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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung" Agree pictures of the male groin area is not appealing. i think most people know what a cock looks like and other shots would be more appealing to couples and fems. A face pic would probably improve chances of meets. However there are valid discretion reasons for most people on here, I notice you have no face pics on your profile and i dont on mine. I do send face pics with every email and accept friends request, from interested people. There are different expectations from single men with regards profiles and pics, that couples and women don't have to. It is hypocritical and unfair, but that is the way of this and similar sites, due to the high numbers of men. I am not moaning about it, it is just the way it is. happy swinging everyone | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung" If in doubt just do a google image search using the URL of the photo. I have come across a few on here that use fake cock shots. | |||
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"Yes i understand discretion is needed by some...im not on a picture witch hunt,just that certain single guys just display or send cock shots,then rant that there getting no where on the site...happy swinging to you x" yep can understand and agree with your point | |||
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"Agreed to most of the above. There's something also about leaving a little bit to the imagination. Plus i have a small cock! " | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung If in doubt just do a google image search using the URL of the photo. I have come across a few on here that use fake cock shots." haha oh never thought of doing that,will have to give it a go | |||
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"I will refrain from commenting on your pictures. As a single guy I will put up what image I deem appropriate and tasteful. It works for me" well that's great for you like i said not on a witch hunt. | |||
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"Oh the irony but it's okay as you're a couple so won't be struggling for attention. Single blokes are slated for the sky remote pics. Can I ask, is the bottle of Budweiser there as an illustration of depth? " No the bud bottle isn't illustrating depth..like when women have pics of mulitlpe toys in their vagina....what does that illustrate? | |||
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" If in doubt just do a google image search using the URL of the photo. I have come across a few on here that use fake cock shots." They have fake cocks?.... Discretion for me, and I always provide a face pic for anyone likely to meet.... | |||
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" If in doubt just do a google image search using the URL of the photo. I have come across a few on here that use fake cock shots." They have fake cocks?.... Discretion for me, and I always provide a face pic for anyone likely to meet.... | |||
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"Dont agree that anyone should display on public pics, but do agree if your genuine and looking to meet, you should have at least 1 in private pics to attach to messages, regardless of what gender you are." | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground" That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung" I've got totally the opposite really more normal shots a about 4-5 cock n body shots profile pic as you can see is a face pic n I still get nowhere lol Guess I must be a munter eh lol | |||
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"Ok I'm going to stick up for single men here and say that I never have any problems being sent face pics! It states on my profile what I'm looking for and that a face pic will help me decide if I want to meet them or not. I also ask them not to send a c*ck pic because at my age I already know what they look like. SO....to be fair to 'most' of the single men who contact me, I get sent a face pic with their first message or certainly with the second or third message. If I don't find them attractive or they live to far, I'll politely say no thanks and won't send a face pic back and I don't usually have any problems with that. If I feel that someone is not quite genuine shall we say, and don't send a pic after a few messages, then I'll just stop answering them. This system has worked for me in the time I've been here. I get the odd numpty who'll tell me it's my loss for not wanting to meet them but I've survived that loss quite well so far So it's a thumbs up for 'most' of the single men who've contacted me " Hear hear. Well said x | |||
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"well I show the reverse of my groin area " And very nice it is too | |||
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"Ok I'm going to stick up for single men here and say that I never have any problems being sent face pics! It states on my profile what I'm looking for and that a face pic will help me decide if I want to meet them or not. I also ask them not to send a c*ck pic because at my age I already know what they look like. SO....to be fair to 'most' of the single men who contact me, I get sent a face pic with their first message or certainly with the second or third message. If I don't find them attractive or they live to far, I'll politely say no thanks and won't send a face pic back and I don't usually have any problems with that. If I feel that someone is not quite genuine shall we say, and don't send a pic after a few messages, then I'll just stop answering them. This system has worked for me in the time I've been here. I get the odd numpty who'll tell me it's my loss for not wanting to meet them but I've survived that loss quite well so far So it's a thumbs up for 'most' of the single men who've contacted me Hear hear. Well said x " Well someone has to stick up for you lot now and again x | |||
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"I will refrain from commenting on your pictures. As a single guy I will put up what image I deem appropriate and tasteful. It works for me" I agree | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung I've got totally the opposite really more normal shots a about 4-5 cock n body shots profile pic as you can see is a face pic n I still get nowhere lol Guess I must be a munter eh lol " well u and me both dude lol | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills." Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha " A mop and floor wax? | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha A mop and floor wax?" Yes! And if you can use a washing machine aswell it's a sure thing! | |||
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"yawn another 'arent single men terrible whilst most women n cpls do the exact samething but dont get commented' on thread...the guys using those pics possibly do it in response to numbers of profiles stating wont meet without them...still lets just blame the single men easier n neater that way..." Single man revolution!!!!!!!!! | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung" Haven't read all the thread but did look at your profile pics , how can you say that when you don't have any face pics up and have not left any thing to the imagination with some of other pics? I understand how it's everyone's own profile to do with what they wish but really don't understand why some people can do one thing and then get upset when others have done the same. I think everyone should use the site the way it works best for them and allow others to do same | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha A mop and floor wax? Yes! And if you can use a washing machine aswell it's a sure thing! " When I said I wanted to take you for a spin I didn't mean in the washing machine | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha A mop and floor wax? Yes! And if you can use a washing machine aswell it's a sure thing! When I said I wanted to take you for a spin I didn't mean in the washing machine " Oh dear we seemed to have gotten our wires crossed then, because when I told you I was a very dirty girl I wasn't talking about sexually... | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha A mop and floor wax? Yes! And if you can use a washing machine aswell it's a sure thing! When I said I wanted to take you for a spin I didn't mean in the washing machine Oh dear we seemed to have gotten our wires crossed then, because when I told you I was a very dirty girl I wasn't talking about sexually... " Then can I interest you in a soapy scrub? | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha A mop and floor wax? Yes! And if you can use a washing machine aswell it's a sure thing! When I said I wanted to take you for a spin I didn't mean in the washing machine Oh dear we seemed to have gotten our wires crossed then, because when I told you I was a very dirty girl I wasn't talking about sexually... Then can I interest you in a soapy scrub?" Bit nearer to my annual Christmas shower and it's a deal! | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha A mop and floor wax? Yes! And if you can use a washing machine aswell it's a sure thing! When I said I wanted to take you for a spin I didn't mean in the washing machine Oh dear we seemed to have gotten our wires crossed then, because when I told you I was a very dirty girl I wasn't talking about sexually... Then can I interest you in a soapy scrub? Bit nearer to my annual Christmas shower and it's a deal! " You shower once a year? Not sure if I should bring a loofa or a chisel | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung" Im sorry but going by your own profile pix I think its a little hypocritical | |||
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"with a dirty floor in the back ground That gripe comes up so often I'm starting to think I should buff my floor to a pristine shine and woo the ladies with my magnificent housekeeping skills. Ahh SB finally a man who gets what we look for in a hot guy! Ha A mop and floor wax? Yes! And if you can use a washing machine aswell it's a sure thing! When I said I wanted to take you for a spin I didn't mean in the washing machine Oh dear we seemed to have gotten our wires crossed then, because when I told you I was a very dirty girl I wasn't talking about sexually... Then can I interest you in a soapy scrub? Bit nearer to my annual Christmas shower and it's a deal! You shower once a year? Not sure if I should bring a loofa or a chisel " Hahahahaha! | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung Haven't read all the thread but did look at your profile pics , how can you say that when you don't have any face pics up and have not left any thing to the imagination with some of other pics? I understand how it's everyone's own profile to do with what they wish but really don't understand why some people can do one thing and then get upset when others have done the same. I think everyone should use the site the way it works best for them and allow others to do same " +1 To be honest, while I don't really want to see a profile full of either...... I'd probably rather look at a cock than a gaping pussy | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung Haven't read all the thread but did look at your profile pics , how can you say that when you don't have any face pics up and have not left any thing to the imagination with some of other pics? I understand how it's everyone's own profile to do with what they wish but really don't understand why some people can do one thing and then get upset when others have done the same. I think everyone should use the site the way it works best for them and allow others to do same +1 To be honest, while I don't really want to see a profile full of either...... I'd probably rather look at a cock than a gaping pussy " Agreed | |||
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"well I show the reverse of my groin area And very nice it is too" Well thankyou | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung Haven't read all the thread but did look at your profile pics , how can you say that when you don't have any face pics up and have not left any thing to the imagination with some of other pics? I understand how it's everyone's own profile to do with what they wish but really don't understand why some people can do one thing and then get upset when others have done the same. I think everyone should use the site the way it works best for them and allow others to do same +1 To be honest, while I don't really want to see a profile full of either...... I'd probably rather look at a cock than a gaping pussy " Me too and I'm bi | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung" took my cock shots as yes i do think they are somewhat unseemly but recieved far less replies ...whats a guy to do? | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs SwungIm sorry but going by your own profile pix I think its a little hypocritical " Well said | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung" Personally I ignore those profiles and hurry past those that show more of their playmates than them: very off putting! | |||
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"Oh the irony but it's okay as you're a couple so won't be struggling for attention. Single blokes are slated for the sky remote pics. Can I ask, is the bottle of Budweiser there as an illustration of depth? " I didn't check the ops pics, but blimey, pot...kettle...black! Op you have some chutzpah! | |||
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"Seriously though on topic, I fail to understand why cock pics are such a concern for women and couples, I mean if you're complaining because you don't like guys profile then fine, click off and find another one, but if you're complaining because you find a profile you like, and then are disappointed that he's posted a cock pic, then why not focus on the positive instead and actually try messaging him, tell him you like his profile and are interested in chatting perhaps? - he might just be a nice guy." If a man has 20 pics all of his knob taken from different angles, mood lit, soft focus, I think I have all the information I need: next! | |||
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"Seriously though on topic, I fail to understand why cock pics are such a concern for women and couples, I mean if you're complaining because you don't like guys profile then fine, click off and find another one, but if you're complaining because you find a profile you like, and then are disappointed that he's posted a cock pic, then why not focus on the positive instead and actually try messaging him, tell him you like his profile and are interested in chatting perhaps? - he might just be a nice guy. If a man has 20 pics all of his knob taken from different angles, mood lit, soft focus, I think I have all the information I need: next!" There's a difference between having a single cock pic and twenty. | |||
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" If a man has 20 pics all of his knob taken from different angles, mood lit, soft focus, I think I have all the information I need: next!" Far too early in the morning for me to be doubled over laughing, haha | |||
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"Seriously though on topic, I fail to understand why cock pics are such a concern for women and couples, I mean if you're complaining because you don't like guys profile then fine, click off and find another one, but if you're complaining because you find a profile you like, and then are disappointed that he's posted a cock pic, then why not focus on the positive instead and actually try messaging him, tell him you like his profile and are interested in chatting perhaps? - he might just be a nice guy. If a man has 20 pics all of his knob taken from different angles, mood lit, soft focus, I think I have all the information I need: next! There's a difference between having a single cock pic and twenty." Absolutely, but believe me there are men on site that have dozens of pictures only of their knobs. I admit to being fascinated by the pull and strangle types. I've managed to colour match an aubergine coloured knob for a room I'm thinking of painting! Fellas: chocking your cock, turning them purple and making them spurt like the Trevi Fountain is not a good look! | |||
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" If a man has 20 pics all of his knob taken from different angles, mood lit, soft focus, I think I have all the information I need: next! Far too early in the morning for me to be doubled over laughing, haha " | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung" Yes - a variety of pics would probably boost interest in their profile. But the way I see it is this. Pic content, as with profile content, forum posts and message content gives you a good insight into the individual/couple behind the profile! If a guy thinks images of his cock and constant references to size/alleged performance/ability is his USP - then good luck to him - but I doubt it will achieve the result he's looking for! Just like many single female/couples pics where it seems that they think close up, graphic images are what every guy gets a raging boner for. You may attract interest - but whether its from the kind of people you'd wish to meet or not is a whole different question!! It's all down to preference as to what content your profile has - and who will show interest in it. You'll never please everyone - but there are certain things you can do to minimise the number you put off within seconds!! | |||
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"Why do single guys(some of them) have 1 public image and its always a groin shot!! Don't they think they would stand more chance with a full face pic/partial face pic. Yes! We understand some folk need discretion...but when you get single guys harping on that they are getting no where on the site,what do they expect!! Mrs Swung If in doubt just do a google image search using the URL of the photo. I have come across a few on here that use fake cock shots." You do your research don't you | |||
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"Seriously though on topic, I fail to understand why cock pics are such a concern for women and couples, I mean if you're complaining because you don't like guys profile then fine, click off and find another one, but if you're complaining because you find a profile you like, and then are disappointed that he's posted a cock pic, then why not focus on the positive instead and actually try messaging him, tell him you like his profile and are interested in chatting perhaps? - he might just be a nice guy. If a man has 20 pics all of his knob taken from different angles, mood lit, soft focus, I think I have all the information I need: next! There's a difference between having a single cock pic and twenty. Absolutely, but believe me there are men on site that have dozens of pictures only of their knobs. I admit to being fascinated by the pull and strangle types. I've managed to colour match an aubergine coloured knob for a room I'm thinking of painting! Fellas: chocking your cock, turning them purple and making them spurt like the Trevi Fountain is not a good look! " Literally made me chuckle out loud. | |||
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