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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning guys.

I was at a girly last night and the conversation was flowing and I was shocked to learn that a few of the girls there would love to have a dildo, even play with it with their partners but their partners have said no, at times it has actually caused an argument between them.

My friend last night said she would always orgasm with her vibe but not always orgasm with her partner so maybe her partner felt threatened by the vibe?

So, my question is, guys why would you not like your partner using a dildo or vibe either on her own or during play? Girls, how would you handle it if your partner had a big problem with you using toys ?

Have a great day you fab people x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Morning guys.

I was at a girly last night and the conversation was flowing and I was shocked to learn that a few of the girls there would love to have a dildo, even play with it with their partners but their partners have said no, at times it has actually caused an argument between them.

My friend last night said she would always orgasm with her vibe but not always orgasm with her partner so maybe her partner felt threatened by the vibe?

So, my question is, guys why would you not like your partner using a dildo or vibe either on her own or during play? Girls, how would you handle it if your partner had a big problem with you using toys ?

Have a great day you fab people x

"

Hell yes re using a toy on a partner or even just watching, Either way its win win and until they make one that mows the lawn and does odd jobs then I for one wont feel threatened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toys are totally fantastic!! Use them lads...she will think more of you for it too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Toys are totally fantastic!! Use them lads...she will think more of you for it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband was threatened by toys (although he bought me my first one!!) in a fit of jealous rage he snapped my rabbit!! Ok granted that made me cum n he couldn't but bloody hell I was finding the beads inside for Weeks after!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand guys feeling threatend by a partner using a vibe.The guys must be insecure and feeling the vibe is better than them.I think vibes are great as long as they are used by both partners rather than instead of real sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought all guys liked to use toys on women or even just watch....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought all guys liked to use toys on women or even just watch...."

So did I, couldnt believe my ears last night and even from the posts here, like a guy destroying her rabbit, seems we may have been lucky, finding guys quite chilled out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anybody even tried to kill my Derek he'd get him rammed up his backside I tell ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love using toys with women,but that's me... To me anything that can make a woman cum is a great thing and nothing more turns me on than seeing a woman cum no matter what it is I'm doing or using x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me and matt love playing with toys he like to try new things with them and our sex life is more exciting and adventerous at times bekki. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's great using toy's when with a women or a couple, especially on really long sessions.

Also great to lick the toy clean after playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anybody even tried to kill my Derek he'd get him rammed up his backside I tell ya "

this made me chuckle! Excellent name choice is Derek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using toys is fantastic csn be really sensuall and not just for the girls!! Crash bang wollop x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

toys add a bit of spice and excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anybody even tried to kill my Derek he'd get him rammed up his backside I tell ya

this made me chuckle! Excellent name choice is Derek! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see many men on here feeling threatened by toys.. but it's a common thing outside this lifestyle..

The guys don't want toys that are bigger or better in their eyes.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think the idea is to please your partner in anyway possible a toy is a toy a woman will always want the real thing in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think the idea is to please your partner in anyway possible a toy is a toy a woman will always want the real thing in the end "

How about the real thing and a toy at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lisa loves it mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bev got really annoyed when i used my toy on her was a model of an airoplane and the wings caught her fanny lips lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmfao

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

Threaten him with a chastity cage if he's jealous, "If I can't play with mine, you can't play with yours"

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I thought all guys liked to use toys on women or even just watch...."
not me

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By *imtomyMan
over a year ago

manchester


"I thought all guys liked to use toys on women or even just watch...."
definitely. can give you chance to get ready for another round also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love playing with toys both equally, as others have said adds excitement and spice.

However saying this Ian did recently buy me a body wand one word Addictive.

Although handy when he's away for 7 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think the idea is to please your partner in anyway possible a toy is a toy a woman will always want the real thing in the end

How about the real thing and a toy at the same time "

Done this, fantastic when I come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is an event not a chore..

We love toys, not using them together all the time adds to the fun....

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm addicted to toys. The more the merrier.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

I by my wife all her toys and the bigger the better. I love using them on her and just sit back and watching her use them sends me in xtc. Any man who feels intimadated by toys really needs to give their head a shake. They are wonderfull things to add to your sex life.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

The only guy that doesn't like his partner using toys either together or alone is insecure in his own abilities. Personally idon't see the issue, I'd like to see her toy buy her the next pair of designer shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt be a problem its all. a part of playtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and toys don't get along well, it runs on batteries,

I run off stamina, will power and a heart....

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

My hubby's never liked toys so I have mine hidden away and only use them when he's not home.

I'm looking forward to enjoying my toys with my playmate this weekend

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Read the title and had a mental picture of a group of dildoes hanging around on the streets like a pack of feral teenagers giving lip and nasty looks to poor innocent passers-by...perhaps all wearing hoodies and Burberry baseball caps, smoking Silk Cut and swigging White Lightning from 3 litre bottles

(Other stereotypes are available)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning guys.

I was at a girly last night and the conversation was flowing and I was shocked to learn that a few of the girls there would love to have a dildo, even play with it with their partners but their partners have said no, at times it has actually caused an argument between them.

My friend last night said she would always orgasm with her vibe but not always orgasm with her partner so maybe her partner felt threatened by the vibe?

So, my question is, guys why would you not like your partner using a dildo or vibe either on her own or during play? Girls, how would you handle it if your partner had a big problem with you using toys ?

Have a great day you fab people x

"

Embrace the Dildo, love playing with toys. Like to use a bullet vibe and my tongue at the same time. The combination of the two does seem to work wonders!

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By *uiet confidenceMan
over a year ago

Warrington

This is very probably untrue, but a friend of mine had a reputation for getting up to all sorts of things with women he hit on in nightclubs. On one occasion he returned from the walk of shame the next morning and told us how he'd been round to a girl's house only to find out she was a single mum. He told us that they started getting down to some fun and she got really horny and asked him to put something up her bum. My friend claims to have used his finger for a bit and then at her request looked around for something bigger, eventually picking up and inserting her son's Buzz Lightyear toy, with the comment "to infinity and beyond!"

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By *reddyfrumpMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

If anything I find it fun to use a dildo or vibrator on my partner at the same time as fucking them. Always seems to go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i must say i love using toys on a lady its such a turn on for me to knowing im driving them wild to the point that they are so worked up and are going crazy and i alway end up having a great nite to

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