FabSwingers.com forum: Single Males in Fab!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If single males where given a value in Fab could they be considered to be worth just a penny? After all I suspect there are hundreds of the poor buggers! A few might warrant a higher value if they are young have a really big dick and / or look like Brad Pitt when he was younger, but at best they might be worth a pound. A young single woman is likely to range between a twenty pound note up to a fifty. Couples are worth from five to twenty pounds, you get the idea. Now this may be a crass analogue but it does make me wonder given the often seen restriction "No Single Males" whether(unless you are worth a pound) why would the higher currencies bother with you at all? Been on Fab for around a year with very little success. So is it me or do other single males think that they have to do all the leg work with often little or no benefit as as a result?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Whaaaaat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrmmm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think about money too much. Money doesnt bring you happiness.

....a good fuck does

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I have seen many single successful guys on here that don't fit any of the criteria you mentioned above.

You get out of fab what you put it, if you aren't having any luck figure out where the problem lies and try to fix it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a certain degree yes you only get out if fab what you put into it, luck also plays a factor on here, right time right place etc, but I think confidence also plays a part too many men try too hard they act desperate and there's nothing more of a turn off than desperation

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Been on Fab for around a year with very little success. So is it me or do other single males think that they have to do all the leg work with often little or no benefit as as a result?"

You might do well to look at your approach and attitude, perhaps that's where you're going wrong? I'm certainly no Brad Pitt, but love being on fab and have lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some great people on here ! and had a few relationships off here ! and although they didnt work out , was good fun , some guys , think they can just get a quick leg over ! it happens very occasionally , but if you put a little effort in , you get well rewarded , ITS all about GOOD FUN !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You talk about leg work what effort have you out in how many socials have you attended how many clubs have you been to and met people face to face, swinging is like anything you get out what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of advice cock pics don't make the best avatars.

Be down to earth and talk to a woman as a person, just because she loves sex, does not make her a sex object. Respect the ladies and send polite and maybe even a little kinky tease in a message can be well placed at times.

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By *he MuncherMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Simply because With her searching preffs set as such NO SINGLE GUY CAN MESSAGE HER. Find a single guy and have him try it just does not work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would we consider single males we have absolutely no interest in meeting them and we do fine thank you very much we have our filters set so they can't message us, but why come in the forum whingeing when there is plenty of advice on here about how to improve your chances

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By *heekychappy1121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Fab is quite simple for a single guy. If you are genuine an take time to treat woman how they should be treated then you get success! It is not rocket science!!!

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By *he MuncherMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Because all too often Females and Couples put the blame on the Single Guy's, When clearly the Females and Couples are just as much to blame.

And just for those who don't understand SET YOUR MESSAGE FILTERS accurately and stop putting the Blame on the SINGLE GUY'S.

As a single guy i am getting really annoyed at all the Crap spouted, If you don't know how to set your filters properly ask admin for a tutorial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get out ...what you put in

obviously depends what you're putting in

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and if youve quoted they have gone too sorry

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Simply because With her searching preffs set as such NO SINGLE GUY CAN MESSAGE HER. Find a single guy and have him try it just does not work.

Yes and I'm quite sure she has done that on purpose as many do to stop every guy within a 50 mile radius sending her a message. She can then message who she chooses!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Because all too often Females and Couples put the blame on the Single Guy's, When clearly the Females and Couples are just as much to blame.

And just for those who don't understand SET YOUR MESSAGE FILTERS accurately and stop putting the Blame on the SINGLE GUY'S.

As a single guy i am getting really annoyed at all the Crap spouted, If you don't know how to set your filters properly ask admin for a tutorial."

You sound quite angry. Need a lie down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, I already taken two pieces of advice from the forum discussion. Removed the cock picture from my avatar and looking for a suitable time to go to Jaydees near St. Neots, seems to be highly thought of. Though the price range for entrance does seem to support my thesis (but in reverse!)- Ladies get in free, couples are twenty pounds and single males are thirty pounds! As for whinging I think that was a bit unfair, just asking a question to seek opinions / advice which is what I am getting.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Well, I already taken two pieces of advice from the forum discussion. Removed the cock picture from my avatar and looking for a suitable time to go to Jaydees near St. Neots, seems to be highly thought of. Though the price range for entrance does seem to support my thesis (but in reverse!)- Ladies get in free, couples are twenty pounds and single males are thirty pounds! As for whinging I think that was a bit unfair, just asking a question to seek opinions / advice which is what I am getting."

as you asked for advice another thing I would suggest is having a look at your profile. Does it make you stand out from others? Info about you, likes, dislikes things you won't do. What you're looking for, one off, regular etc, try to inject a bit of personality into it.

And good luck at the club xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The price reflects supply and demand there was a lot more single men at clubs then single women and couples would the single men want to go it's just a case if economics

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

"Been on Fab for around a year with very little success. So is it me or do other single males think that they have to do all the leg work with often little or no benefit as as a result)"

With an attitude like this it is not surprising that you are 'unsuccessful' your post comes across as you're missing out on your entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to all those who have entered into this discussion (helpful or otherwise). I will do my best to improve my "attitude", my profile and work harder at it (oooer eerrr missus)which I think will improve my chances, although not with those who have posted NO SINGLE MEN EVER - PERIOD!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would help if you had more than one pic aswel just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem been a lot of women have arranged meets with so called single men ( that turn out to be married and playing away ) and get let down so the genuine single blokes get punished, not a lot can be done I'm afraid just keep trying and good luck

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

fab gives you the tools to make it works... the onus is still on you,

for example how much thought did you give to your profile before you removed your pic?

had you ever thought of going to a club (without the whinge about pricing)

had you ever thought of coming on the forums (since you have only been on two threads)

and the list goes on.....

what all those things can do is open avenues.... it doesn't guarentee you any success, but it can give you a better shot at it....

a lot of it comes down to common sense... and making yourself the best "shop window" you can be.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do ok although not had meet for 2 says what am i doing wrong

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Ill probably need a flame suit for this comment but eh ho..

I always believed swinging was as much about the social aspect as it was the sexual.. Instashag is a Friday night thing down the dirty night club when neither of you can remember a name

How can you just expect someone to jump into bed with you when there's no connection??

I know everyone is different, and has different reasons for being here. But ultimately its about having something someone wants.. Sell yourself as best you can, and have fun. Half that fun is sending the msgs, the thrill when one comes back. If it don't. So what, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that clubs like Jaydees have managed to strike a perfect balance of males to females and couples so the pricing structure seems to work well giving everyone a fair chance to have a fun relaxing evening

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If single males where given a value in Fab could they be considered to be worth just a penny? After all I suspect there are hundreds of the poor buggers! A few might warrant a higher value if they are young have a really big dick and / or look like Brad Pitt when he was younger, but at best they might be worth a pound. A young single woman is likely to range between a twenty pound note up to a fifty. Couples are worth from five to twenty pounds, you get the idea. Now this may be a crass analogue but it does make me wonder given the often seen restriction "No Single Males" whether(unless you are worth a pound) why would the higher currencies bother with you at all? Been on Fab for around a year with very little success. So is it me or do other single males think that they have to do all the leg work with often little or no benefit as as a result?"

Can't be arsed to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ill probably need a flame suit for this comment but eh ho..

I always believed swinging was as much about the social aspect as it was the sexual.. Instashag is a Friday night thing down the dirty night club when neither of you can remember a name

How can you just expect someone to jump into bed with you when there's no connection??

this.

We also don't make a connection with everyone but with those we do it makes Fab seem very worth while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is that since I've joined I've not even searched as all single males contact me! So don't think fems need to do any leg work, coz if a bloke is interested he soon gets in touch! Hope I'm making sense as I've had a couple xx

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