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By *hérie OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Wales

Just interested in this so I thought I would ask the question.

Somebody who has known me for nearly forever told me that they believe I am curious about woman.

Did you find it was or wasn't for you.

I am totally straight so I said not but of course it has got me thinking.

I would really love some feedback from bi curious ladies, how they started and did it work for them?

Thank you in anticipation.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

For me I think it just started as a fantasy and wondering what it would be like. Then I joined fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there is a bit in all of us and something happens that brings it to the surface hope you do the right thing x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will be honest and say if you think you are totally straight, then you are!

I am 100% straight, however, even my own sexuality was questioned by another woman on my first club visit! Never met her before in my life or even spoke, but she thought she had the right to question me, I just replied with, I have never had the inclination! So what's the problem?

Needless to say no answer was forthcoming, but I will put my head on the line and say I do believe a lot of it is about fashion trends and doing things to please others, but hey, who am I lol maybe half of females 'are' suddenly Bi all of a sudden

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

I have to say that I think most girls are in some way curious

I knew from a early age ( teens) I was attracted sexually to females

And true enough .... I lurvvve girl on girl

And actually do fancy girls

If at any point you have looked at a woman and thought mmmm she's nice

Then why not give it a go

You will never look back !

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and say if you think you are totally straight, then you are!

I am 100% straight, however, even my own sexuality was questioned by another woman on my first club visit! Never met her before in my life or even spoke, but she thought she had the right to question me, I just replied with, I have never had the inclination! So what's the problem?

Needless to say no answer was forthcoming, but I will put my head on the line and say I do believe a lot of it is about fashion trends and doing things to please others, but hey, who am I lol maybe half of females 'are' suddenly Bi all of a sudden "

I think it's total bollocks to say that everyone has some bi in them. It's just fashionable for women to be bi. I think loads of swinging women just pretend to be bi to please their men.

It's ok to be straight. You will know yourself who you are attracted to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have to say that I think most girls are in some way curious

I knew from a early age ( teens) I was attracted sexually to females

And true enough .... I lurvvve girl on girl

And actually do fancy girls

If at any point you have looked at a woman and thought mmmm she's nice

Then why not give it a go

You will never look back !

;-)"

With respect just because it is true for you doesn't mean it's so for every woman.

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

I think loads of swinging women just pretend to be bi to please their men.

Bit of a sweeping statement I think

Yes there are a few that may do this

But in my experience the women I have met have all been very bi

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I will be honest and say if you think you are totally straight, then you are!

I am 100% straight, however, even my own sexuality was questioned by another woman on my first club visit! Never met her before in my life or even spoke, but she thought she had the right to question me, I just replied with, I have never had the inclination! So what's the problem?

Needless to say no answer was forthcoming, but I will put my head on the line and say I do believe a lot of it is about fashion trends and doing things to please others, but hey, who am I lol maybe half of females 'are' suddenly Bi all of a sudden "

I agree. Its often suggested to me that I'm bi.....I'm not and I won't be no matter how many people "think" I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think loads of swinging women just pretend to be bi to please their men.

Bit of a sweeping statement I think

Yes there are a few that may do this

But in my experience the women I have met have all been very bi "

Same here

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I have to say that I think most girls are in some way curious

I knew from a early age ( teens) I was attracted sexually to females

And true enough .... I lurvvve girl on girl

And actually do fancy girls

If at any point you have looked at a woman and thought mmmm she's nice

Then why not give it a go

You will never look back !

;-)

With respect just because it is true for you doesn't mean it's so for every woman."

I think I said most. And not everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 per cent bi. Never doubted it (well since I was 18) in fact I was surprised that everyone wasnt bi lol. Had loads of shit about it over the years so I only tell who needs to know (family, friends and significant others). Ive found that generally lesbians hate me

, straight women are either curious and want me to fuck them or think i wanna fuck them and straight men just wanna watch or join in lol. No one can tell you your bi - you either are or not x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I will be honest and say if you think you are totally straight, then you are!

I am 100% straight, however, even my own sexuality was questioned by another woman on my first club visit! Never met her before in my life or even spoke, but she thought she had the right to question me, I just replied with, I have never had the inclination! So what's the problem?

Needless to say no answer was forthcoming, but I will put my head on the line and say I do believe a lot of it is about fashion trends and doing things to please others, but hey, who am I lol maybe half of females 'are' suddenly Bi all of a sudden

I think it's total bollocks to say that everyone has some bi in them. It's just fashionable for women to be bi. I think loads of swinging women just pretend to be bi to please their men.

It's ok to be straight. You will know yourself who you are attracted to. "

Totally agree and is what I meant!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have to say that I think most girls are in some way curious

I knew from a early age ( teens) I was attracted sexually to females

And true enough .... I lurvvve girl on girl

And actually do fancy girls

If at any point you have looked at a woman and thought mmmm she's nice

Then why not give it a go

You will never look back !

;-)

With respect just because it is true for you doesn't mean it's so for every woman.

I think I said most. And not everyone "

You did but I was mostly referring to your comment that "you will never look back"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" No one can tell you your bi - you either are or not x"

No more needs to be said really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am straight and do not know how I would react if I was in a certain situation with another lady. Really I should say, "Never say Never".

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Just interested in this so I thought I would ask the question.

Somebody who has known me for nearly forever told me that they believe I am curious about woman.

Did you find it was or wasn't for you.

I am totally straight so I said not but of course it has got me thinking.

I would really love some feedback from bi curious ladies, how they started and did it work for them?

Thank you in anticipation. "

No many posts have actually addressed/provided an answer to the OP's question, which is unfortunate because it is a good question.

I discovered my bisexuality at the age of 19. I was spending a year in the UK as an Au Pair as part of my Uni course and met a charming young Italian girl my age. Our friendship became more and the year went very quickly. I was never curious about being sexually involved with women until she came along. I have never looked back but I now know the kind of women I like and always play 1 on 1. Any man invited to join me and my partner in a 3some is someone very special indeed.

OP, ask yourself or indeed that person (man or woman) why they seem so sure you are curious about women! And whichever path you chose has to be your own, just try not to get hurt or hurt anyone along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think loads of swinging women just pretend to be bi to please their men.

Bit of a sweeping statement I think

Yes there are a few that may do this

But in my experience the women I have met have all been very bi "

"very bi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined FAB I was on as straight and had never really thought about playing with women...although I had a couple of celeb 'girl crushes' like Pink, Rhianna & Megan Fox I'd never thought any further about it. Then when I started going to clubs and seeing women play I became curious and decided to explore my sexuality. I enjoy playing with women, but so far have only played with a guy present too...whether that be a fb of mine or the husband in a couple. That has been for my benefit though not any of theirs as I don't feel that I would be happy just playing with a woman on a 1-2-1 basis...that too may change over time as I become more comfortable with women.

My experience is just that though...mine! Each person is totally different and it's up to you if you want to experiment with women, not a friend no matter how long they've known you. If you want to experiment and explore then go for it...if you don't then leave it there as it's got to be for you and not someone else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just interested in this so I thought I would ask the question.

Somebody who has known me for nearly forever told me that they believe I am curious about woman.

Did you find it was or wasn't for you.

I am totally straight so I said not but of course it has got me thinking.

I would really love some feedback from bi curious ladies, how they started and did it work for them?

Thank you in anticipation.

No many posts have actually addressed/provided an answer to the OP's question, which is unfortunate because it is a good question.

I discovered my bisexuality at the age of 19. I was spending a year in the UK as an Au Pair as part of my Uni course and met a charming young Italian girl my age. Our friendship became more and the year went very quickly. I was never curious about being sexually involved with women until she came along. I have never looked back but I now know the kind of women I like and always play 1 on 1. Any man invited to join me and my partner in a 3some is someone very special indeed.

OP, ask yourself or indeed that person (man or woman) why they seem so sure you are curious about women! And whichever path you chose has to be your own, just try not to get hurt or hurt anyone along the way."

Good point.

OP, I always fancied women from my teen years. I just didn't admit it to myself/ realise it until I was 21. For me it was always there, I just didn't know it. I had a lot of gay friends but they always accepted me as straight. They didn't try to say I was secretly bi or gay. They were as surprised as I was when I realised and told them.

I think my point is- be whoever you are, not what other people say you should be. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew I liked girls from an incredibly young age, and when I got to my mid teens you know what it can be like experimenting and fancied girls before I fancied boys as popped by les cherry first!! Haha then lost my proper one about a year later and been playing ever since! You know yourself better than anyone and I know alot of women that play bi just cause theyre partners like it which if I were straight id refuse to do as it wouldnt feel right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been straight as I have aways been attracted to both genders xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did womens studies as part of my degree so it was inevitable

wish it was more 'fashionable'!

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By *uroladiesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Edinburgh

When I was nineteen a colleague asked me if I was attracted to women. Despite how upsetting it was at the time (I just wanted to be 'normal') everything suddenly made sense. Then the dilemma came when I felt that I had to make a choice between men and women. As time went by I came to the happy conclusion that I prefer relationships with women but enjoy sex and playing with both men and women. I do think that having to work it out if your sexuality isn't obvious to yourself does, in the long run lead to greater sexual satisfaction because you've seriously considered all options and variations in between. Hope that all makes sense x

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By *hérie OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Wales

Thank you everyone.

I found your replies really interesting.

You have given me much more to ponder about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant wait to have this experience I have had it the once but am looking to try it again but it is hard to find another bi female near to where I live xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people should lighten up and not worry too much about being bi or not. All that matters is doing what you enjoy and if that includes playing with both men and women then so be it. I thought swinging was about having fun.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

When we started swinging Frisky said she wasn't interested in playing with a woman. As time went on we got talking to other couples and some of the women told her how good it was to play with an other woman. Frisky became curious. She then had a couple of kisses with bi females we had made friends with. Then a very soft play with a couple with a bi female. She enjoyed it. Then last Saturday she ended playing with a woman from a couple off of Fab at a club. She went a lot further and now is looking forward to our next meeting with this couple and others. She is still taking things slowly but definitely wants more... Now if you had asked her 18 months ago, she would have said " I'm straight it's not for me thanks."

So people do change... Well not me I am 100% straight...lol

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By *hérie OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Wales

Ah, maybe it is a case of watch this space.


" Now if you had asked her 18 months ago, she would have said " I'm straight it's not for me thanks."

So people do change... Well not me I am 100% straight...lol"

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Lol....Not me...

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