FabSwingers.com forum: Getting that all important first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was difficult to get my first meet with a very genuine nice couple which was well worth waiting for I have to say.

I know a lot of single guys complain about finding it hard to get a meet esp the first one and then become verified. I had the same difficulty. However if you have a decent profile are honest and have a few pic's then stick at it guys. Oh! and it also helps if you can accom as it helps show you are not some married guy looking to play away.

It also pays to read profiles FULLY and to only PM couples if you meet the criteria for kind of person they are looking for. Yes there are some time wasters on here but also some very genuine people. Of course time wasters are not confined to couples as I understand it many so called "single guys" are fakers and time wasters.

My advice is never to be pushy and give people time to get to know you and with a bit of luck you will succeed. I have met a couple who are very genuine and we clicked right away. If you get a thank you but no thank you don't be abusive just move on it will do you no good at all.

No reason why others can't find similar couples. That does not mean that a couple will want to meet you of course.

Just be patient and good luck and be sensible.

Will.