FabSwingers.com forum: Big Beautiful Men (BBM's)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've never been an envious person however having gained a few pounds of late I find myself asking the same old question. Plenty of males regard the the more curvier woman or bbw's attractive and sexy and indeed prefer those ladies to that of the more slender ones. I have never seen a woman quote her preference as being the more voluptuous man or bbm's (is there such a term?) Am I a bbm? Are there ladies who prefer bbm's? How should we define a bbm, size and weight etc? Be interested in any thoughts you have, particularly from the ladies.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Can't really tell if you are a 'BBM' as all of your pics just show you from the back but from what I can see you don't look really big.

As for what woman find attractive the same will go for what men's opinions are of BBW. Some will like them, some won't. Some woman prefer men to be slim/athletic others prefer them well built or stocky.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

this normally comes up at least every couple of weeks on here...

there are plenty of women that like men of a larger size... just as there are those who like other things... colour, fat/thin, tall/short, bi/straight ect ect ect......

if being me is good enough for people I'll have a blast... if not i'll pass em by.... simple as.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't really tell if you are a 'BBM' as all of your pics just show you from the back but from what I can see you don't look really big.

Why do you think they show me from behind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"this normally comes up at least every couple of weeks on here...

there are plenty of women that like men of a larger size... just as there are those who like other things... colour, fat/thin, tall/short, bi/straight ect ect ect......

if being me is good enough for people I'll have a blast... if not i'll pass em by.... simple as....."

Hi Fabio. I did look first but obviously my input into the search field was crap.

Your answer is a good one - like me or do one!! I'm confident enough to take that approach but as a more portly guy????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a man with a bit of weight on him...thin guys don't do it for me.

love a nice chunky thigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personnel preference, you look average to me, personnally i don't like skinny guys but a lot of women do.

There's plenty people out there who prefer each others type so live and let live, let them pass you by with a smile on your face x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Can't really tell if you are a 'BBM' as all of your pics just show you from the back but from what I can see you don't look really big.

Why do you think they show me from behind

Fair enough but you've got yourself on here as ample and people will see what they are getting when they meet you so surely you might as well just show it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been an envious person however having gained a few pounds of late I find myself asking the same old question. Plenty of males regard the the more curvier woman or bbw's attractive and sexy and indeed prefer those ladies to that of the more slender ones. I have never seen a woman quote her preference as being the more voluptuous man or bbm's (is there such a term?) Am I a bbm? Are there ladies who prefer bbm's? How should we define a bbm, size and weight etc? Be interested in any thoughts you have, particularly from the ladies."

I wanna be a bbm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna be a bbm

Oh but you are!

I love really BIG BULKY guys, but I also like a bit of shape and tone too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanna be a bbm

Oh but you are!

I love really BIG BULKY guys, but I also like a bit of shape and tone too.

(checks train times to bonnie Scotland...)

Really...?????

ted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wanna be a bbm

Takes hard work and lots of dedication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i be a chubby BBM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm.. Im confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the term for men on one of the large people sites is BHM

big handsome man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't really tell if you are a 'BBM' as all of your pics just show you from the back but from what I can see you don't look really big.

Why do you think they show me from behind

Fair enough but you've got yourself on here as ample and people will see what they are getting when they meet you so surely you might as well just show it lol x "

That's where the private pics tell all but totally agree with your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim guy, bigger guy (teddy bear type tummy), im not slim so cant really talk. Long as they nice guy not too fussy

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I have a wide range of interests and very few preferences because I do not want limitations. All I ask is for that spark, that glint in the eye that tells me we will be good to each other and we definitely won't regret it! I take no notice of appearance. So OP I am very sorry but I cannot answer your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a wide range of interests and very few preferences because I do not want limitations. All I ask is for that spark, that glint in the eye that tells me we will be good to each other and we definitely won't regret it! I take no notice of appearance. So OP I am very sorry but I cannot answer your question."
the first part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't really tell if you are a 'BBM' as all of your pics just show you from the back but from what I can see you don't look really big.

Why do you think they show me from behind

Fair enough but you've got yourself on here as ample and people will see what they are getting when they meet you so surely you might as well just show it lol x

That's where the private pics tell all but totally agree with your point

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nice bum btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanna be a bbm

Oh but you are!

I love really BIG BULKY guys, but I also like a bit of shape and tone too.

(checks train times to bonnie Scotland...)

Really...?????

ted. "

Yip, sorry...young and skinny don't do much for me, I like em a bit auld and mauled!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slim guy, bigger guy (teddy bear type tummy), im not slim so cant really talk. Long as they nice guy not too fussy

....and a non-smoker too????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, women get better kicks out of sex with an emotional attachment so if you have the personality and can still perform well with the extra padding, you might just be the ride of their life yet LOL the only thing is that not many women are here for emotional attachment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a bbm nothing like a big cuddly man in bed to cuddle up to and plenty to touch and hold on to as well mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Generally, women get better kicks out of sex with an emotional attachment so if you have the personality and can still perform well with the extra padding, you might just be the ride of their life yet LOL the only thing is that not many women are here for emotional attachment"

I'd like to think that ladies craving emo. att. are few and far between but could be opening another can of worms there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

nice bum btw.

Thank you. I'd have thanked you privately but I'm still to old to pm you same as I was last week and the week before and the week beore that......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the term for men on one of the large people sites is BHM

big handsome man"

Thanks for that. Pretty sure there had to be an official definition for the chubbier man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all shapes and sizes.

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