, requested pics/friends and not bothered.. probably more than youve met?

I'll beat you to it - even those with pics/veris do this but those unverified - are a little more consistent with it

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone

absoluetly, whats the likihood of you meeting someone thats been on for a very long while but has no veris? None

I'd have to disagree there. I was contacted by a couple who had no veris and had been on the site over a year. I asked why and they explained the reason, we chatted, met socially and got on like a house on fire and arranged a play meet - had a great time and I then verified them as genuine so it can happen

theres obvious exceptions but how many of those same unverified people have chatted to you, requested pics/friends and not bothered.. probably more than youve met?

I'll beat you to it - even those with pics/veris do this but those unverified - are a little more consistent with it "

Nice about turn there, I was disagreeing with your assertion that there were none by pointing out that there were exceptions I don't quite get your point about pic and friend requests...I ignore and block if they don't get thru my numpty filter and yes there's loads on my block list but dunno what the proportion of verified/unverified is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a deal breaker but I do enjoy reading other people's veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone

absoluetly, whats the likihood of you meeting someone thats been on for a very long while but has no veris? None"

ive met a few guys who have beem on here over a year with no verifications

we all had to start somewhere, if everyone had the attitude that all none verified people was time wasters new people wouldn't get anywhere and is the reason why a lot of people have been on here a while and not met, we all just need that first person to have some faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll help as far as I can tell or goto socials

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Since I am looking for someone experienced in some kinks, I do look carefully at the whole profile and the veris. If they haven't been on long, have no veris and their profile is a bit on the thin side then they are not what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very much believe that verifications are a valuable addition to any profile, especially single males, though I sometimes think that too many can be off putting/intimidating for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read people by their eyes and voice, not by written words, I usually know within 10 minutes of talking to someone if I can trust them enough to meet them.

After saying that the 4 guys I have met, from another site id chatted to for about 4 yrs before we met

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Just getting women and guys opion on whever verification s on profile when looking are important to you b4 repling or messeging soneone

absoluetly, whats the likihood of you meeting someone thats been on for a very long while but has no veris? None

ive met a few guys who have beem on here over a year with no verifications

we all had to start somewhere, if everyone had the attitude that all none verified people was time wasters new people wouldn't get anywhere and is the reason why a lot of people have been on here a while and not met, we all just need that first person to have some faith "

Ive met people with no veris, but they were new. I am just a little wiser now on flirting away with people who undoubtably don't meet

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over a year ago

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