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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

So more directed at women and couples but it's an open discussion of course. So as the headline says in terms of if a guy didn't float your boat sexually in terms of his performance did nothing for you in terms of satisfaction or he couldn't get a hard on. Would he get a second chance or turn down a second meet although it could of been just a case of nerves on his part

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I wouldn't meet them again. I probably wouldn't tell them why, because they may have thought the same about me. But I do have on my profile I rarely do repeat meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he was rude as well, no chance. If he was charming and obviously anxious, maybe. If he just didn't fancy me...don't think there is one answer to your question as there are many different scenarios.o

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope she gives me a second chance!

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Would not meet again, but doubt that it would ever get to that stage, as has to be attraction and chemistry between two people before even thinking about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how much I like the guy,I would'nt discount meeting someone again if they did'nt get hard but id make sure the circumstances and situation of the meet were different

I would'nt meet someone again if they were a crap shag though

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think I should define it and ask would you meet after a cramp shag as any guy at anytime could get a softie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet again. I wouldn't tell them unless they kept on as to why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I should define it and ask would you meet after a cramp shag as any guy at anytime could get a softie"

No, what's the point?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I think I should define it and ask would you meet after a cramp shag as any guy at anytime could get a softie"

Would you meet a woman again if the first time was crap?

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract


"So more directed at women and couples but it's an open discussion of course. So as the headline says in terms of if a guy didn't float your boat sexually in terms of his performance did nothing for you in terms of satisfaction or he couldn't get a hard on. Would he get a second chance or turn down a second meet although it could of been just a case of nerves on his part "
met a guy few times from another site and he was like that never had a decent shag off him i not see him now tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met men who didnt turn me on that much again because i quite liked them and didnt have anything better to do.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"I think I should define it and ask would you meet after a cramp shag as any guy at anytime could get a softie"

OP why don't you ask the person you gave a crap shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they could not get hard but still gave me a pleasurable experience I would certainly see them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I should define it and ask would you meet after a cramp shag as any guy at anytime could get a softie"

Nope! No! Never! Fat chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a crap shag then that's because there is no chemistry so no would not meet again ... If he had a hardon problem then that could be nerves, so if I liked him and thought that could Be overcome then yes I'd meet him again I've met men with condom phobias who went soft as soon as the condom came out ... But got latex free and put it on as part of the play the next time and they were fine

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"I think I should define it and ask would you meet after a cramp shag as any guy at anytime could get a softie

Nope! No! Never! Fat chance!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These things happen and as long as we got on We would give him a second chance x

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've met men with condom phobias who went soft as soon as the condom came out ... But got latex free and put it on as part of the play the next time and they were fine "

Was it the that it was latex free that made the difference, the putting on during play, (presumably you putting it on), or a combination of the two? I'm not sure I've ever used latex free, what's the difference between the two, do they feel different?

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We are ruthless if we need to be ie acting on others lack of etiquette or following gut instinct.

A situation that could be nerves wouldn't mean sending to room 101

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met men with condom phobias who went soft as soon as the condom came out ... But got latex free and put it on as part of the play the next time and they were fine

Was it the that it was latex free that made the difference, the putting on during play, (presumably you putting it on), or a combination of the two? I'm not sure I've ever used latex free, what's the difference between the two, do they feel different?"

Not so thick and don't smell .... Its all in the mind ... And yes if you pop it on with your mouth when they are not expecting it , it can help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never met anyone on here who wasn't any good, but have finished with plenty of men for being rubbish in bed. Although didn't tell them that. I just leave that bit to the next poor woman!

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I think I should define it and ask would you meet after a cramp shag as any guy at anytime could get a softie

No, what's the point?"

Oops looks like my spell checker is on the blink, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance of meeting them again. I barely have time as it is without meeting guys again that I didn't have a good time with. Those that I like I will meet again..... And again.....

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Never met anyone on here who wasn't any good, but have finished with plenty of men for being rubbish in bed. Although didn't tell them that. I just leave that bit to the next poor woman! "

lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've met men with condom phobias who went soft as soon as the condom came out ... But got latex free and put it on as part of the play the next time and they were fine

Was it the that it was latex free that made the difference, the putting on during play, (presumably you putting it on), or a combination of the two? I'm not sure I've ever used latex free, what's the difference between the two, do they feel different?

Not so thick and don't smell .... Its all in the mind ... And yes if you pop it on with your mouth when they are not expecting it , it can help "

Thanks, I'll give them a try

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