FabSwingers.com forum: Prostitutes in swingers club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would it put you off playing in a swingers club if you knew there was a prostitute there playing at the time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was unaware that they would play there :s Do you mean as in 'gathering customers' or just for their own pleasure? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Own pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was playing in her time off, not in the slightest, anyone can attend a swingers club, regardless of job. If she was working then that is a slightly different thing and yes I would be slightly put off as that is more a brothel then swinging club in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If she was there as a paying customer no problem. If she was there paid by the club as a "single female", as does go on then no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clubs pay them to be there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How would you know if she was there being paid ?

If you were contacted by a man or couple who admitted using prostitutes would you still play with them ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm not put off by anyone, as we all need to earn our living. Prostitution can be a tough job, so they have my respect. As for being in a swingers club - my god, do they deserve to have sex for pleasure, after having to do it for work!!

Some clubs I think do employ hostesses, but if you're not paying them yourself for sex, then you're not involving yourself in prostitution directly, merely having consensual pleasure together.

I'd employ some strong men as protection at times, and if one of them wanted fun, I wouldn't consider him as a prostitute, merely as someone who wants more from life and enjoys himself on the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it put you off playing in a swingers club if you knew there was a prostitute there playing at the time ? "

Not at all, if she was playing for her own pleasure. It's none of my business what other club users do for a living.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What someone does as a job is nothing to do with anyone else, if a prostitute chooses to swing then good luck to them. I've known several prostitutes who swing in their personal time, I know one who only started swinging after she 'retired', she missed the variety of sex and partners that she had when she was working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind at all, but if she was on time and a half then I would have to think again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit off putting really , but I guess you can spot the signs if she's paid or not as saw a women who was displaying so much teasing and grinding and rubbing, any other women would have been dragging the guy to a play room but looked like she was just teasing him , spoke with her just before she left and the impression I get she was paid company as looked miserable as fuck ....lool

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

Having multiple partners doesn't usually involve a financial transaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

Really? How so?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if she was being paid by the club to entertain people.... then yes i would be put off and I probably wouldn't go

if she is there is her own free time just having fun not looking for "clients"... no it wouldn't!! she would then be no different to anyone else going to clubs...

everyone is entitled to earn a living.....

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

is this true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

is this true?

I think he meant in the chauvinistic sense, not literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

is this true?

no not at all, absolute rubbish.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

is this true?

no not at all, absolute rubbish."

Well, if you include courtship meals, movies, trips etc, men probably do pay for quite a lot of sex - even if no money actually passes between the man and woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only time I'd worry is when she asks me for money

me doing anything else is my free will and courtesy, I know I'm not paying for the act(s), and never ever will.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

If you think that is the case, please report it

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I spoke to a professional escort in a club once, she told me her gentleman was paying her £500 for her company that evening...all I thought was that I was in the wrong job

I have no issue with sex workers being at clubs, it would only ever be a problem for me if one asked me for money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of very naive people about...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

is this true?

no not at all, absolute rubbish.

Well, if you include courtship meals, movies, trips etc, men probably do pay for quite a lot of sex - even if no money actually passes between the man and woman."

That's a hell of a generalisation. Now either I am very unlucky, or this is a bit of an urban legend, because the only thing I ever get out of a meet is a pint, and usually I buy them one right back.

Now unless the wpman in question travels around with a very large and ugly bloke, there is nothing forcing a man to buy women meals, cinema tickets, flowers, trips, whatever, so moaning about it just shows that the man in question was hoping for something in return for that money spent. Don't be so free with your money and meet women who don't expect gifts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if she was being paid by the club to entertain people.... then yes i would be put off and I probably wouldn't go

if she is there is her own free time just having fun not looking for "clients"... no it wouldn't!! she would then be no different to anyone else going to clubs...

everyone is entitled to earn a living....."

I'm a bit with this...no issue with a prostitute going to a club for their own pleasure but think I'd be put off if they were paid to be there (either by punters or the club)...not so much for taking payment but because of the assumptions that might go with that. Less experienced people in the club may not realise they are playing with pre-paid prostitutes and so get a distorted view of swinging and assume any woman in the club is 'fair game', or decide that any woman in there can be bought for the right price. I'm sure some won't feel the same, but I probably would leave a club I knew were paying sex workers or allowing sex workers in as it's not in the spirit of swinging to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

is this true?

no not at all, absolute rubbish.

Well, if you include courtship meals, movies, trips etc, men probably do pay for quite a lot of sex - even if no money actually passes between the man and woman."

and women don't pay for any of those things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me if they are there for own pleasure or paid to be there, either by club or gentleman they have gone with..

my mum used to tell me all women have a bit of whore in them.. ie want new outfit be nice to husband..

I rarely get treated to gifts because I refuse to be brought them... So that no man can think he has brought the right to my time.

Although I do expect a guy to offer to pay for first drink. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't bother me if they are there for own pleasure or paid to be there, either by club or gentleman they have gone with..

my mum used to tell me all women have a bit of whore in them.. ie want new outfit be nice to husband..

I rarely get treated to gifts because I refuse to be brought them... So that no man can think he has brought the right to my time.

Although I do expect a guy to offer to pay for first drink. X"

Great quote from your mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't bother me if they are there for own pleasure or paid to be there, either by club or gentleman they have gone with..

my mum used to tell me all women have a bit of whore in them.. ie want new outfit be nice to husband..

I rarely get treated to gifts because I refuse to be brought them... So that no man can think he has brought the right to my time.

Although I do expect a guy to offer to pay for first drink. X

Great quote from your mum.

And no I'm not saying that all women are whores.

I know what I mean. Great quote from you too Cali.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It doesn't bother me if they are there for own pleasure or paid to be there, either by club or gentleman they have gone with..

my mum used to tell me all women have a bit of whore in them.. ie want new outfit be nice to husband..

I rarely get treated to gifts because I refuse to be brought them... So that no man can think he has brought the right to my time.

Although I do expect a guy to offer to pay for first drink. X

Great quote from your mum.

Even if not entirely true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if not entirely true.

don't know about that. I think every woman at some point will use her body to get what she wants.. maybe not money but I don't know anyone personally that hasn't.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Even if not entirely true.

don't know about that. I think every woman at some point will use her body to get what she wants.. maybe not money but I don't know anyone personally that hasn't."

Maybe not EVERY woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if they are there with a guy who is paying them, and appear as a couple?

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Swingers clubs, strip clubs etc like escorts earn money by taking money off guys who are hoping to find sex.

Before crucifying pros/escorts etc sit back & look at the wider pic & work out the morals of all other parties involved in making guys part with their money for sex.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"What if they are there with a guy who is paying them, and appear as a couple?"

Know WGs who do that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WG's?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Swingers clubs, strip clubs etc like escorts earn money by taking money off guys who are hoping to find sex.

Before crucifying pros/escorts etc sit back & look at the wider pic & work out the morals of all other parties involved in making guys part with their money for sex. "

That's why I never have any charges. BYOB if you wish but everything else in included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what it matters, so long as you come away having had a good night why would you care what others were doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WG's?"

working girls

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I don't see what it matters, so long as you come away having had a good night why would you care what others were doing? "

I'll have no truck with money changing hands for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if they are there with a guy who is paying them, and appear as a couple?"

I have had loads of guys who have asked me to go to clubs with them then once in its perfectly obvious they have just used me to get in, so fair play to any women who can make some money out of these guys I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be more concerned if I found out a politician was in the club. He'd probably claim it as "Working Lunch" on his expenses and the whole venue would be 100% more sleazy.

At least with a Professional you KNOW you're paying them to fuck you.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"What if they are there with a guy who is paying them, and appear as a couple?

Just looked at your profile, why they would only want you to get in I don't understand

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Id be more concerned if I found out a politician was in the club. He'd probably claim it as "Working Lunch" on his expenses and the whole venue would be 100% more sleazy.

At least with a Professional you KNOW you're paying them to fuck you. "

I'd be less keen on a traffic warden, (although there is one I've seen around town who I'd make an exception for).

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

newbury

Absolutely. Love swinging, but really not into paying for it. Went to a club in London once and it soon became apparent that some of the girls were paid for. Not a problem, as I just studiously avoided them. Most of the single guys there really loved it, so I guess it served the purpose of sorting out the guys that just wanted a wham-bam time. Personally I'm only really interested if the time I spend with someone results in them really enjoying themselves and getting off on the shared sensuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if they are there with a guy who is paying them, and appear as a couple?

Just looked at your profile, why they would only want you to get in I don't understand

because its harder to get membership as a single guy and its more expensive so a lot of guys will try to find a woman to go in with as going in as a couple is cheaper and easier

when i've spent time getting ready, travelled to the club, paid a sitter etc just to be dumped inside that pisses me off if they was paying me £500 that would be fine

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I spoke to a professional escort in a club once, she told me her gentleman was paying her £500 for her company that evening..."

That does not surprise me. Someone I know hinted as much and she is nearly as old as me. When she is dressed up for a punter she looks the height of respectability. Her clients are older guys who prefer not to be seen with a woman who is obviously much younger. She works through an escort agency and claims that most of her bookings are repeat business at top hotels. The sex is fun but it is usually only a small part of the total job.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I spoke to a professional escort in a club once, she told me her gentleman was paying her £500 for her company that evening...

One of the busiest WGs I ever knew was 55 /56, 5" tall and nothing like slim. Once I was meeting her to take her to a social and she said wait on the pub car park while she finished a booking, (where all her punters parked). She rang me to say he's coming out now. A good looking bloke in his mid to late twenties came out, got into his nearly new Porsche and drove off. I went in for a brew before we went out and she said 'sometimes I think I should be paying them'.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Would it put you off playing in a swingers club if you knew there was a prostitute there playing at the time ?

Not at all, if she was playing for her own pleasure. It's none of my business what other club users do for a living."

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Over the years i've known of many swingers house parties that were run by an escort and their hubby/boyfriend, and the men women and couples who attended were all charged an entrance fee. I also knew of a club in Bham where all the ladies were escorts, the guys didn't pay them directly but had to pay for membership and an entrance fee which was extortionate. I have also known of working escorts who also enjoyed swinging in their spare time so wouldn't be surprised if they attend all the popular clubs as swingers and are members here too, either as a single or as part of a couple.

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

I respect peoples for trying to make a living. If it don't hurt anyone who care. We pay anyway doing other thing.

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By *loxfordMan
over a year ago

Reading

because its harder to get membership as a single guy and its more expensive so a lot of guys will try to find a woman to go in with as going in as a couple is cheaper and easier

when i've spent time getting ready, travelled to the club, paid a sitter etc just to be dumped inside that pisses me off if they was paying me £500 that would be fine

I can't understand why anyone would want to dump you inside the club

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

because its harder to get membership as a single guy and its more expensive so a lot of guys will try to find a woman to go in with as going in as a couple is cheaper and easier

when i've spent time getting ready, travelled to the club, paid a sitter etc just to be dumped inside that pisses me off if they was paying me £500 that would be fine

I can't understand why anyone would want to dump you inside the club

I couldn't figure that either, however I'm sure she wouldn't be short of her pick of company for long, very attractive from what I can see.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

" ........ The sex is fun but it is usually only a small part of the total job. "

I believe the late Al Capone used to say

'the machine-gunning people is fun but it is usually only a small part of the total job.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

Yep, some people need to have a good long look in the mirror..

ted.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

Yep, some people need to have a good long look in the mirror..

ted."

Having multiple partners doesn't usually involve a financial transaction."

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

Yep, some people need to have a good long look in the mirror..

ted.

Having multiple partners doesn't usually involve a financial transaction."

What's up with a financial transaction, do you work unpaid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

Yep, some people need to have a good long look in the mirror..

ted.

Having multiple partners doesn't usually involve a financial transaction."

So, if you go to a club, you expect to get in free then..?? Depends at what point you consider there to be a transaction..

What I, and SteelHeels whose comment I quoted, were getting at (I think) was that it makes no difference what someone does outside the club for a 'job'. When you walk in that club, if someone you play with happens to be a prostitute or escort outside, but it there just for their own recreation, then so what? It's recreational sex, and that is what Swinging is.

For the clubs who do use 'hostesses', in that case it can be a VERY fine line between a club and a brothel - hence no money changes hands directly between you and the woman, or the club could be in deep trouble. But, even if I did feel inclined to pay for it, what someone does with their body - including using it to earn money - is their business, not mine.

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Would it put you off playing in a swingers club if you knew there was a prostitute there playing at the time ? "

I'm not sure that I like the word 'prostitute', to me it has overtones of disapproval. Do you include professional escorts and other varieties of 'working-girl' in that category? I ask the question because the one WG that I know takes a pride in offering what is known in the trade as 'full GFE' (full girl friend experience). In other words, making sure that no one gets any clue that she and her punter are anything other than a couple of friends.

That means that if they were at a club, who would know?

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Some clubs pay them to be there."
im sure they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask the question because the one WG that I know takes a pride in offering what is known in the trade as 'full GFE' (full girl friend experience). In other words, making sure that no one gets any clue that she and her punter are anything other than a couple of friends.

That means that if they were at a club, who would know?"

And, lets be honest, there are plenty of single guys and single girls who get together to go to clubs and parties as a 'couple' portraying exactly the same persona.... So where's the difference..??

ted.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Would it put you off playing in a swingers club if you knew there was a prostitute there playing at the time ?

That means that if they were at a club, who would know?

I was involved with an escort for years including living together, she did all the GFE stuff with punters but still accepted she was a prostitute. I know lots of others, at the end of the day they all are able to admit their job title. Recently I was discussing stuff with a few and the subject came up of the amount of gear they always have to carry with them in case they get a sudden booking, all of them used the phrase 'hooker bag'

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

That means that if they were at a club, who would know?

And, lets be honest, there are plenty of single guys and single girls who get together to go to clubs and parties as a 'couple' portraying exactly the same persona.... So where's the difference..??

ted."

The difference is that no money changes hand.

If I hold a couples party I know full well that single guy A and single girl B phone each other up and agree to attend together but it's not a business transaction.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

That means that if they were at a club, who would know?

And, lets be honest, there are plenty of single guys and single girls who get together to go to clubs and parties as a 'couple' portraying exactly the same persona.... So where's the difference..??

ted.

The difference is that no money changes hand.

If I hold a couples party I know full well that single guy A and single girl B phone each other up and agree to attend together but it's not a business transaction."

It is if the guy is only paying £20 instead of £40 lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some clubs pay them to be there."

I know at least two club that pay escorts to be there

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"..........

And, lets be honest, there are plenty of single guys and single girls who get together to go to clubs and parties as a 'couple' portraying exactly the same persona.... So where's the difference..??

ted.

The difference is that no money changes hand.

If I hold a couples party I know full well that single guy A and single girl B phone each other up and agree to attend together but it's not a business transaction.

It is if the guy is only paying £20 instead of £40 lol!"

As I said above. I don't charge anyone to attend my parties.

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

there are a few people on this site who are escorts or on adult sites gaining money and guys are happy to pay for them , if only they had waited and seen them on fab they would have got it for free , no cynicism aside , people need to earn a living by whatever means possible and good luck if they can do that by doing something they love and not because its easy money or they were coerced into it.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I know of at least one club who have staff who charge for their services - it keeps the single guys happy as they get charged a lot of money for entry - Z

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I know of at least one club who have staff who charge for their services - it keeps the single guys happy as they get charged a lot of money for entry - Z"

So you pay to enter twice???????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

Yep, some people need to have a good long look in the mirror..

ted.

Having multiple partners doesn't usually involve a financial transaction.

So, if you go to a club, you expect to get in free then..?? Depends at what point you consider there to be a transaction..

ted."

Yes that's what I meant. But also, whether money changes hands or not.... so what? It's still sex.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I couldn't care less either way. I have no idea why some people look down on people in the sex industry yet have sex with multiple partners themselves.

Yep, some people need to have a good long look in the mirror..

ted.

Having multiple partners doesn't usually involve a financial transaction.

So, if you go to a club, you expect to get in free then..?? Depends at what point you consider there to be a transaction..

ted.

Yes that's what I meant. But also, whether money changes hands or not.... so what? It's still sex. "

Exactly, why should anyone care if someone is being paid to shag people whether by the club or the person they're shagging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think perhaps the guys are disgusted that they have to pay indirectly for a shag and it effects their pride. I've met an esort that also swings and she told me that the men she met whilst working were much more considerate than some of the guys she met through swinging, she said the swingers she'd met were more likely to treat her as if they were paying.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

a few clubs pay girls to play in the clubs and to draw in the men

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Anyone who thinks there's any difference between a hooker and a swinger other than the paid aspect is fooling themselves. A hooker can decide who she sleeps with just like a swinger can. A hooker can decide to play safe or not, just like a swinger can. And a hooker and a swinger both fuck as many people as they can for whatever reasons.

To suggest you'd be put off by it ... well, it's kinda hypocritical for swingers, who are supposed to be fully open and accepting sexually, to be put off or judge sex workers. We have discussed it, and we'd happily pay a beautiful girl for sex. And we probably will do. Just for the experience, and of course the fun. Why not?

But especially if she's there for her own pleasure, there's zero reason to be phased by it. I'd be SO interested and want to talk to her all night!

As well as fuck her if she was hot :P

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Some clubs pay them to be there.

I know at least two club that pay escorts to be there"

Sweet! Which ones?! :D Escorts are often hotter than the average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who thinks there's any difference between a hooker and a swinger other than the paid aspect is fooling themselves. A hooker can decide who she sleeps with just like a swinger can. A hooker can decide to play safe or not, just like a swinger can. And a hooker and a swinger both fuck as many people as they can for whatever reasons.

But especially if she's there for her own pleasure, there's zero reason to be phased by it. I'd be SO interested and want to talk to her all night!

As well as fuck her if she was hot :P"

Excellent post! Well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know girls who both meet for pleasure and also have paid meets at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have chatted to girls who do both. what they do for pleasure and what they do when paid are two very different things emotionally and physically!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That means that if they were at a club, who would know?

And, lets be honest, there are plenty of single guys and single girls who get together to go to clubs and parties as a 'couple' portraying exactly the same persona.... So where's the difference..??

ted.

The difference is that no money changes hand.

If I hold a couples party I know full well that single guy A and single girl B phone each other up and agree to attend together but it's not a business transaction.

It is if the guy is only paying £20 instead of £40 lol!"

Thank you! My point EXACTLY. A 'financial transaction' does NOT need to be a direct payment for something. It can be a way of reducing cost too, exactly as the comment said. It's still a transaction, but in this case to LOWER the cost to either or both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would be suprised how many women on fab also have escort profiles on other sites so chances are you have been in clubs with them before hand without knowing, but whats bad about a woman wanting to enjoy herself in her own time regardless of their job, what if an attractive surgeon was at a club who has had his hands in far worse places than an escort would delve would you not go then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people like free sex at swing clubs why they go ... a lot would be put off if had to pay .. or asked too .. if its all set up beforehand maybe ok ... but a lot would hate to get there money out .. when payed a lot to get in the club in the first place.

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

They are women on here who ask for pay to play. It not on they profile but when you chat with them . They tell the price of they services. Role play dominatrix and etc. On a sex site everything isn't free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really thinking about it I guess it ain't no issue , as long as I don't play with someone and after the fun she turns around and says that be £££

....lol

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Really thinking about it I guess it ain't no issue , as long as I don't play with someone and after the fun she turns around and says that be £££

....lol"

I wouldn't worry it's normally money upfront and they don't take cheques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahh tough one....we all get the messages....I'm horny wanna fuck..which to me is a turn off and I think...go get a prostitute theres a lot of guys on here that think its a free for all fuck fest. some people use it as a little spice of the sex life, some like to do all and everything. what do I like to do lol ....got you guessing. What I am trying to say is escorts get paid a lot of money for sex...us swingers its different as we do it for the kicks.....but theres a fine line between being paid and doing it for fun.....whos right or wrong that's a whole debateable subject. A woman that has 2 men swinging in a day or a woman that charges you for the 2 shags in a day. why does the woman that charges has to be slated. At the end of the day fabs is a site for single men to get free lovely enjoyable sexy sexy sex....don't slag off the ones that charge all for their own and isn't it lovely that this world is full of free choices in life..........cant wait now for the back slash x

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"There are a number of "enticers" ........ Even here on fab , paid by the clubs to be there and entice single guys especially ............. You can find them quite easily on the "meet today"

Sex sells............and EVERY man pays for it , one way or the other

is this true?

no not at all, absolute rubbish.

Well, if you include courtship meals, movies, trips etc, men probably do pay for quite a lot of sex - even if no money actually passes between the man and woman.

That's a hell of a generalisation. Now either I am very unlucky, or this is a bit of an urban legend, because the only thing I ever get out of a meet is a pint, and usually I buy them one right back.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"ahh tough one....we all get the messages....I'm horny wanna fuck..which to me is a turn off and I think...go get a prostitute theres a lot of guys on here that think its a free for all fuck fest. some people use it as a little spice of the sex life, some like to do all and everything. what do I like to do lol ....got you guessing. What I am trying to say is escorts get paid a lot of money for sex...us swingers its different as we do it for the kicks.....but theres a fine line between being paid and doing it for fun.....whos right or wrong that's a whole debateable subject. A woman that has 2 men swinging in a day or a woman that charges you for the 2 shags in a day. why does the woman that charges has to be slated. At the end of the day fabs is a site for single men to get free lovely enjoyable sexy sexy sex....don't slag off the ones that charge all for their own and isn't it lovely that this world is full of free choices in life..........cant wait now for the back slash x "

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

on her own free time no

paid to be there by club yes. I would not want any of my money knowingly or other wise going towards funding prostitution.

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By *aran1Man
over a year ago

littlehampton

Well prostituts r pay as you go end wife is contract !!

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"on her own free time no

paid to be there by club yes. I would not want any of my money knowingly or other wise going towards funding prostitution."

Why, a job is a job, most of us need one?

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