FabSwingers.com forum: does every guy here meet somebody?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

seems to me just about every guy on here is getting a meet at one time or another.is anybody having no success whatsoever like me and having just about every message ignored or deleted?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you do a forum search you'll see a lot of people complaining about not getting meets.

You'll also notice that many of the more successful men have made an effort with their profile content (text and pics)

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"If you do a forum search you'll see a lot of people complaining about not getting meets.

You'll also notice that many of the more successful men have made an effort with their profile content (text and pics)"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy to get meets especially if your a single lad, when I first joined had a meet in first week and foolishly thought this is going be great but only had 4 now in total in about a year, like a lot of people say you get out of it what you put in. To be honest I don't message a lot nowadays to many rejections isn't good for the ego lol. Main thing don't the rejections get you down just try another women

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"seems to me just about every guy on here is getting a meet at one time or another.is anybody having no success whatsoever like me and having just about every message ignored or deleted?"

Put some pics up. Fill out your profile text more. Don't feel entitled to anything.

Good luck.

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"If you do a forum search you'll see a lot of people complaining about not getting meets.

You'll also notice that many of the more successful men have made an effort with their profile content (text and pics)"

I agree you have to make a real effort but its tough as guys out number women by 1 to 10 it's ultimately down to preferences, honesty, and luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry tempter, but there is nothing tempting in ur profile.

sit back a bit, now imagine u have a fanny and a great pair of tits. sit back further and think.."Hmmm lets look at some profiles for sexy men.Hmmm tempter...och, theres nothing there..one pic in private?..but he could at least have some nice body shots, maybe some dirty pics!..think I'll..."

oops, u fill in the end bit

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seems to me just about every guy on here is getting a meet at one time or another.is anybody having no success whatsoever like me and having just about every message ignored or deleted?

Put some pics up. Fill out your profile text more. Don't feel entitled to anything.

Good luck."

Oh, and think about the women you'd like to meet and what you're looking for too. People are keen to be desired so they're more likely to approach people they have a genuine chance with.

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"sorry tempter, but there is nothing tempting in ur profile.

oops, u fill in the end bit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty unanimous! Get some pics and a more interesting profile mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think single guys think that couples have it easy, we have only met about 3 couples this year, when we are looking to meet someone wehardly ever find anyone that matches our profile that are free. I get anoyed when I read posts from single guys thinking they have it tough.... your not the only person that can spend all weekend in here and not have any fun!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If you do a forum search you'll see a lot of people complaining about not getting meets.

You'll also notice that many of the more successful men have made an effort with their profile content (text and pics)

I agree you have to make a real effort but its tough as guys out number women by 1 to 10 it's ultimately down to preferences, honesty, and luck. "

And a profile that tells us what you actually want. You make your own luck on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on pof mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy, stop moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you do a forum search you'll see a lot of people complaining about not getting meets.

You'll also notice that many of the more successful men have made an effort with their profile content (text and pics)

I agree you have to make a real effort but its tough as guys out number women by 1 to 10 it's ultimately down to preferences, honesty, and luck.

And a profile that tells us what you actually want. You make your own luck on here."

I told him the same thing!

I think that where a lot of my fellow single males go wrong. Trying to be appealing to the masses when really you're only after a select few.

Well, I am anyway!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If you do a forum search you'll see a lot of people complaining about not getting meets.

You'll also notice that many of the more successful men have made an effort with their profile content (text and pics)

I agree you have to make a real effort but its tough as guys out number women by 1 to 10 it's ultimately down to preferences, honesty, and luck.

And a profile that tells us what you actually want. You make your own luck on here.

I told him the same thing!

I think that where a lot of my fellow single males go wrong. Trying to be appealing to the masses when really you're only after a select few.

Well, I am anyway!

I have to appeal to the masses otherwise I wouldn't get a meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think single guys think that couples have it easy, we have only met about 3 couples this year, when we are looking to meet someone wehardly ever find anyone that matches our profile that are free. I get anoyed when I read posts from single guys thinking they have it tough.... your not the only person that can spend all weekend in here and not have any fun!"

I'd always chose to be a single male than a couple - it's far easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profiles crap.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profiles crap.

Good luck "

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I bet he changes nothing about his profile. As is usually the case in these situations.

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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago

Round the corner

Mostly too single guys opening line is .. " I'm genuine fancy a fuck " leaves me thinking ...... Wow!! Fuck off !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys alwaz moan about the women on here but i hv trouble wiv guys cancelling or not showing up.

I can get meets but the ones i agree to meet, either dont show up or cancel.

Its easy for ppl to say just block and move on, but its time wasting, disappointing and being rejected. It gets to u sum times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha, so true.. same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profiles crap.

Good luck "

Constructive.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Agree, we won't meet for sake of it, it's hard on a spontaneous last min thing or even having put up a meet and hoping there's a) someone decent, b) theyre gen c) attraction or chemistry all around.

Maybe clubs are the answer to increase chances of fun. But parties and busy clubs aren't for us.

Anyway op. You know surely by now how to increase your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profiles crap.

Good luck

Constructive.

Classic psychology. Knock em down then build em up. It'll make a man of him....still a single man with no meets but hey its a start ?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Your profiles crap.

Good luck

Constructive.

Because he couldn't look at the hundreds of topics like this that litter the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profiles crap.

Good luck

Constructive.

Because he couldn't look at the hundreds of topics like this that litter the forums. "

He joined eight weeks ago and it's his first post. Everyone's new once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seems to me just about every guy on here is getting a meet at one time or another.is anybody having no success whatsoever like me and having just about every message ignored or deleted?"

Take a good look at your profile and put yourself in a womans position......would you really meet yourself ???

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If you do a forum search you'll see a lot of people complaining about not getting meets.

You'll also notice that many of the more successful men have made an effort with their profile content (text and pics)

I agree you have to make a real effort but its tough as guys out number women by 1 to 10 it's ultimately down to preferences, honesty, and luck.

And a profile that tells us what you actually want. You make your own luck on here.

I told him the same thing!

I think that where a lot of my fellow single males go wrong. Trying to be appealing to the masses when really you're only after a select few.

Well, I am anyway!

I have to appeal to the masses otherwise I wouldn't get a meet on here.

I'm one of the masses, an ugly old git and I got to meet this lady. Do something with your profile instead of moaning. I admit it, not Brad Pitt or whoever is dampening cinema seat but doing very happily from her, thank you.

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