FabSwingers.com forum: Playing in your home town

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many people know their neighbours and beyond in an area . I'm a dog walker and everyone knows me within a 5 mile of my town. Do you think it's a) safe to play on your door step or b) more exciting?

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We have no problem with that. X

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By *he MuncherMan
over a year ago

Dundee

As safe as playing anywhere i guess, i find it more comforting and easier but then some might not.

I don't know that it's more exciting i suspect that some might.

Horses for courses i would say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I would say it's fine as you expect everyone on here to have a level of discretion. But I had a guy come up and introduce himself as 'xxxxx off Fabs' while I was talking to a neighbour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't .... I've done it once and got burnt ! He turned out to be a stalker ! And found out everything about me !! Not good ! So I won't go there again !

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By *he MuncherMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Of course there is no accounting for the Idiots and Weirdo's you might meet.....

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By *heekychappy1121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It is all good as long as you trust who is involved

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Normally I would say it's fine as you expect everyone on here to have a level of discretion. But I had a guy come up and introduce himself as 'xxxxx off Fabs' while I was talking to a neighbour! "

Had a guy come up to me in Morrisons who'd been to a couple of GBs I'd held. Nice guy but I was surprised, I'm single and it didn't matter but it was strange. Funnily enough the Morrisins was 30 or so miles from the GB location and it's another 15 or so miles to where I met him in Morrisons. So in the end local discretion doesn't really come into it.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I prefer the convenience, and for the most part, local people i've played with have maintained that level of discretion we all expect.

That being said...i understand why some people don't like playing "close to home"

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We prefer not to meet locally if im honest, even though neither of us grew up where we live now it still doesnt make me very comfortable.

We've had a few occasions people claiming to see me out when i was (how they can recognise me from my tits and lips ill never know). Just weirds me out. Mrs x

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

In the past i've bumped into people i was playing with, in the local ASDA and Currys lol and once had the husband of a couple i was seeing walk up to me and say hi while i was outside the office having a fag

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet locally.And the meets I have are all discreet and trustworthy and to be honest I've never once bumped into anyone I've played with or chatted with and one lives in my village.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

We're all adults here for the same things xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The nature of the way we meet means we don't know much about people so we're all at risk from stalkers and assorted oddballs who think that just because they like to broadcast their sex life so do the rest of us.

I know a woman in another site who lives in the middle east but has had someone from her home town threaten to put her naked pictures up in pubs there so your locality doesn't make a lot of difference.

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

Never ever ever meet local. And would never ever ever ever put any form of face pic. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my friends who I know and have met from here know what I am in to......

So if someone comes up to me and says I know you from fabs then they must be on fabs too and in to swinging.

In answer to the question it doesn't bother me knowing "locals" within my Leicester area.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

It depends... I have a neighbour who I regularly play with but another local strikes me as creepy and I hope I dont see him in public... I block..he makes new profile...

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

If I knew everyone within a five mile radius of my home I'd know about 200,000 people.

Take a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I knew everyone within a five mile radius of my home I'd know about 200,000 people.

Take a chance

Exactly take a chance....at the end of the day meet neutral swing neutral get to know them neutral until trust can be gained then invite them back to yours or go to theirs

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Take a chance

See i would of changed my mind on this if two days ago we didnt get some idiot message us claiming hed seen me around town and when we asked how he could possibly recognize me, he goes into idiot mode threatening to attack me and kill me

Im still not convinced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally don't meet locals or play locally, not that we condone it, just our preference. We organise nights/weekends away to have a bit of fun. We have a good time, see a bit of the country and enjoy ourselves and what we do away stays away.

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

"It depends... I have a neighbour who I regularly play with but another local strikes me as creepy and I hope I dont see him in public... I block..he makes new profile...

Yeah, creepy! The guy thinks he's the king of subterfuge!

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We personally don't meet locals or play locally, not that we condone it, just our preference. We organise nights/weekends away to have a bit of fun. We have a good time, see a bit of the country and enjoy ourselves and what we do away stays away.

I'd second this- and if you add the scenario of having a senior position in a large company where many hundreds of people work too your professional reputation can feel a little vulnerable. The trust and discretion you give and expect Isn't always guaranteed in return. In the main it's all good but I prefer not to play too close to home just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have young kids so don't like to stray too far from home,just in case anything happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in the sort of town where everyone knows everyone and everyone has a bit of gossip. Added to the fact that work takes me all over the midlands visiting a retailer where the staff all share the gossip.

Pretty sure things could get awkward.

Too horny/stupid to let it bother me. I dont actually think its anything to be ashamed of. Give me a bumper sticker!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

the convenience of local is very good, and we are all adults, so anyone we meet in here is only here for the same thing, so a little nod of the head as you pass in the street is fine with me

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