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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, after a quick browse and a bit of very cross refrencing i'm intrigued.

There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody.

so my question is, does it matter? would you meet someone regardless of their previous meets?

as usual, I expect a few to misunderstand my question and attack me and my profile, but i'm sure a few will read and discuss in an adult manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i like a profile and like the person im not bothered about veris unless bareback is mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody."

Sorry - I don't understand this bit!

How are you establishing that these guys have "met/played with just about anybody" ? Do you not think they may have their own preferences, like most on site?

What do you define as 'anybody' ?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If I like someone then I like them, who they have met previously doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i check someones verfications first and if there is someone on their verifications that i would class as an undesirable then i wouldnt meet them... my own personal preference though xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i check someones verfications first and if there is someone on their verifications that i would class as an undesirable then i wouldnt meet them... my own personal preference though xx"

this is what I mean Obi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i check someones verfications first and if there is someone on their verifications that i would class as an undesirable then i wouldnt meet them... my own personal preference though xx

this is what I mean Obi."

Ah - you mean personal preference then!

Nothing you can ever do to change that i'm afraid! Although regarding veri's - I often wonder what people don't know if they're hidden on a profile. Or how people would know in a club environment.

Obviously if they're visible then that's one thing. But I guess it could be argued that what you don't know can't hurt you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i check someones verfications first and if there is someone on their verifications that i would class as an undesirable then i wouldnt meet them... my own personal preference though xx

this is what I mean Obi.

Ah - you mean personal preference then!

Nothing you can ever do to change that i'm afraid! Although regarding veri's - I often wonder what people don't know if they're hidden on a profile. Or how people would know in a club environment.

Obviously if they're visible then that's one thing. But I guess it could be argued that what you don't know can't hurt you! "

Well yes! of course personal preference, hence the title.

Also my post is in no way a desire to change things, it's just a question, nothing more. jeeez!

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"So, after a quick browse and a bit of very cross refrencing i'm intrigued.

There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody.

so my question is, does it matter? would you meet someone regardless of their previous meets?

as usual, I expect a few to misunderstand my question and attack me and my profile, but i'm sure a few will read and discuss in an adult manner. "

"There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody". You imply these women do not care who they meet. You also imply these guys will play with anyone. Just because they get more meets than you does not mean they will play with anyone. You also come across as jealous of those guys who have had lots of meets. It's a swingers site and people meet. You are trying to make yourself look good by implying you don't just meet anybody. There will be very very very few people who will meet just anybody. We all have standards and preferences.

You knew what you where doing and saying by starting this thread. You tried to deny it by saying people will misunderstand you. I also went to school OP.

When people start threads like this they think it will put them in good light. It doesn't it just shows a side of you that is not nice and possibly loses you future meets with some people.

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So, after a quick browse and a bit of very cross refrencing i'm intrigued.

There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody.

so my question is, does it matter? would you meet someone regardless of their previous meets?

as usual, I expect a few to misunderstand my question and attack me and my profile, but i'm sure a few will read and discuss in an adult manner.

"There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody". You imply these women do not care who they meet. You also imply these guys will play with anyone. Just because they get more meets than you does not mean they will play with anyone. You also come across as jealous of those guys who have had lots of meets. It's a swingers site and people meet. You are trying to make yourself look good by implying you don't just meet anybody. There will be very very very few people who will meet just anybody. We all have standards and preferences.

You knew what you where doing and saying by starting this thread. You tried to deny it by saying people will misunderstand you. I also went to school OP.

When people start threads like this they think it will put them in good light. It doesn't it just shows a side of you that is not nice and possibly loses you future meets with some people. "

Jeez give the guy a break, he's only asking a question?? This is the sort of reply that would put anyone off starting a thread on here.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


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Jeez give the guy a break, he's only asking a question?? This is the sort of reply that would put anyone off starting a thread on here."

I totally disagree. The OP was being very devious with his thread and the way he worded it. As I said in my previous post I also went to school and got an education.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take my time before jumping in the sack with someone. Always get to know a guy first. If they ain't willing to chat awhile, then they ain't for me... I also check their veri's and pics for bare backing as that's a big no no for me and also socially meet first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told once by a lady she did not know if she should meet me because her husband said he would not have gone with one of the women I had met. He does not swing any way. Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesnt matter how many they have met, usualy i dont care who they have met, depends what sort of things they say on their verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, after a quick browse and a bit of very cross refrencing i'm intrigued.

There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody.

so my question is, does it matter? would you meet someone regardless of their previous meets?

as usual, I expect a few to misunderstand my question and attack me and my profile, but i'm sure a few will read and discuss in an adult manner. "

I don't think anyone will ever truly know if the person they are meeting has met 10 or 100 people.

Verifications are easily not displayed or they might not have received one.

It is more a question of getting to know someone and ascertaining whether they are suited, not how many notches they have accumulated.

Also some people are more active swingers, and that should not then be assumed that they will play with "anyone".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet virgins.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So, after a quick browse and a bit of very cross refrencing i'm intrigued.

There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody.

so my question is, does it matter? would you meet someone regardless of their previous meets?

as usual, I expect a few to misunderstand my question and attack me and my profile, but i'm sure a few will read and discuss in an adult manner. "

Yes. If they've met someone who openly states they only do bareback and loves being a cum dump at gangbangs, or they have pictures showing themselves balls deep, bareback in a variety of pussies, claim to be straight but have themselves pictured hanging off another mans knob... they won't be for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, after a quick browse and a bit of very cross refrencing i'm intrigued.

There seem to be a few women that have met guys that will and have met/played with just about anybody.

so my question is, does it matter? would you meet someone regardless of their previous meets?

as usual, I expect a few to misunderstand my question and attack me and my profile, but i'm sure a few will read and discuss in an adult manner.

I don't think anyone will ever truly know if the person they are meeting has met 10 or 100 people.

Verifications are easily not displayed or they might not have received one.

It is more a question of getting to know someone and ascertaining whether they are suited, not how many notches they have accumulated.

Also some people are more active swingers, and that should not then be assumed that they will play with "anyone"."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Jeez give the guy a break, he's only asking a question?? This is the sort of reply that would put anyone off starting a thread on here.

I totally disagree. The OP was being very devious with his thread and the way he worded it. As I said in my previous post I also went to school and got an education. "

I think your education let you down badly!

ALL I was doing was asking a question!

There was no ulteria motive, no jealousy, or deviousness.

Just a question and some answered it very well.

For what ever reason, you chose to attack me? I hope today is a happier less paranoid day for you?

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