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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is anal sex with guys, much different, from having anal sex with a lady? Do you prefer a smooth bum or a hairy bum?

Do you lean forward and kiss a guys neck as I assume you would for a lady?

Do you like to touch his cock like you would her pussy during anal play?

Generally speaking, most guys don't have big bums, so is it as comfortable as "doing" a lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just try it and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just try it and see "

I think he has, this is his defence, pretending not to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just try it and see "

Sounds like someones planning to come out to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading his other post about anal with guys and what is acceptable and stuff me thinks he may be coming out sooner than we think xxx Lois xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, lol, I'm not coming out, it's just a question I wanted to ask, to see what kind of response I'd get.

I don't know any gay or bi guys, and as there are loads on here, just thought it the place to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know any gay or bi guys"

I think you do, you just don't know they are gay or bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know any gay or bi guys

I think you do, you just don't know they are gay or bi"

You mean there could be guys on this very site that say they are straight and could possibly be gay or bi ?

Whatever next? xxx Lois xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well not speaking from experience but maybe a guy would not complain how sore it was during most of the anal sex

women are wimps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your best bet is too look at gay porn and see what they get up too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just try it and see "

I'm laughing at all of the replies on this thread - great effort all of you.

Tim XX

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE


"your best bet is too look at gay porn and see what they get up too."

No disrespect but most gay porn is absolutely nothing like what most bi guys do when giving anal.... I think the OP has the right idea by asking on here, as long as guys are honest... but there is alot of bullshit on this suject no pun inteneded.... and as for difference in what it feels like... Allan says there is no difference in the actual act.... just do what feels right at the time. XX H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I'll post a straight (no pun intended) answer, even if no one else will

I'm fully bi and have had anal with both men and women although with my submissive side, I tend to take rather than give. Aside from the hairy arse bit (and I definitely prefer a smooth arse if I'm giving), there's not a lot of difference physically. Yes, I tend to reach around and play with his cock too, unless it's being sucked by someone else , and I personally don't go for kissing his back or neck.

As others have said, it's very much up to you to try it and find out what's best for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much the same just a deeper voice moaning lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it any different really. Put it like this, if you were blindfolded and gave anal, i doubt you'd be able to tell a women from a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Generally speaking, most guys don't have big bums, so is it as comfortable as "doing" a lady? "

so what you saying, most women do have big bums? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the size of the bum as nothing to do with how tight it is, I find having anal sex with either sex is no different other than some guys don't like kissing but then again met some ladies who don't kiss

PS my ass is shaved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd say yes to all the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty much the same just a deeper voice moaning lol xx "

Made me laugh a lot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies for the thread-jacking as this is slightly off topic, but I'm curious to know....

A lot of you are talking about men with hairy bums and I wasn't sure if you were talking about hairy ass cheeks or a hairy ring piece?

I think you are talking about the former and if so, do men actually shave their ass cheeks? and what if they are hairy down the back of their legs, doesn't that look a bit odd?

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"well not speaking from experience but maybe a guy would not complain how sore it was during most of the anal sex

women are wimps "

come try my strap on hun and we'll see if you complain or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just try it and see

I think he has, this is his defence, pretending not to know. "

was it with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not a big fan of anal sex, so I'm not going to bang an hairy arsed bloke, lol.

I asked the question out of curiousity and am quite happy to accept the views of the people who practice it as part of their "normal" playtime activities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about a smooth arsed bloke xxx sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi the way there is more than one position than doggy for anal sex xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what about a smooth arsed bloke xxx sexy "

Look Peter, just coz I've got, a shaven head, a Freddy Mercury tash, own a knitting machine, regularly post on bi subjects, does that mean theres a doubt about my sexuality, you beast you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xx what do you think xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies for the thread-jacking as this is slightly off topic, but I'm curious to know....

A lot of you are talking about men with hairy bums and I wasn't sure if you were talking about hairy ass cheeks or a hairy ring piece?

I think you are talking about the former and if so, do men actually shave their ass cheeks? and what if they are hairy down the back of their legs, doesn't that look a bit odd? "

This was actually serious question, if anyone has any comments on it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apologies for the thread-jacking as this is slightly off topic, but I'm curious to know....

A lot of you are talking about men with hairy bums and I wasn't sure if you were talking about hairy ass cheeks or a hairy ring piece?

I think you are talking about the former and if so, do men actually shave their ass cheeks? and what if they are hairy down the back of their legs, doesn't that look a bit odd?

This was actually serious question, if anyone has any comments on it?"

Yes, it would look a little odd, lol, and suppose it would be a bit of a give away if all bi guys shaved their arses. How you gonna explain that down the gym

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You could wax your legs too and if people ask just say you do a lot of cycling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies for the thread-jacking as this is slightly off topic, but I'm curious to know....

A lot of you are talking about men with hairy bums and I wasn't sure if you were talking about hairy ass cheeks or a hairy ring piece?

I think you are talking about the former and if so, do men actually shave their ass cheeks? and what if they are hairy down the back of their legs, doesn't that look a bit odd?

This was actually serious question, if anyone has any comments on it?"

personally I don't like hairy Guys so, for me, that would mean cheeks. I'm not a hairy Guy, plus I do keep myself trimmed and shave balls and cock. No one in the Gym notices (as far as i pay any attention to that at least), but if they are looking then that would seem strange if they weren't at least Bi-curious.....

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