FabSwingers.com forum: No much interest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am married for the last 20 years and my wife is a caring person and I love her to bit, but I am living a sexless life, my wife is not interested in sex at all.its very hard and sometime put some strain in our relationship.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I expect it does. Are you asking for advice on how to deal with this or hoping to encourage people to meet you? Things might not go quite how you hope.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am married for the last 20 years and my wife is a caring person and I love her to bit, but I am living a sexless life, my wife is not interested in sex at all.its very hard and sometime put some strain in our relationship."

Have you talked to your wife about why she isn't interested in sex? Talk to her very gently, and don't put her under any pressure to have sex. It's not 'normal' to have no interest in sex at all, so the pair of you may need to see someone to sort out your problems.

Good luck!

By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Perhaps I am lucky in that it was my wife who raised the subject. To cut a very long story short, on more than one occasion she has said, "Just because I can't should not mean you shan't".

But whether I do, what I do or where I do it has never ever been discussed. May be, on both sides, it boils down to the motto, "Don't ask the question if you think you won't like the answer".