FabSwingers.com forum: learning the ropes

By *inchwonders OP Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

hey all,i am new to this site so i am just kinda getting used to it, but when im on cam, guys always say things like- your stunning, you'll be a big hit, ect ect. But with the women it does take it's toll. Drawing in the male attetion is a breeze, but womens, not so much. Is there errors i am making or??

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey all,i am new to this site so i am just kinda getting used to it, but when im on cam, guys always say things like- your stunning, you'll be a big hit, ect ect. But with the women it does take it's toll. Drawing in the male attetion is a breeze, but womens, not so much. Is there errors i am making or??"

I always recommend:-

~ say "hi room" or "hi all", so that everyone knows you've just arrived

~ put the cam on your face/chest 100% of the time

~ make sure you don't accept the default pale black font

~ DON'T just speak to the people on cam (everyone tries to talk to the cammers) - look for someone who's not on cam, and engage them in conversation

~ DON'T just speak to the people you are interested in having sex with, speak with everyone including the guys (OK, maybe not the men who are fancying ya!)

~ read the room carefully, to judge the mood of the conversation, so you know when not to intrude

~ keep your contributions light-hearted and humorous

~ keep coming to the chat room regularly - it takes patience but will pay off

~ remember that everyone else can read what you're saying, it's not a private conversation, it's an opportunity to showcase your personality to the whole room

~ avoid making the cringe-worthy "please watch my cam" and "will you pm me" comments (50% of men say this, and 90% of women ignore them!).

Good luck, and happy chatting!