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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not sue if this has a topic but i really need to vent today.

just updated our profile and although i hate to make it look shit it seems impossible to get through to all the chancers on here.

are we the only couple to get bombarded with shitty emails from useless single men who cant read or cant be bothered to read profiles?

we even had am email from someone who pasted the name of another profile into our email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone don't worry. We have loads of messages from single men who obviously haven't bothered reading our profile. We are fed up with messages like are you free for a fuck? Can I come over? X

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Filter them and search for people yourselves...

I think everyone has had mails from people who haven't read or just chose to ignore their profiles.

I don't think it's limited to single men. I'm sure all genders are guilty of it.

personally for me the worst culprits were couples. If they had read my "looking for" they'd have known I wasn't looking for them. It never stopped them... So I use the tools available on the site and filter them. Now if and when I want to meet a couple I can go find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are not alone don't worry. We have loads of messages from single men who obviously haven't bothered reading our profile. We are fed up with messages like are you free for a fuck? Can I come over? X"

think 90% are twats who r lying thru their teeth.makes it harder for those rare guddens to get to us.they cant even get their own profile in order let alone read any one elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't make your profile look shit because people don't read it

The sort of people you're aiming your rants at won't read it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't make your profile look shit because people don't read it

The sort of people you're aiming your rants at won't read it anyway

"

and could put off the ones you'd like to atract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, it seems all part of being on here in our experience, wading your way through all the bullshit to get to the good guys/couples/girls - there I think I've covered my ass, seems to be a daily occurrence.

The upside for me is my hubby has a fantastic bullometer and my block digit works well, read, block report if need be and move on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using the filters, as other posters has suggested seems a good idea and searching yourselves for suitable people may be quicker than checking emails. some people have key words, that need to be in the email title, that prove someone has read the profile, any without the word, can be deleted. good luck with it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't make your profile look shit because people don't read it

The sort of people you're aiming your rants at won't read it anyway

"

This, also I think it's against site rules to put the block list on your profile as you've suggested. Why not as someone suggested block single guys from messaging you, the browse the site and approach the ones that appeal. The guys you are trying to deter won't read your profile and the ones you do want to meet will read it will be put off by the tone it now has.

Sorry you're not enjoying the site......

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Filter them and search for people yourselves...

I think everyone has had mails from people who haven't read or just chose to ignore their profiles.

I don't think it's limited to single men. I'm sure all genders are guilty of it.

personally for me the worst culprits were couples. If they had read my "looking for" they'd have known I wasn't looking for them. It never stopped them... So I use the tools available on the site and filter them. Now if and when I want to meet a couple I can go find them.

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Filters on the site can help loads in stopping unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A medieval solution - what about finding a time waster of your choice and placing them in a stick and throwing tomatoes and other rotten vegetables at them - may send a clear message to the other wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha rage over now changed our profile from fully shitty to to the point lol.

our main problem is we want messages from guys as we are looking for someone for the mrs to meet so blocking doesnt work for us.

i like the idea of a secret word in the profile like the davinci code.

sometimes it makes me laugh other times its too annoying. i think more trips to clubs and less fabs swingers.

ive never used the report button does it work.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"not sue if this has a topic but i really need to vent today.

just updated our profile and although i hate to make it look shit it seems impossible to get through to all the chancers on here.

are we the only couple to get bombarded with shitty emails from useless single men who cant read or cant be bothered to read profiles?

we even had am email from someone who pasted the name of another profile into our email.

"

No, I've had shitty emails from useless couples and useless single females as well...it's just because single guys are in the majority that it seems to you that they are the root of all evil. As a previous poster has said, filter them out and go looking yourself. I had a browse this weekend, sent a few individually written mails out and as a result been exchanging messages with a lovely seeming single guy who I hope to meet up with for a drink some time soon - RESULT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cool thanks for the info and suggestions guys blocking and searching is the way to go.

ill rewrite our profile, can you guys tell me what you think.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Far too many sit about waiting on others to mail them......Then they complain about it!

Use your filters and browse guys yourself.....

Mailing only the ones that interest you....

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone going to mail this timewaster/ idiot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are not alone don't worry. We have loads of messages from single men who obviously haven't bothered reading our profile. We are fed up with messages like are you free for a fuck? Can I come over? X"
Wow people do that?! No wonder single guys have such a hard time on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Far too many sit about waiting on others to mail them......Then they complain about it!

Use your filters and browse guys yourself.....

Mailing only the ones that interest you....

Simple "

we do search and email others but also assume others will search and email us.

however if i read a profile and we are not suitable i will pass it by i wont email it in the hope that we get lucky and i also dont copy and paste emails

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Around 90% of the messages we receive are from people who have clearly not read our profile. Of that 90%, 20% are 'couples' (normally the male wanting to play). Just a fact of life on a swingers site, far to many idiots and arrogant dicks. But there are some genuine fun people as well

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The bane of this game, praise the lord for the genuine ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your profile Im a little confused about what youre trying to acheive. You have blocked single males but are looking for a bi MM couple? How does that work? Not saying that these couples dont exist. Just that they are like super duper rare. You would have more luck getting a single bi male than a MM bi couple... Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get hardly any unless we put up a meet. And the few we do are usually pretty polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same problem as the OP, so I went down the 'find the good ones myself' route.

But I've just realised what we really need! We need a 'junk' items (well, an autodelete function), where we can set our own message parameters. I would set mine to delete:-

~ heading includes the words: fuck shag lick suck pussy cock

~ body text includes the words: fuck shag lick suck pussy cock tonight today

~ message length is less thans: 40 characters

That would have got rid of about 90% of my unwanted messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the same problem as the OP, so I went down the 'find the good ones myself' route.

But I've just realised what we really need! We need a 'junk' items (well, an autodelete function), where we can set our own message parameters. I would set mine to delete:-

~ heading includes the words: fuck shag lick suck pussy cock

~ body text includes the words: fuck shag lick suck pussy cock tonight today

~ message length is less thans: 40 characters

That would have got rid of about 90% of my unwanted messages! "

That would be useful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be useful!"

We haven't got a hope of getting it, but we can dream .

I'm pmsl at the thought of all the 'sent item obsessed' peeps, who see ALL their sent messages immediately turn to 'deleted'. They're scratching their heads wondering where they went wrong! But at least it might be some useful online training on how to write a reasonable message

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