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Magic Wand newbies - tips wanted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies for yet another wand post, have scanned the others but looking for specific info as below.

Just bought one. Wife (who yes is not aware I'm on here - for reasons I won't bore you with) is slow to get excited but consistently gets to one orgasm but never more. Not expecting to break world records, but would appreciate the views of other ladies who have found it might have opened....errrm.....Pandora's box - is more than one orgasm something you have experienced?

Also have seen the odd post that guys can cum too - what's the best technique that you've found.

Thanks

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

i can use mine to cum with multiple orgasms but it took some time as i found my wand very intense when i first bought it. Have you got the atachments for yours? lovehoney has loads of different ones i find if i alternate from pure clit stim to g spot or insertion i can have more than one orgasm quite quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just got the wand thus far, but keen to get a few bits once we know a bit more about how the wand works for us both.

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By *izzyDaisyCouple
over a year ago

norwich

If it helps Daisy is the same. No matter what we have tried, wand, toys, threesomes, foursomes .... more ... she only ever reaches one HUGE orgasm and then its the end for hours as she reaches a very sensitive state, it's been the same for the past 15 years and nothing I have found changes it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To use as a guy, what I do is lay on top of it with it running parallel to your cock with its head against yours. Turn it on and press your cock into it and grind on it. Makes me cum super quickly - especially on high power.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

mmmm sounds like I must try that soon. Am circumcised so hand wanking leaves me with a swollen end to my cock afterwards. This sounds like it could resolve that problem. But lube or no lube?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OH uses it on me by pressing it firmly against the tip of my cock on the underside. Very very good turned on full makes you cum quick and hard though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had to google what the amazing wand is. Really? It looks like just a massager can't believe it's better than normal vib or rabbit? Now I get that's what Samantha was returning in sex and the city n got told its a neck massager

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep same here - only came across it by accident but seems to get everyones vote for being "the" toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try it when used with a dildo at same time. Let the head of the wand touch the end of the dildo and the clit at the same time. The vibes travel along the dildo deep inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try it when used with a dildo at same time. Let the head of the wand touch the end of the dildo and the clit at the same time. The vibes travel along the dildo deep inside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To use as a guy, what I do is lay on top of it with it running parallel to your cock with its head against yours. Turn it on and press your cock into it and grind on it. Makes me cum super quickly - especially on high power. "

Home alone today and feeling a bit under the weather. However much cheered up by a variation on this technique by just lying back and rubbing the wand up n down the full length of the underside of my cock. Best and most powerful non- penetration cum I've had for years - I could get hooked on this lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mmmm sounds like I must try that soon. Am circumcised so hand wanking leaves me with a swollen end to my cock afterwards. This sounds like it could resolve that problem. But lube or no lube?"

I'm circumcised too and have no problem with this. I don't use lube with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had to google what the amazing wand is. Really? It looks like just a massager can't believe it's better than normal vib or rabbit? Now I get that's what Samantha was returning in sex and the city n got told its a neck massager "

It's the second most powerful vibrator I've ever used (sybian being the first). It plugs into the wall (none of those weak ass batteries powering this beast). I've an ex gf who I know had a rabbit but I never saw her use it, she only ever used her magic wand.

Nifty tip for people looking to share their magic wand (the foam tip is porous so wouldn't just hand somebody it and tell them to go at it if you wouldn't fuck then unprotected). May seem a bit obvious but people are always amazed when I suggest this - throw a condom over the head. Still feels great and protects you. Plus makes for super easy cleanup, especially if she's a squirter or you use lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep same here - only came across it by accident but seems to get everyones vote for being "the" toy"

not mine.. I find it overrated and while I can orgasm from it, I find it no better than my multi speed bullet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep same here - only came across it by accident but seems to get everyones vote for being "the" toy

not mine.. I find it overrated and while I can orgasm from it, I find it no better than my multi speed bullet "

Yep I wondered about that - what is it about the wand which is so different technically to make it the best thing since sliced bread? Is it the power of the vibrations maybe?

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago


"Try it when used with a dildo at same time. Let the head of the wand touch the end of the dildo and the clit at the same time. The vibes travel along the dildo deep inside. "

Nice one! will try that on partner. Tge wand us awesome, mains powered is best, a rechargeable one is not as good (no consrant power). Getting attachments for it for her birthday. Beats flowers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow early morning first time play with wife - two orgasms in 30 minutes is an absolute first for her - thank you magic wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got my magic wand in the post today - can't wait until the kids get to bed so i can give it a try

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Best toy weve ever bought .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to round this off. Since my original post this has become an occasional toy in our play. Most times we more than happy not using toys but when we want some extra special fun then this does it for us. Her preference is for vibrator or me inside her and the wand on her clit - I do have to be careful if it's me inside or I can cum v quickly.

Our sex life tends to be mainly at weekends cos she needs her beauty sleep but one of the accessories we've bought for the wand is a male wank sleeve. Have found the tip I say elsewhere of putting the wand with sleeve attached between the bed and mattress (or settee frame and seat) gives a good doggy-style fuck and I came today within 45 secs watching some porn. Amazing toy and well worth every penny for both of us.

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By *ady_CuntaliciousWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Best toy ive ever bought I can use the toy for hours but find if a man is using his fingers at the time it can lead to great orgasms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best toy ive ever bought I can use the toy for hours but find if a man is using his fingers at the time it can lead to great orgasms..."

Also great to use for doggy or anal sex !!! Mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Understand doggy but how does the wand help anal sex?
"Best toy ive ever bought I can use the toy for hours but find if a man is using his fingers at the time it can lead to great orgasms...

Also great to use for doggy or anal sex !!! Mind blowing "

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By *jandmcCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

The best to use is the original "Hitachi" one - readily available on eBay. It's from the States so comes with a UK adapter. The power faaarrr excedes imitations.

There's a knobbly rubber hood that is exceptional on the clit.

Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby just bought me a wand for my birthday with two attachments. Wow wow wow love it and not even tried the attachments yet, can easily have multiple orgasms with it

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

From having a look around, there is more than one type of wand (of course, but mine can go inside as well as get the clit going!

I've killed a fair few rabbits, but none of them hit the many spots that this does!

Once I start to cum/squirt with that.. I can't even stop for hours.. the opposite to having to wait hours lol

So every woman Is different I guess lol

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