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oral do u prefer to give or receive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just going to throw this out there but ive found that a few women dont like giving oral but dont mind receiving it so ladies whats your view on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience is the opposite men love to be sucked off but won't go down on a lady so your opinion?

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By *en_peckedCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

MMMMMMM I LIKE GIVING AN RECIEVING ORAL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Paul) must admit a bj just doesn't do it for me much prefer to give than to receive I find it so much more sexier to take my time and my pleasure feeds off my partners pleasure I know Ann like both giving and receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mickey) actually prefer to give than receive

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"My experience is the opposite men love to be sucked off but won't go down on a lady so your opinion? "

I'd much much rather give than receive. Guess i buck the trend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but not great at 69, s as I find it hard to keep my mind on what I'm doing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to give there's noting better than head between a ladies legs tasting her lovely juices the more Pussy I lick the better

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

69.. Me underneath...

David

The only way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience is the opposite men love to be sucked off but won't go down on a lady so your opinion?

I'd much much rather give than receive. Guess i buck the trend."

I think it's one of those swingers urban myths, tbh!!

For every guy/gal that's more of a giver there'll be an equal number of those preferring to receive!!

As with everything it's down to personal preference. That and clear communication - as getting dressed once you've been pleased before returning the favour is not only just plain rude - it's also liable to get you some quality feedback!! Not !!

And to answer the OP - I much prefer to give than receive but I've met many a woman who insists on getting stuck in before I've had the chance!

And as a gent - I'm a great believer in ladies first - whether that means them lying back or getting their preference of teasing me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more of a giver than a receiver. I cant lie down or sit in one place for too long lol. I have to always be doing something haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to give there's noting better than head between a ladies legs tasting her lovely juices the more Pussy I lick the better "

Im with you on that one, but cant deny I love a good bj as will most men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Be rude not to like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 with me on top with her head hanging of the bed for a full deep throat feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give, give, give a BJ and then give some more!

Susan...

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Don't ask for something if you aren't prepared to return the favour is my view.

But I do prefer to be the giver, awesome feeling seeing a woman get off from your action

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By *en_peckedCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

oh im sure you be good at it Kelly mmmmmmmmmm

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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago

Round the corner

To give luv it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more than happy to give but actually don't like being in the receiving end. I am just uncomfortable with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give, find the intimacy of it such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to give to both sexes , but I wouldn't push anyone away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving O to both ladies and vents. I am an equal opportunity kind of guy. Nothing better than receiving the other person's juices in my mouth mmmmm

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By *en_peckedCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

mmmmmmmmm me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually think it depends on the situation. If she's got a bushy pussy then I'm not going down. It's not a turn on for me.

Equally, she might be rubbish at giving a bj.

But to answer the OP, I love to give. Help when I've got a long pierced tongue

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By *ueper ladyWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

Love both. But I do always make a point of sucking the guy. Even if we aren't gonna meet again. Been long time married and so miss the taste lol.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Both but not great at 69, s as I find it hard to keep my mind on what I'm doing lol "

yeah this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving O to both ladies and vents. I am an equal opportunity kind of guy. Nothing better than receiving the other person's juices in my mouth mmmmm "
gents even )

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By *en_peckedCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Love both. But I do always make a point of sucking the guy. Even if we aren't gonna meet again. Been long time married and so miss the taste lol. "
soz was meant for forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gotta say, I LOVE giving. Nothing more refreshing than having her squirming while under the spell of your tongue and lips.

But hey, that's just me.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I prefer to receive if I'm totally honest. Giving BJs doesn't do a lot for me although, of course, I do them because it'd be selfish not to. I much prefer giving a sensual, lubey hand job where I can feel the shape of the cock and surrounding area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience is the opposite men love to be sucked off but won't go down on a lady so your opinion? "

this is my experience too.... But I also find most guys haven't a clue with oral to women.

I like to give though and if I guy is rubbish I will just tell him it's his turn.

I'm not keen on 69 though if the guy is good... As like to enjoy then return the favour.

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By *124Q69uMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

im a giver

but i like to receive before round 2 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the power you can instill over a man when his cocks in your mouth

And why is it their toes always curl up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why one would be happy to recieve but not give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love the power you can instill over a man when his cocks in your mouth

And why is it their toes always curl up? "

Because you're obviously soooooooo good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i enjoy going own on the wifey,not just her but i do like to lick a nice pussy. Haaving said that,yes im male and yes i do like to have a nice blow job too. (nothing fast/porn star stylee tho)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oral both ways is fabtastic as far as i can see --- are there really men out there who dont go down ??/ i do believe in equality but do accept that some things are not for everyone --- but dont expect me to suck /lick you if you are not going to recipricate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience is the opposite men love to be sucked off but won't go down on a lady so your opinion? "

I am The opposite Love going down on a lady But don't enjoy being sucked off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oral both ways is fabtastic as far as i can see --- are there really men out there who dont go down ??/ i do believe in equality but do accept that some things are not for everyone --- but dont expect me to suck /lick you if you are not going to recipricate ."

i had an ex once who would not for the life of god,suck my cock lol but oh yes,she loved me licking her piussy tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My experience is the opposite men love to be sucked off but won't go down on a lady so your opinion? "

Not everyone is same :p. I love giving oral

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Love the power you can instill over a man when his cocks in your mouth

And why is it their toes always curl up? "

cramp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more pleasure from giving, feeling the body react and hearing the moans really turn me on

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Watching her facial expressions, seeing her undulating stomach, the quivering of the thighs, these are some of the reasons I love giving oral and as such would/do forego a blow job as i get turned on more by giving than receiving

Having said that, if it's all one-way traffic then that 'relationship' wouldn't/hasn't last long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it didnt

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"My experience is the opposite men love to be sucked off but won't go down on a lady so your opinion?

I'd much much rather give than receive. Guess i buck the trend."

me too

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"And why is it their toes always curl up? "

I fucked a woman last night and her toes curled up too. But that was because in her rush to enjoy me she'd forgotten to take her tights off.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I love giving oral to both men and women but equally I don't complain if they want to return the favour.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I adore to give

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Give....

Receiving does nothing for me

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I like to give........ 5 mins licking me and I've had enough, I get bored of it after, and want to get onto the next event!!!

A

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By *az1312Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near Coventry

I enjoy giving but not that keen on receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

~ i must be a real oddball on here as a man coz i dont much care for being sucked to orgasm but i adore licking a lady's pussy until she is moaning her head off and squirts. Love love live it!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love the power you can instill over a man when his cocks in your mouth

And why is it their toes always curl up?

cramp "

Ha Sam if you say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why is it their toes always curl up?

I fucked a woman last night and her toes curled up too. But that was because in her rush to enjoy me she'd forgotten to take her tights off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer to give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love the power you can instill over a man when his cocks in your mouth

And why is it their toes always curl up?

Because you're obviously soooooooo good at it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own if a lady doesnt oral im sure there something both sexes like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hass to be both, love licking and love being sucked..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give. but both are fun

love to use a bullet vibe and my tongue at the same time

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By *0kjbMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

love both giving and receiving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get me wrong I love a good blowjob, who doesnt....lol. But if I had to pick one it would be going down on a woman, its such a wonderful act to gently tease a pussy with your tongue and lips

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I prefer to give, and would do so for hours on end if my tongue and jaws could last the pace. I like to hold at least one of the breasts while doing so too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I(mr) like to give as i am receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I want to scream at a man though. The ones that find the Clit then just suck at it... It's awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im more of a giver than a receiver. I cant lie down or sit in one place for too long lol. I have to always be doing something haha

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Im the same, I do like to take but if it was a choice then i'd give!

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By *ikerboy694uMan
over a year ago

spalding

Id rather give ,than receive or have sex,my favourite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are we mainly a nation of "givers"

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By *attykitWoman
over a year ago

leeds

69 me on top! ! FAVOURITE! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give it, but only if she is shaven, if its like a forest then hell no..

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Mrs here ! I much prefer to give more than to recieve as i love hear a guy moan in pleasure and that turns me on alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 me on top! ! FAVOURITE! !"

shows how different we are. I can't relax that way. Prefer it with him on top.. or take it in turns.

Or one guy giving me oral...another letting me suck his cock. X

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By *mudger56Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I adore and do mean adore to give ladies prolonged oral until I am begged to stop, and I might tease and not stop then!!! Any ladies in MK area interested in trying me out then let me knowa details and I will forward a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love both x

But love giving more x

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I love both. I get my most intense orgasms from receiving oral, and I absolutely love giving it. Knowing the guy is being turned on turns me on.

Oh and just one thing - to those guys saying they can stay down there for hours... if you need to say down there for hours you aren't doing it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I like both but I do love being on my knees in front of a hot guy looking up at him as I suck on his well you get the drift lol

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By *attykitWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"69 me on top! ! FAVOURITE! !

shows how different we are. I can't relax that way. Prefer it with him on top.. or take it in turns.

Or one guy giving me oral...another letting me suck his cock. X"

Find him on top too restrictive I feel trapped. But to be honest not had the pleasure of two guys before and yep that sounds pretty cool too!!!

Hoping to enjoy some mfm at some point just not found the right players yet who will make me feel comfortable! !!

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By *ueper ladyWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

I had my second female lick and suck me today and it was great. I was busy with her husband. That's my new best way. I felt at her mercy as she held me open and hit the right spot. But also in power as I had him in my mouth and then watching him and feeling him cum. Then sharing the spoils with his wife.

Next couple please.

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By *abzogMan
over a year ago

Christchurch


"I like to give it, but only if she is shaven, if its like a forest then hell no.."

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By *heekychappy1121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I am more than happy to give or receive with a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give and like to receive but no cum in mouth or swallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"69 me on top! ! FAVOURITE! !

shows how different we are. I can't relax that way. Prefer it with him on top.. or take it in turns.

Or one guy giving me oral...another letting me suck his cock. X"

I thought i was the only women who preferred to be on the bottom for 69 lol

Im don't usually like 69 either because as another posted said i cant concentrate and if i do make the effort to concentrate then i cant really enjoy what im getting. Much prefer one at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either way is good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More of a giver , depends though if its a nice looking Pussy , seen some nasty ones and a rank stinking one that nearly made me vommit so in those kinda circumstances I'd gladly receive then give !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adore both...

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