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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say no as he isn't. Was curious but proven not to be.

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

I will never try it. But if a guy do he probably do it again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will never try it. But if a guy do he probably do it again."

Not really answering the question posed though are you, If he tries it and hates it and will never do it again, does he label himself bisexual?

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By *iCruisserMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Why do we need to label ourselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a straight guy if i was to play with a guy its one of the things i could never consider doing the idea of sucking a guy off freaks me out and revolts me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*yawn* who gives a monkeys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do we need to label ourselves?"

This is fallout from another now closed thread where someone posted that a straight male would be repulsed by even the thought of bi sex and would never try it. By his reasoning if you tried and didn't like it, even if you never tried it again you could no honestly put straight on your profile.

We are forced by this site and many others like it to tick a box to describe our sexuality.

I'd like to know what other more reasonable people think of the above scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

He would be a straight man, who has had a bi experience and it was'nt for him. If he sucked cock again, then he would be bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*yawn* who gives a monkeys?"

Usually people like yourself who put a picture of a cock 'yawn' as your main profile pic and then moan that other guys contact them asking to suck it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we need to label ourselves?"

So that others can read the label and decide if they like us or not!

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I would say the the guys straight......nothing wrong with trying new experiences, but if you don't like it, you don't do it again.

I'm sure there are plenty of people who've tried some same sex lovin only to find its not for them........they are straight.......adventurous, but straight!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it were an issue for me I would simply ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

Its a shame that there's such a fuss about it. Good on him, I'd say for trying it out.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Why do we need to label ourselves?

This is fallout from another now closed thread where someone posted that a straight male would be repulsed by even the thought of bi sex and would never try it. By his reasoning if you tried and didn't like it, even if you never tried it again you could no honestly put straight on your profile.

We are forced by this site and many others like it to tick a box to describe our sexuality.

I'd like to know what other more reasonable people think of the above scenario. "

Course you can still put straight. I don't like baked beans. I tried them a while back. They're friggin gross, I can still say I don't like baked beans. I'm not some closet bean lover. Lol xx

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?

He would be a straight man, who has had a bi experience and it was'nt for him. If he sucked cock again, then he would be bi.

"

Dear Jodi,

The sun is shining and the beach is highly agreeable and you aren't as yet on this sequel thread " wish you were here "

" James "

I would agree with the above definition Abi.

He's definitely had a bi experience but it wasn't for him so he isn't forever bi.

A bit like on the previous thread whereby I stated that if you steal something that belongs to another person it can only ever be described as theft.

However it doesn't make you an ongoing lifetime thief

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London

As for this idea in the previous thread that a guy can have ongoing sexual encounters with guys giving and receiving oral and giving and receiving anal sex but still be defined as " straight " is an utter travesty.

The point at which it develops from a one off (bi sexual experience) to an ongoing activity is the point at which you are now either (bi/gay) as you don't continue performing sexual acts that are not to your taste .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?"

No it means you've been sexually assaulted and are well within your rights to contact the police and prosecute...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a 3sum, and i was so into it i realised my cock was against the other guys while we were shagging, it was horny,i put hand down and we both ended up bj each other, it was a blast, wud do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why is it guys always add the GAY bit when discussing being bisexual??

is this why so many guys deny fact they are BISEXUAL because many seem confuse it with being gay! pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

James, I'm not getting into this anymore. In the previous thread I proved my case on how some people choose to label themselves and why, and now people are just going over old ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

a genuinely "straight" guy wouldn't one day just try and suck cock,a bi curous guy might though......

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?"

At that point I'd ring the police regarding a " sexual assault " via deceit and the guy would end up in prison.

I'm unsure as to whether you are advocating such an illegal and serious act as an ok thing to do ?

Having said that it would never happen as I'd be smart enough to know that the blindfold requirement was extremely suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"James, I'm not getting into this anymore. In the previous thread I proved my case on how some people choose to label themselves and why, and now people are just going over old ground.

"

you proved fuck all,you said a guy could fuck another guys arse and suck cock yet still be straight,might be true in your world of delusion(or cloud cuckoo land) but in reality its absolute bollocks,whats your definition of straight btw?

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"James, I'm not getting into this anymore. In the previous thread I proved my case on how some people choose to label themselves and why, and now people are just going over old ground.

"

Fair enough Jodie.

Take care and your contributions were significant to the previous thread

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"James, I'm not getting into this anymore. In the previous thread I proved my case on how some people choose to label themselves and why, and now people are just going over old ground.

you proved fuck all,you said a guy could fuck another guys arse and suck cock yet still be straight,might be true in your world of delusion(or cloud cuckoo land) but in reality its absolute bollocks,whats your definition of straight btw?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?

At that point I'd ring the police regarding a " sexual assault " via deceit and the guy would end up in prison.

I'm unsure as to whether you are advocating such an illegal and serious act as an ok thing to do ?

Having said that it would never happen as I'd be smart enough to know that the blindfold requirement was extremely suspicious."

You're reading too much into it, I'm just trying to explain how you can enjoy a blow job regardless of who is giving it and still be straight.

In the scenario I presented if the woman never told you about the other guy being there you would be happy to let it happen again.

So by the logic you can receive a blowjob by a man and still be straight as long as you have no sexual attraction to the person blowing you.

An before you start getting all defensive again, calling me deluded and demanding dictionary quotes. I'm not writing this to argue with you. Just to show that that things are always as black and white and there are always exceptions to rules.

Thank you and good day

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?

At that point I'd ring the police regarding a " sexual assault " via deceit and the guy would end up in prison.

I'm unsure as to whether you are advocating such an illegal and serious act as an ok thing to do ?

Having said that it would never happen as I'd be smart enough to know that the blindfold requirement was extremely suspicious.

You're reading too much into it, I'm just trying to explain how you can enjoy a blow job regardless of who is giving it and still be straight.

In the scenario I presented if the woman never told you about the other guy being there you would be happy to let it happen again.

So by the logic you can receive a blowjob by a man and still be straight as long as you have no sexual attraction to the person blowing you.

An before you start getting all defensive again, calling me deluded and demanding dictionary quotes. I'm not writing this to argue with you. Just to show that that things are always as black and white and there are always exceptions to rules.

Thank you and good day "

Dan a straight guy wouldn't be aroused by a random gender lucky dip mouth sucking his cock.

He'd want to see for certain that a desired lady was sucking it.

I still feel that this "guy sneaking up and sucking a blindfold bloke off" who was led to believe it was a lady is a VERY dodgy example to give.

If that has ever happened to you you've been a victim of a sexual assault ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?

At that point I'd ring the police regarding a " sexual assault " via deceit and the guy would end up in prison.

I'm unsure as to whether you are advocating such an illegal and serious act as an ok thing to do ?

Having said that it would never happen as I'd be smart enough to know that the blindfold requirement was extremely suspicious.

You're reading too much into it, I'm just trying to explain how you can enjoy a blow job regardless of who is giving it and still be straight.

In the scenario I presented if the woman never told you about the other guy being there you would be happy to let it happen again.

So by the logic you can receive a blowjob by a man and still be straight as long as you have no sexual attraction to the person blowing you.

An before you start getting all defensive again, calling me deluded and demanding dictionary quotes. I'm not writing this to argue with you. Just to show that that things are always as black and white and there are always exceptions to rules.

Thank you and good day "

and what if you take the blindfold off and there's a big fuck off Alsation licking your balls?...is that the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*yawn* who gives a monkeys?

Usually people like yourself who put a picture of a cock 'yawn' as your main profile pic and then moan that other guys contact them asking to suck it...

"
yeah couldnt give a crap mate who contacts me just dont write back ..i put it down to blindness, my profile says straight..not bi, not bi curious, not gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?

At that point I'd ring the police regarding a " sexual assault " via deceit and the guy would end up in prison.

I'm unsure as to whether you are advocating such an illegal and serious act as an ok thing to do ?

Having said that it would never happen as I'd be smart enough to know that the blindfold requirement was extremely suspicious.

You're reading too much into it, I'm just trying to explain how you can enjoy a blow job regardless of who is giving it and still be straight.

In the scenario I presented if the woman never told you about the other guy being there you would be happy to let it happen again.

So by the logic you can receive a blowjob by a man and still be straight as long as you have no sexual attraction to the person blowing you.

An before you start getting all defensive again, calling me deluded and demanding dictionary quotes. I'm not writing this to argue with you. Just to show that that things are always as black and white and there are always exceptions to rules.

Thank you and good day

Dan a straight guy wouldn't be aroused by a random gender lucky dip mouth sucking his cock.

He'd want to see for certain that a desired lady was sucking it.

I still feel that this "guy sneaking up and sucking a blindfold bloke off" who was led to believe it was a lady is a VERY dodgy example to give.

If that has ever happened to you you've been a victim of a sexual assault ?"

If you were truly secure with your sexuality (straight) then you wouldn't need to be constantly watching her perform, only someone insecure about themselfs would need the constant clarification, you would just go along with it. A secure person wouldn't even think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with sucking a cock when it's there to be sucked! Why place restrictions on yourself? Go with the flow I say, (unless it's a stinky cock, then you can keep it!).

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I'm heterosexual, bisexual, gay, straight , I don't really know, but as long as your happy and not prejudiced against others I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow. some discussion. well worth a think about tryin it after all that conversation. least then i can say dont knock it till you tried it haha. be gentle guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gay and love sucking cock that's why I'm gay! Bi are just secret gays! St8s wouldn't go their! Lady's watch Your man if he says he's st8 remember so,s spaghetti till Ya boil it lol

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?

At that point I'd ring the police regarding a " sexual assault " via deceit and the guy would end up in prison.

I'm unsure as to whether you are advocating such an illegal and serious act as an ok thing to do ?

Having said that it would never happen as I'd be smart enough to know that the blindfold requirement was extremely suspicious.

You're reading too much into it, I'm just trying to explain how you can enjoy a blow job regardless of who is giving it and still be straight.

In the scenario I presented if the woman never told you about the other guy being there you would be happy to let it happen again.

So by the logic you can receive a blowjob by a man and still be straight as long as you have no sexual attraction to the person blowing you.

An before you start getting all defensive again, calling me deluded and demanding dictionary quotes. I'm not writing this to argue with you. Just to show that that things are always as black and white and there are always exceptions to rules.

Thank you and good day

Dan a straight guy wouldn't be aroused by a random gender lucky dip mouth sucking his cock.

He'd want to see for certain that a desired lady was sucking it.

I still feel that this "guy sneaking up and sucking a blindfold bloke off" who was led to believe it was a lady is a VERY dodgy example to give.

If that has ever happened to you you've been a victim of a sexual assault ?

If you were truly secure with your sexuality (straight) then you wouldn't need to be constantly watching her perform, only someone insecure about themselfs would need the constant clarification, you would just go along with it. A secure person wouldn't even think about it."

A significant percentage of sexual desire is in the visual allure.

It isn't all about receiving the sensation of a sucked cock from a random unspecified gender.

Try marketing an audio cd of random sexual grunts and groans.

It is going to flop as the sexual interest creating arousal includes the visual aspect so if I'm into seeing leggy ladies in stockings and suspenders being fucked it'll turn me on via a dvd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?"

It makes me neither bi or gay but it would probably make me an axe murderer!

In all honesty, I'd never let a comparative stranger blindfold me.

You don't know what kind of flake they might be. R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

I'd say he'd have to have been bi curious to even consider it.

If not, then definitely bloody weak and stupid for letting his wife talk him into it.

Afterwards, he'd probably not be curious any more but he'd still be bloody stupid! R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I'd say he'd have to have been bi curious to even consider it.

If not, then definitely bloody weak and stupid for letting his wife talk him into it.

Afterwards, he'd probably not be curious any more but he'd still be bloody stupid! R"

Up to a certain fairly obvious point a bi curious man is also a 100% straight man, if we are sticking to the terms defined in a dictionary

Plenty of weak and stupid to go around...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said in another thread, which must have been removed, I don't believe that a sexual act defined your sexuality.

You can take part in a sexual act and not be aroused by the person but by the fantasy.

I have had a couple of experiences with women in clubs. The giving didn't do anything for me particularly and I enjoyed receiving more. I would never agree to meet a woman for a one on one meet. I am not bisexual even though I've tried giving and receiving oral with women.

I don't agree that you can only get aroused by those you are attracted to. The mind is a very powerful tool and fantasy can play a huge part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said in another thread, which must have been removed, I don't believe that a sexual act defined your sexuality.

You can take part in a sexual act and not be aroused by the person but by the fantasy.

I have had a couple of experiences with women in clubs. The giving didn't do anything for me particularly and I enjoyed receiving more. I would never agree to meet a woman for a one on one meet. I am not bisexual even though I've tried giving and receiving oral with women.

I don't agree that you can only get aroused by those you are attracted to. The mind is a very powerful tool and fantasy can play a huge part. "

if a sexual act doesn't define your sexuality...what does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow is this still going on!

how come it as become a slanging match? & got so far from what jack asked when he ask his question on his other thread?

as I said they are just trying their luck, as most do on here. its up to you to make your own mind Up what you want to do.

has I said I wouldn't as a straight guy & I cant understand how anyone can call them self's straight if they would they are at lest bi-curious.

before you have a go at me for saying that let me say my brother is gay & as been in a loving relationship for over 20 years 7 of them he as been been married.

ive been hit on lots of times by his friends in that time just told them im not interested.

you'll always find one straight or gay who wont take no for a answer, but in my case my brothers friends have stepped in & put them straight.

sorry if that's a pun, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a single guy message us. it said on his profile he was bi-curious so we politely messaged him back saying thankyou for the message but we are not looking for any men that are bi-curious. he then proceeded to send abusive messages to us saying he was totslly straight. got a little confusing he blocked us thank goodness as wouldn't have wanted to converse with such an abusive confused person

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

Why can't we be more like the polynesians, all live in one big hut and move about a lot.

Jenny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is born in a stable it doesn't make em a horse !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think everyone should feel free to experiment with their sexuality as they see fit as long as its with consulting adults ,i think a polite "no thanks " or "not for me thanks" should be more than enough, isnt it flattering that some one finds you sexually attractive despite their labelling ?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So. If a 'footballer' walked past a playing field and some 'cricketers' invited him to play..... Is he no longer a 'footballer'?......... and if they were using a tennis ball rather than a proper cricket ball? What then?

I'll tell you what then. He's the same person who started out on his walk that day. He's still a footballer.

........ And does he care a jot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said in another thread, which must have been removed, I don't believe that a sexual act defined your sexuality.

You can take part in a sexual act and not be aroused by the person but by the fantasy.

I have had a couple of experiences

with women in clubs. The giving didn't do anything for me particularly and I enjoyed receiving more. I would never agree to meet a woman for a one on one meet. I am not bisexual even though I've tried giving and receiving oral with women.

I don't agree that you can only get aroused by those you are attracted to. The mind is a very powerful tool and fantasy can play a huge part.

if a sexual act doesn't define your sexuality...what does? "

So you truly believe that doing something, experimenting, shapes your

sexuality. I am now bisexual am I, having 10 minutes of fun in a club, it's now turned me has it? Should I put bisexual on my profile and have women contact us and I'll have to play with them because I did it before, even though I wasn't aroused at all whilst giving, and when receiving I closed my eyes and thought about sex with men?

You see that's why I find that viewpoint very odd. In lots of cases people are just merely being adventurous. It's an opportunist time and place thing.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Looks in, shakes head and bimbles off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps some people, instead of saying they're "straight" or bi-curious would be better saying they're bi-confused!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"As I said in another thread, which must have been removed, I don't believe that a sexual act defined your sexuality.

You can take part in a sexual act and not be aroused by the person but by the fantasy.

I have had a couple of experiences

with women in clubs. The giving didn't do anything for me particularly and I enjoyed receiving more. I would never agree to meet a woman for a one on one meet. I am not bisexual even though I've tried giving and receiving oral with women.

I don't agree that you can only get aroused by those you are attracted to. The mind is a very powerful tool and fantasy can play a huge part.

if a sexual act doesn't define your sexuality...what does?

So you truly believe that doing something, experimenting, shapes your

sexuality. I am now bisexual am I, having 10 minutes of fun in a club, it's now turned me has it? Should I put bisexual on my profile and have women contact us and I'll have to play with them because I did it before, even though I wasn't aroused at all whilst giving, and when receiving I closed my eyes and thought about sex with men?

You see that's why I find that viewpoint very odd. In lots of cases people are just merely being adventurous. It's an opportunist time and place thing. "

a straight guy wouldn't 'experiment' with another guy for 1 minute never mind 10,i find it very odd that you can't grasp that.....

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over a year ago


"Perhaps some people, instead of saying they're "straight" or bi-curious would be better saying they're bi-confused!

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Bloody hell is this still going...

Seems to me that this isn't really about defining bi-curious, bisexual or who should be labelled what.

It's more to do with the straight people trying to keep their straight label pure.

After all, if the straight label becomes diluted or blurred how will the truly heterosexual males impress on people they have no interest in the other guys cock!!!

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over a year ago


"As I said in another thread, which must have been removed, I don't believe that a sexual act defined your sexuality.

You can take part in a sexual act and not be aroused by the person but by the fantasy.

I have had a couple of experiences

with women in clubs. The giving didn't do anything for me particularly and I enjoyed receiving more. I would never agree to meet a woman for a one on one meet. I am not bisexual even though I've tried giving and receiving oral with women.

I don't agree that you can only get aroused by those you are attracted to. The mind is a very powerful tool and fantasy can play a huge part.

if a sexual act doesn't define your sexuality...what does?

So you truly believe that doing something, experimenting, shapes your

sexuality. I am now bisexual am I, having 10 minutes of fun in a club, it's now turned me has it? Should I put bisexual on my profile and have women contact us and I'll have to play with them because I did it before, even though I wasn't aroused at all whilst giving, and when receiving I closed my eyes and thought about sex with men?

You see that's why I find that viewpoint very odd. In lots of cases people are just merely being adventurous. It's an opportunist time and place thing.

a straight guy wouldn't 'experiment' with another guy for 1 minute never mind 10,i find it very odd that you can't grasp that..... "

But we're ALL straight UNTILL we experiment!

Is it not apparent yet that some people are attracted to exceptional humans, and don't gender discriminate!

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By *ealfunCouple
over a year ago

darleston

We totally agree with iconics1s previous reply.

This male half does have straight on his profile but we have both experienced and enjoyed same sex play together as we find it a real turn and love seeing eachother being very naughty.

For us the definition of being bisexual is that you are attracted visually by the same sex and would welcome one on one situations which does not apply to us.

We are just sexual and not necessarily bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not to be labelled as bi.. More like try.. It's about sexual freedom. If you try it & like it then you do. If you try it & don't like it, then you've lived. Cheers

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over a year ago


"So. If a 'footballer' walked past a playing field and some 'cricketers' invited him to play..... Is he no longer a 'footballer'?......... and if they were using a tennis ball rather than a proper cricket ball? What then?

I'll tell you what then. He's the same person who started out on his walk that day. He's still a footballer

........ And does he care a jot?"

I heart you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are two possible outcomes to being curious, either positive would try again or negative never want to repeat.

Depending on the outcome then you would be bi-sexual or straight, though of course some would take more than one occasion to decide so would stay curious for a while.

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By *J55Man
over a year ago

Puerto d mazarron Spain

The guy may have been curious to.stsrt with....so followed his impulse and tried sucking cock... if he like it and got turned on by it so what.. he could declare himself bi-sexual if he wanted .. if he didnt like it then at least he satisfied his curiousity! .. nobody has the right to pin labels on anyone else.. sexuality is only a part of your character and you should not be jdged on that alone or labelled .

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?"

I don't know but the cat is still dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he has tryed it as his parter wanted to watch they must of talked about it he was at that point so turned on at the thought of giving it ago but when he did found out no this isnt for me if he never trys it again then no but he may still think of trying it again as first time nerves may have took over or couldnt enjoy it as partner watching

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

Labels are ugly things...

And this is a Moot question...everyone in this world should feel free to experiment and discover new things in any field they choose to (as long as it is within the law) whatever these might be and without being put into a little box!

To answer you question OP...NO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i have said before no one should label anyone god we are all here for what ever reason so before slicking a label on anyone look and see if theres one on urself so yes i say ur right about lables

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to a swingers club and got sucked off through a hole in the wall. The missus frigged herself stupid imagining it to be a bloke that did it. No harm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be a case of try before you bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we shouldnt label ppls sexuality but in the community of swinging/shagfesting/ whatever we call it there should be honesty if someone wants a sex fest then be honest with that person if your bisexual or not then that person has a choice to say yes or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said in another thread, which must have been removed, I don't believe that a sexual act defined your sexuality.

You can take part in a sexual act and not be aroused by the person but by the fantasy.

I have had a couple of experiences

with women in clubs. The giving didn't do anything for me particularly and I enjoyed receiving more. I would never agree to meet a woman for a one on one meet. I am not bisexual even though I've tried giving and receiving oral with women.

I don't agree that you can only get aroused by those you are attracted to. The mind is a very powerful tool and fantasy can play a huge part.

if a sexual act doesn't define your sexuality...what does?

So you truly believe that doing something, experimenting, shapes your

sexuality. I am now bisexual am I, having 10 minutes of fun in a club, it's now turned me has it? Should I put bisexual on my profile and have women contact us and I'll have to play with them because I did it before, even though I wasn't aroused at all whilst giving, and when receiving I closed my eyes and thought about sex with men?

You see that's why I find that viewpoint very odd. In lots of cases people are just merely being adventurous. It's an opportunist time and place thing.

a straight guy wouldn't 'experiment' with another guy for 1 minute never mind 10,i find it very odd that you can't grasp that.....

But we're ALL straight UNTILL we experiment!

Is it not apparent yet that some people are attracted to exceptional humans, and don't gender discriminate! "

no were not,its already in you if you even give it a 2nd thought,a straight guy wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We totally agree with iconics1s previous reply.

This male half does have straight on his profile but we have both experienced and enjoyed same sex play together as we find it a real turn and love seeing eachother being very naughty.

For us the definition of being bisexual is that you are attracted visually by the same sex and would welcome one on one situations which does not apply to us.

We are just sexual and not necessarily bisexual."

in your own head maybe but in reality your bisexual

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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no were not,its already in you if you even give it a 2nd thought,a straight guy wouldn't"

So you have never thought about bi sex?

Because you are so straight...

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over a year ago


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no were not,its already in you if you even give it a 2nd thought,a straight guy wouldn't

So you have never thought about bi sex?

Because you are so straight..."

the thought knocks me sick

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I can't understand what is so bad about labels!! We all look at profiles to find "labels" to indicate if we would like to meet people! Same goes for judgement! We all judge profiles for the same reason.. Life is built around labels and judgement!!

Whether male or female, I like the term "Bi-Friendly". The guy in to OP's original post could be termed straight if he never went back to it, but equally, he may just get "caught in the moment" at another time and the whole fantasy takes over.. At that time a better label would be Bi Friendly.

I do notice that some get very upset and start talking the "hard Man" at the very mention of bi-sexuality. Methinks the men doth protest too much...

Crownjewels.. IMHO, you have real issues!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bloody hell is this still going...

Seems to me that this isn't really about defining bi-curious, bisexual or who should be labelled what.

It's more to do with the straight people trying to keep their straight label pure.

After all, if the straight label becomes diluted or blurred how will the truly heterosexual males impress on people they have no interest in the other guys cock!!!"

good post.

Do their protests that it is a revolting and disgusting act help to reinforce the stigma attached to the bi male label? Most of them don't find it disgusting in females so there is no consistency. Thus some people won't put bi because of the stigma attached?

Or is it just people fibbing, because they want to meet and by lying about their sexuality increase the number of possible matches...

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over a year ago


"I can't understand what is so bad about labels!! We all look at profiles to find "labels" to indicate if we would like to meet people! Same goes for judgement! We all judge profiles for the same reason.. Life is built around labels and judgement!!

Whether male or female, I like the term "Bi-Friendly". The guy in to OP's original post could be termed straight if he never went back to it, but equally, he may just get "caught in the moment" at another time and the whole fantasy takes over.. At that time a better label would be Bi Friendly.

I do notice that some get very upset and start talking the "hard Man" at the very mention of bi-sexuality. Methinks the men doth protest too much...

Crownjewels.. IMHO, you have real issues!!! "

issues?...nah,just straight and understand the meaning of the word..

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over a year ago


"Bloody hell is this still going...

Seems to me that this isn't really about defining bi-curious, bisexual or who should be labelled what.

It's more to do with the straight people trying to keep their straight label pure.

After all, if the straight label becomes diluted or blurred how will the truly heterosexual males impress on people they have no interest in the other guys cock!!!

good post.

Do their protests that it is a revolting and disgusting act help to reinforce the stigma attached to the bi male label? Most of them don't find it disgusting in females so there is no consistency. Thus some people won't put bi because of the stigma attached?

Or is it just people fibbing, because they want to meet and by lying about their sexuality increase the number of possible matches..."

Re your last sentence :- never was a truer word spoken!!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"issues?...nah,just straight and understand the meaning of the word.."

That bit I understand, but for something that doesn't affect you, your language is confrontational, even violent. I can't see why something that is never going to happen, reviles you so much. Just wondering if you have either had a bad experience or perhaps you are trying to block out "certain" feelings?

Come and have a cuddle and let Uncle Rumour smooth you cares away and relieve the tension..

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

As an extension to the OP.. As far as I can make out, Bi Sexual people are attracted to both sexes. Mrs Rumour is not attracted to women, but in a situation has been known to play fem on fem.. Outside swinging she has no interest.. So.. Is she Bi or not? Bi Friendly, perhaps? Straight but a fantasist?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"

no were not,its already in you if you even give it a 2nd thought,a straight guy wouldn't

So you have never thought about bi sex?

Because you are so straight...

the thought knocks me sick"

From one straight male to another, you seem awfully repressed and protesting a little bit too much on the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally Bi man no doubt about it

No matter what I would not do that not my taste at all each to there own I suppose but there is some things I would never do

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

In all the years that we have been in this hobby we have only encountered just a few females and couple of males who we would say were genuine 'true' bisexual in there sexual orientation.

We've had same sex sex we considerably more people who we would say do not qualify as true bisexuals but are happy to enjoy same sex sex on occasions.

Someone who does a bit of DIY on their house doesn't mean they are a professional builder.

If you were to compare MrMan with a true bisexual in respect of matters of a homosexual nature you would easily observe a big void. Whereby MrMan is much closer to heterosexual while the true bisexual is much closer to being fully homosexual.

Therefore stating that Mrman is bisexual is much more misleading that it would be to state that he is straight.

And so it follows that... MrMan would not let a silly thing like being fundamentally heterosexual get in the way of having a bit of dick now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehe! Love it!

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"In all the years that we have been in this hobby we have only encountered just a few females and couple of males who we would say were genuine 'true' bisexual in there sexual orientation.

We've had same sex sex we considerably more people who we would say do not qualify as true bisexuals but are happy to enjoy same sex sex on occasions.

Someone who does a bit of DIY on their house doesn't mean they are a professional builder.

If you were to compare MrMan with a true bisexual in respect of matters of a homosexual nature you would easily observe a big void. Whereby MrMan is much closer to heterosexual while the true bisexual is much closer to being fully homosexual.

Therefore stating that Mrman is bisexual is much more misleading that it would be to state that he is straight.

And so it follows that... MrMan would not let a silly thing like being fundamentally heterosexual get in the way of having a bit of dick now and then "

Interesting usage of the terminology "fundamental".

I used to dj for " fundamental northern soul" evenings and never chose to or indeed received a request to slip in a couple of cheeky Abba records.

I've yet to attend a Catholic service whereby there is a ten minute interlude so that a Buddhist monk can go up stage and offer some meditation chants.

As for the folks on this thread wearing the " no labels man " badge er how does that work ?

Does everybody have on their profile instead of their stated sexual proclivities er "search me ?"

As a straight listed guy it's surely fair and reasonable on contacting a straight listed couple who want to have an encounter that straight play shall proceed ?

If the couple are expecting any element of bi activity then this should be referenced via request in pre meeting messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"issues?...nah,just straight and understand the meaning of the word..

That bit I understand, but for something that doesn't affect you, your language is confrontational, even violent. I can't see why something that is never going to happen, reviles you so much. Just wondering if you have either had a bad experience or perhaps you are trying to block out "certain" feelings?

Come and have a cuddle and let Uncle Rumour smooth you cares away and relieve the tension.. "

violent? ha,then again in your world you can define words to mean anything you want......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot of people say dont label...

but lets be realistic...on here there are more BI guys than straight.

its only because most guys feel if they say bi it leans towards gay or they dont want people knowing they meet men/tgirls as well as women.

and as for labels..well isnt it FACT that theres 3??

Straight..Bisexual..Gay

we shouldnt label? why not? i think on here more guys should be open about there preferences.

In there everyday lifes thats different..as in general people keep that seperate from on here.

but search wise and when looking at profiles or messeges from guys.. most i get say straight... yet infact they are bisexual. even get guys asking me what my cock like and if i fuck!! yet say straight on profile. i dunno what the big deal is..if ur bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankly I find it all just a load if potayta potarta n tomayta tomarta!

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"issues?...nah,just straight and understand the meaning of the word..

That bit I understand, but for something that doesn't affect you, your language is confrontational, even violent. I can't see why something that is never going to happen, reviles you so much. Just wondering if you have either had a bad experience or perhaps you are trying to block out "certain" feelings?

Come and have a cuddle and let Uncle Rumour smooth you cares away and relieve the tension..

violent? ha,then again in your world you can define words to mean anything you want...... "

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

In tests 9 out of 10 people on Fab couldn't tell the difference in taste between Bi cock or Straight cock.

So which is best, come on and take the Fab cock sucking test yourself.

Terms and conditions apply, all applicant must be male, female or somewhere in-between, over 18s only.

Note to the suckies, please do not cum in the testers mouth as this can unduly affect the test results.

Jenny xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago, I had a good encounter with my first guy, but thought no regrets but it wasn't for me. Then I met another guy and had a much better time. I think you may need to do any sexual practice a few times before you can judge for sure.

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By *9hotfunMan
over a year ago

gweek

if that what you want 2 do than do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alot of people say dont label...

but lets be realistic...on here there are more BI guys than straight.

its only because most guys feel if they say bi it leans towards gay or they dont want people knowing they meet men/tgirls as well as women.

and as for labels..well isnt it FACT that theres 3??

Straight..Bisexual..Gay

we shouldnt label? why not? i think on here more guys should be open about there preferences.

In there everyday lifes thats different..as in general people keep that seperate from on here.

but search wise and when looking at profiles or messeges from guys.. most i get say straight... yet infact they are bisexual. even get guys asking me what my cock like and if i fuck!! yet say straight on profile. i dunno what the big deal is..if ur bisexual "

Good post!

It seems to us that its only guys who can't come to terms with their own sexuality that have this problem with labels.

XXXX

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

Do or be whoever u want to be or do. Different strokes for different folks. I alway say. That life style isn't for me but I don't down u for what u enjoy. But be true to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess everyone dabbles in it or has dabbled in it but does that make them bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess everyone dabbles in it or has dabbled in it but does that make them bi?"

come try with me..then see how feel after. im from staffs!! pmsl

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By *irtyAdi73Man
over a year ago

Sale


"If you went to meet a woman on her own and when you get there she says that she want to try blindfolding you. You know that it's just you and her so you happily do so. After a nice long blow job followed by her riding you until you cum. you remove the blindfold and standing next to her is another man. she then informs you that it was the guy that was sucking your dick. You never previously had any sexual attraction towards men and you still don't.

Does this make you Bi/Gay?"

It means you were sexually assaulted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went as far as getting a room with a female but could not get in the act of any kind of sex . I didn't know where to start . SO I KNOW IM STREIGHT I WOULD SAY HE FIGURED OUT HE WAS STREIGHT AS WELL.

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By *ub mattieTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawley

I not had a real man cock. But like to dress as a girl etc not sayin I won't try but I may not like a real man xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion the guy would not be bi. Even if the guy had had a few experiences of sucking other guys cocks he would not be bisexual, he is merely sexually adventurous.

Our sexuality is not determined by a 10 minute sex session in a swinging club. Lots of people experiment with sexual acts just because they can, it does not mean that they are forever bisexual and must now start to look for relationships with both men and women.

I have licked other women, more than once, just to see what it was like, it wasn't for me and I didn't become aroused doing it. In fact I didn't do it for long and had to turn my mind to something else whilst doing it. I've had more women lick me, again because I've been in clubs and women have asked me if they can do this to me. This was more enjoyable but only because I love oral sex, not because it was another female. I am not bisexual.

It is the same with my OH. He has also sucked a guys cock and had guys suck him. I've always been involved when he has done this, ie sharing sucking his cock with another man and we've both sucked a guy together. We both enjoyed the experience, not because he is secretly bisexual and gagging for man on man fun, but because it was a different experience, sexually something taboo that we've never had in our lives before and for that reason it's exciting. The reason it's a turn on is because I am involved, his female partner who turns him on, it's a turn on that I'm watching, I'm sharing, we're sharing together etc. He would not go searching for cock if I wasn't there. He is not bisexual. We are merely just a sexually liberated and adventurous couple. He would not ever have anal sex with a man, that would be a step too far and he doesn't ever want to experience that.

There are always going to be narrow minded people who think that sex is just black and white. To me being bisexual is having a strong sexual attraction to both male and female partners. Bisexual people may have relationships with both sexes. It is not getting involved in a sex act with the same sex in a swinging club, that is opportunist and sexually adventurous. I know for certain that neither of us has been 'turned' by these sexual experiences. Neither if us will be craving fir same sex relationships. Because we are not bisexual.

We have straight on our profile because we are. We are not in denial. If we changed our status to bisexual, based on the fact that in 3 years we've probably had between us 6 experiences of a sex act with someone of the same sex, then we would be contacted by couples or men who may want to have same sex fun. This would be too much for us, it's not what we want to do. And that's because we are not bisexual, but it makes me smile that people will try and dictate to us what our sexuality is.

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

As a straight guy i'll just start by saying I agree with everything Crownjewels and James Gambino have said so far.

In reply to the OP's original question in my opinion the guy is BiCurious as he was curious enough to try whereas a true straight guy would have said no way i'm not trying that.

As a straight guy the idea of playing with another man's cock, nevermind sucking it, is completely repulsive to me. Touching another man's cock does not interest me at all, i'm not at all curious about what it would feel like and i don't care whoever asks me there is no way i will ever even try it.

I believe there are many bicurious guys who like to hide behind the label of being straight for whatever reason, but to me the mere fact that they would even consider sexual contact with another man's sexual organs exposes their true sexuality and they cannot possibly be straight.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

Of course he isn't

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I will never try it. But if a guy do he probably do it again."

So if you tried sucking cock you wouldn't be able to resist doing it again?

I think that says more about you than it does about anyone else lmao

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?

Of course he isn't"

He's BiCurious because he was curious enough to try it in the first place. As a proper straight male i wouldn't even dream of touching another man's cock no matter who asked me and i have no interest in even trying it to see what its like. Couldn't care less.

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

I agree I done threesome and I tell who I with stay ur side and I stay mine. I don't mine if the guy looks if u two males and female but don't touch me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

I think if he did it and gagged, he probably only did it to make sure he had tried. He doesn't really get off on the even the idea of bi-fun, or he would not gag. But remember your first cigarette as a teenager? Some of us loved it, and some of us hated it. But we all did it out of curiosity, but some of us were just so attracted to it before we even got a taste. To sum up, he thought he would try, to put the matter to bed, one way or the other. He isn't bi, or even curious now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... Just because you try something doesn't mean you are labeled for life! I've tried drugs but I'm not an addict!

In general I hate labels anyway... We all get pigeonholed for convenience and we are all very different within these labels. I always considered myself to be straight but flexible. We all have things we like and dislike. There are also things we are 'blah' about... not into but wont refuse and, in the right company, might do it to turn on a partner. I guess for me that is what playing with another woman comes under. Don't really seek it out but have done in the right circumstances and with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*yawn* who gives a monkeys?

Usually people like yourself who put a picture of a cock 'yawn' as your main profile pic and then moan that other guys contact them asking to suck it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

If someone asked you try a dish that you knew full well you wouldn't like, you tried it and then spat it out, I'd label you a muppet!

Personally, I don't like the thought of doing something that I'm not 100% comfortable with sexually for someone's titillation and it's unfair and inconsiderate to be pushed into sexual acts which you get no personal pleasure from.

I wouldn't go as far as to label someone bisexual for doing once but I would say bi-curious for going through with it because as a heterosexual male, I wouldn't even consider it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you don't call him bi-sexual. I've met guys who call themselves "straight" and they've been OK with sucking cock but neither of us are under any illusion that the reason they're doing it is it makes a nice change from a wank and they've come on here hoping to meet women and had no success.

I label myself "gay" and yet I prefer fucking women to men (it's a physical thing) and like breasts. So that does make me "bi-sexual"? I had girlfriends after I came out (before I went with a guy) try to label me as such but it's a nonsense. Just because I can pleasure a lady doesn't make me bi.

When I walk down the street I'm looking at the guys, never looking at the ladies. That makes me gay. If a "straight" guy is doing the same but with ladies then I'd say he's "straight". The fact he tried something once, even if he liked it, doesn't make him bi-sexual. And if he hated it - well it just shows he was comfortable enough with his sexuality to try it but it wasn't for him.

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By *ancatMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"alot of people say dont label...

but lets be realistic...on here there are more BI guys than straight.

its only because most guys feel if they say bi it leans towards gay or they dont want people knowing they meet men/tgirls as well as women.

and as for labels..well isnt it FACT that theres 3??

Straight..Bisexual..Gay

we shouldnt label? why not? i think on here more guys should be open about there preferences.

In there everyday lifes thats different..as in general people keep that seperate from on here.

but search wise and when looking at profiles or messeges from guys.. most i get say straight... yet infact they are bisexual. even get guys asking me what my cock like and if i fuck!! yet say straight on profile. i dunno what the big deal is..if ur bisexual

Good post!

It seems to us that its only guys who can't come to terms with their own sexuality that have this problem with labels.

XXXX"

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By *aisy2012Couple
over a year ago

everywhere

Once worked with a guy who would let other guys suck him but wouldn't do any sucking himself What was he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet he kept his eyes closed throughout too.

I'd label him straight, most here would label him "bi-sexual" and the mainstream would label him "closeted homosexual", LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"alot of people say dont label...

but lets be realistic...on here there are more BI guys than straight.

its only because most guys feel if they say bi it leans towards gay or they dont want people knowing they meet men/tgirls as well as women.

and as for labels..well isnt it FACT that theres 3??

Straight..Bisexual..Gay

we shouldnt label? why not? i think on here more guys should be open about there preferences.

In there everyday lifes thats different..as in general people keep that seperate from on here.

but search wise and when looking at profiles or messeges from guys.. most i get say straight... yet infact they are bisexual. even get guys asking me what my cock like and if i fuck!! yet say straight on profile. i dunno what the big deal is..if ur bisexual

Good post!

It seems to us that its only guys who can't come to terms with their own sexuality that have this problem with labels.

XXXX

"

I agree. There's a lot of guys out there who are not being honest with themselves. If you desires/curious about another man sexually then you need to explore that and be open with yourself.

What I'm not buying is that every man is a little bit this and a little bit that. It leads to further confusion and hurt.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"As a straight guy if i was to play with a guy its one of the things i could never consider doing the idea of sucking a guy off freaks me out and revolts me"

surely someone so 'freaked out and revolted' would not consider playing with a guy..?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Once worked with a guy who would let other guys suck him but wouldn't do any sucking himself What was he? "

selfish..

the sort we would not meet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion the guy would not be bi. Even if the guy had had a few experiences of sucking other guys cocks he would not be bisexual, he is merely sexually adventurous.

Our sexuality is not determined by a 10 minute sex session in a swinging club. Lots of people experiment with sexual acts just because they can, it does not mean that they are forever bisexual and must now start to look for relationships with both men and women.

I have licked other women, more than once, just to see what it was like, it wasn't for me and I didn't become aroused doing it. In fact I didn't do it for long and had to turn my mind to something else whilst doing it. I've had more women lick me, again because I've been in clubs and women have asked me if they can do this to me. This was more enjoyable but only because I love oral sex, not because it was another female. I am not bisexual.

It is the same with my OH. He has also sucked a guys cock and had guys suck him. I've always been involved when he has done this, ie sharing sucking his cock with another man and we've both sucked a guy together. We both enjoyed the experience, not because he is secretly bisexual and gagging for man on man fun, but because it was a different experience, sexually something taboo that we've never had in our lives before and for that reason it's exciting. The reason it's a turn on is because I am involved, his female partner who turns him on, it's a turn on that I'm watching, I'm sharing, we're sharing together etc. He would not go searching for cock if I wasn't there. He is not bisexual. We are merely just a sexually liberated and adventurous couple. He would not ever have anal sex with a man, that would be a step too far and he doesn't ever want to experience that.

There are always going to be narrow minded people who think that sex is just black and white. To me being bisexual is having a strong sexual attraction to both male and female partners. Bisexual people may have relationships with both sexes. It is not getting involved in a sex act with the same sex in a swinging club, that is opportunist and sexually adventurous. I know for certain that neither of us has been 'turned' by these sexual experiences. Neither if us will be craving fir same sex relationships. Because we are not bisexual.

We have straight on our profile because we are. We are not in denial. If we changed our status to bisexual, based on the fact that in 3 years we've probably had between us 6 experiences of a sex act with someone of the same sex, then we would be contacted by couples or men who may want to have same sex fun. This would be too much for us, it's not what we want to do. And that's because we are not bisexual, but it makes me smile that people will try and dictate to us what our sexuality is.

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good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once worked with a guy who would let other guys suck him but wouldn't do any sucking himself What was he? "

I know what he 'wasn't'.....straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what about a straight guy who decides one day to try and suck a cock, maybe to please his partner whom would find it a huge turn on to watch him play with a cock.

On trying it once, he decides it is not his thing and in the words of another poster 'revolts' him to the point of gagging. He will never do it again.

Is this guy forever to label himself bisexual because he tried sucking a cock and didn't enjoy it?"

I wouldnt say he was but u'll get those who disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just trying to figure out how many cocks could have been sucked during the time its taken this thread to reach this point? my math aint all that but at a glance i'd reckon at least 10-15

Seems such a waste or is that just me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just trying to figure out how many cocks could have been sucked during the time its taken this thread to reach this point? my math aint all that but at a glance i'd reckon at least 10-15

Seems such a waste or is that just me?"

You must give really long BJ's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to figure out how many cocks could have been sucked during the time its taken this thread to reach this point? my math aint all that but at a glance i'd reckon at least 10-15

Seems such a waste or is that just me?

You must give really long BJ's "

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *hrisBlkGuyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Just trying to figure out how many cocks could have been sucked during the time its taken this thread to reach this point? my math aint all that but at a glance i'd reckon at least 10-15

Seems such a waste or is that just me?"

I think the best thing about this thread is that it is highlighting just how many Bicurious guys are hiding behind the label of being straight and it amuses me how they keep saying genuine straight guys should be adventurous and try a bisexual act just to see if they would like it, why should we? we're straight, we know we won't like it so what's the point? It's like asking a gay man to lick a woman's pussy, just as daft! At least with gay guys they're upfront and honest about their sexuality, i think it's the BiCurious guys who have the problem, because they try to lie to themselves and to others about their true sexuality.

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

I think once u try it there no turning back. So I don't do it and don't think about it.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I think once u try it there no turning back. So I don't do it and don't think about it. "

Is it dark in there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

REAL MEN ARE BI or curious

(to me at least..anyone who can open himself up-no pun intended-to an experience without fear? HOT!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey is this still going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is my belief that as long as you never play rugby in school and are placed in the scrum, then you will never get a yearning to try bi male sex activities.

I'm sure it all stems from o cusp of puberty ' activity when suddenly you find your head shoved between another males legs in close proximity to his tackle

Rugby should be banned for this very reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow long thread. My personal experience as a bi man is not that I'm so much attracted to both sexes but rather I think gender is pretty irrelevant to me. If someone's interesting and fun I don't care if its cock I suck or cunt I lick. So long as its fun for all it doesn't really matter to me. Maybe I'm just apathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And just because I can never resist sticking my oar in surely the only issue that matters here is self definition. Any attempted external definition of human sexuality is reductionist and doomed to failure at the start, it's too brad a spectrum for supposed catch all terms like straight, bi or gay to properly encompass, as we've seen above everyone has their own definitions. Surely people should pick the category that best describes them and then get to specifics on a profile or in conversation. I suppose in response to the OP i say "only if they want to be".

now stop tying and get shagging!

Cj

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By *bovethekneeCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire / Herefordshire

Wow so many men are uncertain of their sexuality. How come they are so happy to have gay partners (as girl on girl must make them that way according to their rules)we always ask ourselves.

We are not gay. Simple. Does not mean that we cannot enjoy any other body that we find attractive. But then again, we are not insecure.

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