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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, i'm 23. And quite a lot when I have a look at a profile, like what I see, I get.. the user has blocked people of your age.

Now I understand blocking people outside of what you want, but I think people should be more open minded about age ranges. I know some extremely immature 30 year olds and some rather mature and ncie to talk to 18 year olds.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

So why do you draw the line at 35?

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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago

Round the corner

Cos he ( thinks) were past it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos he ( thinks) were past it !!"

You not passed it all xx

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"So why do you draw the line at 35?"

Wine meets keyboard moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos he ( thinks) were past it !!"

Little does he know eh?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Crikey does that mean I've only got 6 years till I'm past it!

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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago

Round the corner

He has a lot to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do you draw the line at 35?"

This answer should be good

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Surely its up to the individual what ages we want to meet.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"So why do you draw the line at 35?

This answer should be good "

You're out of luck at 36 mate

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By *utmegsMan
over a year ago

Closer than you think

Blimey, I appear to have been past it for some time.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

[Removed by poster at 01/08/13 22:11:17]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be well past it then @ 47

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair though you have to have a age range . These people who have 18 to 99 ? Would you really have a threesome with a 18 year old and a 99 year old ! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im way too old at nearly 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 47 so no chance for me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair though you have to have a age range . These people who have 18 to 99 ? Would you really have a threesome with a 18 year old and a 99 year old ! Xxx "

Bet the verifications would make good reading though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"So, i'm 23. And quite a lot when I have a look at a profile, like what I see, I get.. the user has blocked people of your age.

Now I understand blocking people outside of what you want, but I think people should be more open minded about age ranges. I know some extremely immature 30 year olds and some rather mature and ncie to talk to 18 year olds."

You are 8 years younger than my own child. So, I would not be interested no matter how mature you insist you are.

Many people would feel the same. You just have to accept that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair though you have to have a age range . These people who have 18 to 99 ? Would you really have a threesome with a 18 year old and a 99 year old ! Xxx

Bet the verifications would make good reading though "
Yeah but 99. It would be like opening a cheese toastie

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?"

He didn't actually, he said he thinks people should be more open minded about age ranges.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"So why do you draw the line at 35?"

well at least it only took 2 minutes to spot the irony in the post... lol

i'll look for the answer tomorrow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OP means those who have (for example):- 18-35(only)

anyway, theres tasty fanny at almost all ages, never give up

and when u read the complaining profiles that do limit themselves, have a laugh and think u wouldnt fuck them anyway(but dont message them that)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?"

He didn't ask for views actually, he just said people should be more open minded even though he's set an upper age limit himself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get very sensitive on here about age!

We were both ogling some attractive young women today - and then said it was funny that they were probably out of our age limit on here. But we would have

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?"

i think if he is talking about age ranges and the complaints about being blocked and maturity and all that it is absolutely valid that his own is brought up....

I would like the hope that since he has an age range which I assume he would like respected without question, that he would do the same with others likewise..........

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"So why do you draw the line at 35?

well at least it only took 2 minutes to spot the irony in the post... lol

i'll look for the answer tomorrow..."

It took me less than 2 minutes to spot the irony, I has to type a reply on my phone y'know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?

He didn't ask for views actually, he just said people should be more open minded even though he's set an upper age limit himself! "

his age range is a guide as I mentioned above..it doesnt exclude people under or over his age range..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?

He didn't ask for views actually, he just said people should be more open minded even though he's set an upper age limit himself! "

The whole idea of a public forum is to get across your veiwa and opinions

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"So why do you draw the line at 35?"

lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older woman but never been with one yet though,the thing I find annoying is a lot have 25 as their limit and I'm 24 so get to miss out on a message lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have many guys in their 20's and found them to be a waste of our time. They simply were not what we were looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?

He didn't ask for views actually, he just said people should be more open minded even though he's set an upper age limit himself!

The whole idea of a public forum is to get across your veiwa and opinions "

Yes and that's what we all did but you were the one who said we were all 'getting on the past it bandwagon'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?

He didn't ask for views actually, he just said people should be more open minded even though he's set an upper age limit himself!

The whole idea of a public forum is to get across your veiwa and opinions

Yes and that's what we all did but you were the one who said we were all 'getting on the past it bandwagon' "

Just think the guys needlessly getting a hard time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be well past it then @ 47 "
never are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not getting at the replies, and im ssaying again:

the OP does NOT have an age range limit!

thats why it ISNT so IRONIC...his search range is limited, but he does not block those outwith his age range

either I havent read this well or others are being a bit twatty...i choose the latter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

noone younger than our eldest daughter is how we play it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also assume when he means blocking those that u dont want, its obviously about the sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be well past it then @ 47 never are x"

It was a tongue in cheek comment.. But no I'm not passed it

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"not getting at the replies, and im ssaying again:

the OP does NOT have an age range limit!

thats why it ISNT so IRONIC...his search range is limited, but he does not block those outwith his age range

either I havent read this well or others are being a bit twatty...i choose the latter "

but others use it as a GUIDE........

some may be stricter than others with that GUIDE

if he is trying to reply when he is outside that guide he certainly isn't respecting what they are after...

same as if it was a single guy block...

or a mm block....

but yes... I think you are being "twatty" with this one.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, i'm 23. And quite a lot when I have a look at a profile, like what I see, I get.. the user has blocked people of your age.

Now I understand blocking people outside of what you want, but I think people should be more open minded about age ranges. I know some extremely immature 30 year olds and some rather mature and ncie to talk to 18 year olds."

now you see, you used the s word..,so I should be more open minded about age should I? I also know some lovely 18 year olds...bright, attractive...I have little in common with them but will spend time with them in certain circumstances...do I want to fuck them? Absolutely not...do I want to feel like someone's pervy old aunty...not at all.,

perhaps I should tell you that you should be more open minded about being straight because I want to meet bi guys and your preference excludes me or if I was a smoker that you should be more open minded about meeting me because after all there is such a thing as toothpaste...

I reserve the right to choose who I invite into my home, my body and my relationship and would never dream of telling anyone in this life style what they should or shouldn't include in their preferences...

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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago

Round the corner


"not getting at the replies, and im ssaying again:

the OP does NOT have an age range limit!

thats why it ISNT so IRONIC...his search range is limited, but he does not block those outwith his age range

either I havent read this well or others are being a bit twatty...i choose the latter

but others use it as a GUIDE........

some may be stricter than others with that GUIDE

if he is trying to reply when he is outside that guide he certainly isn't respecting what they are after...

same as if it was a single guy block...

or a mm block....

but yes... I think you are being "twatty" with this one....."
.... Wasn't tryin to ba twat was trying to input a bit of humour if I've upset anyone dint mean to sorry but shush now he will extend his age limit as he gets older anyway

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

my comment wasn't aimed at you shecat..... so if it reads that way i apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you get old you realise what you should have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not getting at the replies, and im ssaying again:

the OP does NOT have an age range limit!

thats why it ISNT so IRONIC...his search range is limited, but he does not block those outwith his age range

either I havent read this well or others are being a bit twatty...i choose the latter

but others use it as a GUIDE........

some may be stricter than others with that GUIDE

if he is trying to reply when he is outside that guide he certainly isn't respecting what they are after...

same as if it was a single guy block...

or a mm block....

but yes... I think you are being "twatty" with this one....."

not exactly trying to contact them is he?...since he is blocked?

Well I'm pretty open to anyone that mails, regardless of age,gender or sexuality

and I find most who have narrow age ranges are the ones who complain about the site also being full of time wasters and fantasists, so theres my twatty input

let the twatness commence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not getting at the replies, and im ssaying again:

the OP does NOT have an age range limit!

thats why it ISNT so IRONIC...his search range is limited, but he does not block those outwith his age range

either I havent read this well or others are being a bit twatty...i choose the latter

but others use it as a GUIDE........

some may be stricter than others with that GUIDE

if he is trying to reply when he is outside that guide he certainly isn't respecting what they are after...

same as if it was a single guy block...

or a mm block....

but yes... I think you are being "twatty" with this one.....

not exactly trying to contact them is he?...since he is blocked?

Well I'm pretty open to anyone that mails, regardless of age,gender or sexuality

and I find most who have narrow age ranges are the ones who complain about the site also being full of time wasters and fantasists, so theres my twatty input

let the twatness commence"

but he'd only know he was blocked by trying to message them wouldn't he?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

not exactly trying to contact them is he?...since he is blocked?

Well I'm pretty open to anyone that mails, regardless of age,gender or sexuality

and I find most who have narrow age ranges are the ones who complain about the site also being full of time wasters and fantasists, so theres my twatty input

let the twatness commence"

JFC paddy go and read the 1st line again.....

"when I have a look at a profile, like what I see, I get.. the user has blocked people of your age."

that would only happen if he hit the "send message" or "send wink" button

but cool... keep biting off your nose to spite your face to make your point..

I'll just keep talking about respecting peoples age ranges.... whether they be flexible or strict

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

not exactly trying to contact them is he?...since he is blocked?

Well I'm pretty open to anyone that mails, regardless of age,gender or sexuality

and I find most who have narrow age ranges are the ones who complain about the site also being full of time wasters and fantasists, so theres my twatty input

let the twatness commence

JFC paddy go and read the 1st line again.....

"when I have a look at a profile, like what I see, I get.. the user has blocked people of your age."

that would only happen if he hit the "send message" or "send wink" button

but cool... keep biting off your nose to spite your face to make your point..

I'll just keep talking about respecting peoples age ranges.... whether they be flexible or strict"

FFs _abio, I can read and dissect sentences...

the guys basically said "I think people should be more open minded"

he hasnt disrespected anyone

now stop talking arsey about it, UI'm noty biting my nose etc etc, I personally dont give a toss how I'm viewed on the forums...

and just defending the guys initial post...its hardly that bad to warrant some of the responses

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By *he MuncherMan
over a year ago

Dundee

The Original poster makes a point even if it seems a little silly there is a serious point.

At what age do you draw the line, For me i said 80 knowing that the chances of any females that old still swinging is remote.

At my age 48 i see a whole hell of a lot of Females and Couples with a cut off age of guess what 45, A little bit silly and down right insulting in my opinion.

So the question should be "at what age does my dick fall off" really....lol

Shouldn't we all take a look at our limits and ourselves and profiles so we all have fun and the bitchyness and moaning and complaining can go where it belongs..........In the toilet.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So why do you draw the line at 35?"

Because HE'S entitled, HE can have preferences, no one HE fancies should exclude him.

You have to laugh at the irony on these forums...sigh...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why you all getting on the oh we must be past it bandwagon the guy never said that he just asked what your views are on how people choose age ranges ?

i think if he is talking about age ranges and the complaints about being blocked and maturity and all that it is absolutely valid that his own is brought up....

I would like the hope that since he has an age range which I assume he would like respected without question, that he would do the same with others likewise.........."

An optimist...bless!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So, i'm 23. And quite a lot when I have a look at a profile, like what I see, I get.. the user has blocked people of your age.

Now I understand blocking people outside of what you want, but I think people should be more open minded about age ranges. I know some extremely immature 30 year olds and some rather mature and ncie to talk to 18 year olds.

now you see, you used the s word..,so I should be more open minded about age should I? I also know some lovely 18 year olds...bright, attractive...I have little in common with them but will spend time with them in certain circumstances...do I want to fuck them? Absolutely not...do I want to feel like someone's pervy old aunty...not at all.,

perhaps I should tell you that you should be more open minded about being straight because I want to meet bi guys and your preference excludes me or if I was a smoker that you should be more open minded about meeting me because after all there is such a thing as toothpaste...

I reserve the right to choose who I invite into my home, my body and my relationship and would never dream of telling anyone in this life style what they should or shouldn't include in their preferences..."

*Applauds*

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"So, i'm 23. And quite a lot when I have a look at a profile, like what I see, I get.. the user has blocked people of your age.

Now I understand blocking people outside of what you want, but I think people should be more open minded about age ranges. I know some extremely immature 30 year olds and some rather mature and ncie to talk to 18 year olds."

Well when your open minded enough to shag an 80year old,get back to us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maturity has nothing to do with, its the age nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our age limit set at 35-36, however that is because my (female half) parents are 37, and i will not go older then them, everyone has a different reason as to why they set there age limit, each to their own i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number but why do so many put a limit of 55, at 60 I am still very horny and capable. Just remember all you kinksters you are getting older I have been turned down by a contact who would accept someone 12 years younger but not 8 years older that's just hypocritical.

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By *esplease!xMan
over a year ago

corfe mullen


"Im way too old at nearly 50"

Your only as old as the man you feel....and I am happy to help you knock a few years off lol x

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm still waiting for his response, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow lots of replies to this one, I didn't even realise I had an age range set. Ever so sorry about that one, it is a little ironic. However, my age range is only a guide, and as a guide I do probably for a certain% of the time prefer people a certain age. But I don't block anyone, I might miss out on a good opportunity to experience something new, or at least a good time. I would probably just chose to not to reply.

I wasn't meaning to sound twatty in this one, that is the last thing I want. I actually just wanted to hear peoples opinions on it, and mine is that whatever you like, I think people should be open minded. But that is my opinion, I understand if peoples opinions differ and I wont force mine on anyone.

I actually have mine set to straight due to the number of messages I was getting from gay men. Again I didn't want to block people all males, my profile even states I am looking for another bi guy for threesomes. So straight thing was just for people who don't read profiles, I would never have a one on one with a man but would be more than up for 2 guys and a girl or two.

Maybe this is down to my lack of knowledge of fab settings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you were a lady of around our age it would ok tho ...... well in most cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow lots of replies to this one, I didn't even realise I had an age range set. Ever so sorry about that one, it is a little ironic. However, my age range is only a guide, and as a guide I do probably for a certain% of the time prefer people a certain age. But I don't block anyone, I might miss out on a good opportunity to experience something new, or at least a good time. I would probably just chose to not to reply.

I wasn't meaning to sound twatty in this one, that is the last thing I want. I actually just wanted to hear peoples opinions on it, and mine is that whatever you like, I think people should be open minded. But that is my opinion, I understand if peoples opinions differ and I wont force mine on anyone.

I actually have mine set to straight due to the number of messages I was getting from gay men. Again I didn't want to block people all males, my profile even states I am looking for another bi guy for threesomes. So straight thing was just for people who don't read profiles, I would never have a one on one with a man but would be more than up for 2 guys and a girl or two.

Maybe this is down to my lack of knowledge of fab settings.

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ur lack of knowlege had nothing to do with it, u asked a decent question and people clearly had not read the question properly then made assumptions.And as i said before, the ironic comments(sounded like fun , didnt make sense at all)..I understood it very clearly..and perhaps some should actually read the preferences of others that exclude them soley on age preferance

my own theories why some have their age preferences have been discussed on a few threads, again I stick to what I think...if I'm shagging someone the age of my mother..Ive no real incling to think I have weird values etc etc...I'm here to have fun with various ages, above and below my preferred age range(legally of course)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly have no age range....

As long as we get on an we are attracted to each other, I'm happy. I probably search for people around my age more.... But the only reason for that is... They are normally looking for similar things.... I don't have any age limits!!

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