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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

This has probably been covered before on her but I've only really done the forum recently even though I've been on fab for years. I organise quite a few GBs etc, these days although having built up quite number of people I know I still have to advertise for new men for them. I've now started to only invite verified, preferably several verifications. Now I know why all have to have our first time. However if you look at someone who's been on 12 months plus with no verifications, what do you think?

1/ No one else wants to meet this person(s), why?

2/ People have met this person(s) But when they put the verification on, the person(s) didn't put it on their profile because it was so bad?

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"This has probably been covered before on her but I've only really done the forum recently even though I've been on fab for years. I organise quite a few GBs etc, these days although having built up quite number of people I know I still have to advertise for new men for them. I've now started to only invite verified, preferably several verifications. Now I know why all have to have our first time. However if you look at someone who's been on 12 months plus with no verifications, what do you think?

1/ No one else wants to meet this person(s), why?

2/ People have met this person(s) But when they put the verification on, the person(s) didn't put it on their profile because it was so bad? "

0r..

3/ They joined over a year ago but never really used the site until now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or person may have left so unable to see any

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Don't think anything until we've chatted & i've got some feeling of what they are like

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"or person may have left so unable to see any"

Thats very true, i've had 3 people who've verified me that have now left the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they joined, left cos they met someone.. If you need to know, ask! It's as simple as that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go by the profile and verifications, so can be annoying if there are none but like has been said just ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of your business?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I have never arranged a GB. But I can imagine how difficult it must be.

You must come across so many people who can talk the talk but not walk the walk. Due to the sheer amount of people you are talking to, I gather that you are looking to minimise this with the least effort. Therefore would not necessarily have the time nor the inclination to message every guy who does not have verifications. Or very few.

Back to your original question.

Yes those are reasons, probably the main two reasons. Lots more exist. But I am put off if no verifications if here over a year. We all have limited time and I for one want to make sure I am chatting with someone I can potentially meet up with, not just chat to.

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops


"I have never arranged a GB. But I can imagine how difficult it must be.

You must come across so many people who can talk the talk but not walk the walk. Due to the sheer amount of people you are talking to, I gather that you are looking to minimise this with the least effort. Therefore would not necessarily have the time nor the inclination to message every guy who does not have verifications. Or very few.

Back to your original question.

Yes those are reasons, probably the main two reasons. Lots more exist. But I am put off if no verifications if here over a year. We all have limited time and I for one want to make sure I am chatting with someone I can potentially meet up with, not just chat to. "
all the above

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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I've taken the trouble to mail guys who've applied and say sorry but you've no verifications. I've now had several reply saying they have them but don't display them, I've mailed them back to say that many women and couples would just block them.

I wonder do these guys think that people will desire them more if they look pure and unsullied by previous sexual contact on here?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

... or play in clubs and aren't bothered about veris?

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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"... or play in clubs and aren't bothered about veris?"

Well why are they applying for places at GBs on here?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I find that men with verifications can be just as flaky as men without. They are one of the tools provided, not the be all and end all or the search.

Anyway, if the profile is good, and the pictures are good, then I am all for helping someone get verified. Though the OP can use any filter he wants to out people, I think helping someone for the future is much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've taken the trouble to mail guys who've applied and say sorry but you've no verifications. I've now had several reply saying they have them but don't display them, I've mailed them back to say that many women and couples would just block them.

I wonder do these guys think that people will desire them more if they look pure and unsullied by previous sexual contact on here? "

Maybe they are like me and just like to keep their verifications private and choose not to show them. If they have the verification tick, what does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... or play in clubs and aren't bothered about veris?

Well why are they applying for places at GBs on here? "

If a guy enjoys GBs at a club, why wouldn't he enjoy GBs at a private party?

And he might well have no verifications from his club GBs - I ain't ever seen play stop while the last guy writes down his site-name and asks for a verification!

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By *eddonistik OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've taken the trouble to mail guys who've applied and say sorry but you've no verifications. I've now had several reply saying they have them but don't display them, I've mailed them back to say that many women and couples would just block them.

I wonder do these guys think that people will desire them more if they look pure and unsullied by previous sexual contact on here?

Maybe they are like me and just like to keep their verifications private and choose not to show them. If they have the verification tick, what does it really matter?"

I like to see who they're from so I'm sure they're genuine and anyway both of tonight's ladies have insisted on them. One guy just quite arsey with me and sadly blocked me before I could block him, he was the one asking for an invite

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