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What's your FAB niggles? - Bit of fun.

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By *otwife Coolhub OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate

It's a tongue not a tounge.

Proffesonal people can usually spell.

Youse isn't a word.

Looking at pictures isn't reading a profile.

Asking the forum for help in getting your wife to swing isn't right, especially when you have 10 veri's yourself so you're something of an expert.

Having "Does anyone on here actually meet?" as your status, when your only verification was from 2010 is a tad rich.

Openly admitting you're married on your profile isn't some gallant act of "honesty"

What's your FAB niggles?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Discreet = judicious in one's conduct or speech, especially with regard to respecting privacy or maintaining silence about something of a delicate nature; prudent; circumspect

Discrete = apart or detached from others; separate; distinct: six discrete parts.

Spelling discreet wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tongue not a tounge.

Proffesonal people can usually spell.

Youse isn't a word.

Looking at pictures isn't reading a profile.

Asking the forum for help in getting your wife to swing isn't right, especially when you have 10 veri's yourself so you're something of an expert.

Having "Does anyone on here actually meet?" as your status, when your only verification was from 2010 is a tad rich.

Openly admitting you're married on your profile isn't some gallant act of "honesty"

What's your FAB niggles?

"

When I see a straight couple who will only play with single guys that are fully bi. What's that about?

Women who only want bbc, but their pics show them with a little white thing in their mouth.

Women that don't read profiles, but then have a go at men who don't.

People who randomly add me, then delete any message I send to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who send out random friends requests without any other form of communication. To me it's like walking in a room full of people and just choosing a few to befriend without speaking first. We have this written in our profile (or words to that effect) not that many bother reading it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who put on their status that others are rude, the site is rubbish and they're leaving!!!

Not surprisingly they're still there a month later!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who say they will reply to every message even if it's to say no thanks lyou but don't and just delete your message, of you are gonna do that then don't put in your profile that you will reply to every message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that say they are new, yet joined a year ago and still got veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My niggles are people saying they will block you if you dont have a pic on your profile and they have not got a bloody pic. Guys saying they want quality rather than quantity and they have hundreds of veris's and girls who compose a profile that is quite rude and written aggressively with a big list of unrealistic wants as if they are the bees knees and in reality they would have zero chance of pulling outside of fab x

Ohh niggles over and done with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who send out random friends requests without any other form of communication. To me it's like walking in a room full of people and just choosing a few to befriend without speaking first. We have this written in our profile (or words to that effect) not that many bother reading it though."
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who say they will reply to every message even if it's to say no thanks lyou but don't and just delete your message, of you are gonna do that then don't put in your profile that you will reply to every message"
I reply to every message if there is a decent message sent and the message proves they read all my profile, otherwise I don't. A hi how are you or fancy a f...k doesn't work.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

People constantly pestering me for sex. It's a fishing site ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who go mmmmmmmmm!!! How's that meant to convey anything remotely sexy!

And people who jump into people's threads asking about a sexual act and try to beg for a meet asking for someone to do it to them. Begging almost.

And the massive amount of single man bashing would hate to be a single man on here sometimes. (What is amusing about theses threads though is that no single man admits to the behaviour that prompts the thread in the first place)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males using pics of beautiful women they've supposedly met as an avatar, justifying it because you can see their cock in the bottom corner of the pic somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys that can't string more than two sentences together or hold a conversation without mentioning sex within the first few messages. Also ppl that moan and whinge about lack of meets or replies.. put the effort in and you'll reap what you sow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with 'sexy' and 'Gorgeous' in their profile name, when they are blatantly not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 niggles one is extremely bad spelling but thats just a thing I hate anyway.

the other is why on a couples profile the pics are always of the female never the male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of a free teleportation service!

Sometimes its just too damn hot for a long drive!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"A bit of fun".......

This is just going to be a rant thread.

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

Karnt du wiv all that txt spk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that delete their profile every 6 weeks and then start a new one with exactly the same pics and wording

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that delete their profile every 6 weeks and then start a new one with exactly the same pics and wording "
because they accidentally deleted it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that send the same "personalised" message out every other week because they hav'nt really got a fecking clue who they're sending a message to and can't remember who they've messaged previously

oooh its not thursday yet I should'nt be having a whinge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that delete their profile every 6 weeks and then start a new one with exactly the same pics and wording because they accidentally deleted it! "

5 times

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Guys that can't string more than two sentences together or hold a conversation without mentioning sex within the first few messages!"

Fully agree. And then the usage of the word Women - when they actually mean Woman.

"Me really want to meet a women"

Oh. And the total ignorance of age limitations .... Want to meet trannies, yet "Straight" and think the photos displayed on your profile are real time!

"Youse look really sexy as a women, huni"

Who could resist such verbal diarrho... poetry'?

And another thing ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you have to meet someone who is verified to achieve verification, even though meets may already have occurred...

mr not happy of richmond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that delete their profile every 6 weeks and then start a new one with exactly the same pics and wording because they accidentally deleted it!

5 times"
and have been verified on another site while they accidentally deleted their profile 5 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that take postings the wrong way and have a go at people for coments that were posted and were not ment to offend that gets my back up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Karnt du wiv all that txt spk"

Me2

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

our profile was set up by me Claire and my hubby who's pic is always available on request. The reason is my pictures and not hubby's in public is my hubby's job!!

so not every couples profile is a male pretending to be a couple..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the threads that say things like...... kiss shag or pass......... done so many times in so many ways........ sorry but they are so boring......!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to be totally contradictory...

I've been on 2 weeks and have;

had nice meets both social and... ,

got verified,

a nice level of messaging with a diverse array of people,

Visited Tease 2....

Sorry just wanted to show i had nothing to rant about yet im quite happy.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to be totally contradictory...

I've been on 2 weeks and have;

had nice meets both social and... ,

got verified,

a nice level of messaging with a diverse array of people,

Visited Tease 2....oh don't worry you will soon lol

Sorry just wanted to show i had nothing to rant about yet im quite happy.xxx"

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Threads that say they are for a bit of fun but are really rants / bitchy and end up more bitchy/ rants.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I lied though, it isn't a niggle...it just causes mayhem when it normally gets personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that spend more time concerned with how others use the site than themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who say they will reply to every message even if it's to say no thanks lyou but don't and just delete your message, of you are gonna do that then don't put in your profile that you will reply to every messageI reply to every message if there is a decent message sent and the message proves they read all my profile, otherwise I don't. A hi how are you or fancy a f...k doesn't work. "

Exactly this! If someone has obviously read our profile & taken time to write a half decent message, then we will reply, even if just with no thanks. But if its obvious they haven't read it, have no pics or info on their profile, made no effirt to check the message reads ok, then why should we make any effort to reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops! Effort, not effirt!! Now why didn't predictive text pick that up first time?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Just to be totally contradictory...

I've been on 2 weeks and have;

had nice meets both social and... ,

got verified,

a nice level of messaging with a diverse array of people,

Visited Tease 2....

Sorry just wanted to show i had nothing to rant about yet im quite happy.xxx"

Welcome, it all sounds like a good start to the site

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Threads that say they are for a bit of fun but are really rants / bitchy and end up more bitchy/ rants. "

I'm not alone in my thoughts. In any case.....

Bi/ Gay men that can't read my profile.

Couples that send friend requests without prior correspondence.

Couples that get annoyed when you tell them "thanks but no thanks", because they expect you to be grateful for any attention that comes your way.

Whiny forum threads.

Woe is me posts.

That's it for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks yes it's been a good couple of weeks. Not really a newbie though as I've just moved across from SH after 9 years

Good hunting :D

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By *otwife Coolhub OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bathgate


"Threads that say they are for a bit of fun but are really rants / bitchy and end up more bitchy/ rants. "

Our intention was not for this thread to be a bitchy rant, the intention was for it to be light hearted

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Friends invites without message exchange

People who fail to grasp the 'no straight males' on our profile (averaging three a day)

One line messages from one line profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Karnt du wiv all that txt spk

Me2 "

innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profiles that say they are new, yet joined a year ago and still got veri's "

Lol, i alwaz chuckle at that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

text speak drives me insane!!

Also people who leave false verifications for people just so they get a decent one back.. Ive met a few men that can apparently go and go again and have a great cock... Only thing great on them is the size of their ego and when they cum they collapse in a heap!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Or messages reminding me 'this is a sex site you know!!'

After I have said no thanks

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Being called a fem.

Can't think of anymore that haven't already been said, especially those ones from the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being called a fem.

Can't think of anymore that haven't already been said, especially those ones from the OP."

I absolutely agree with this. Messages like 'fem is so sexy' is so cold amd generalistic.

I also hate the term 'doing somebody' ie, we did this couple last night, it's crass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight guys that are bi.

Squirting.

Fisting.

Spitting.

Dogging.

Cyber/phone sex.

Youse instead of you.

Profiles that say only "Will fill in later", when they've been members for over a year.

And of course T.O.U.N.G.E instead of T.O.N.G.U.E, it isn't rocket science.

Etc, etc.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. I know it is no-one's right to receive a veri, whether its a snog/grope session in a carpark after a coffee or a full-on house/hotel meet, and im probably being a touch sensitive here, but if you verify someone, is it too much to maybe hope for a return very especially if you are told to your face a good time was had?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that talk about 'veri's' as though they're currency. In the real world nobody gives a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess that my post came across wrongly. was just asking really. joining in, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess that my post came across wrongly. was just asking really. joining in, sorry"

Sorry wasn't aimed at you although realised after it read that way

It was the 'veri's' lingo I was meaning to reference.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Damn.... I must be quite annoying to a lot of you....oh well

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By *erebothbiCouple
over a year ago

howden

not having a search engine on this site thats worth tupance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cpls with just fem pics .... and cpls where they have both had to take thier own pics in a mirror? ..... oh and the "postage stamp" size pics ........ ffs - nick some bigger ones at least !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who have profile and just pics if thier cock at different angles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not playing"...but I'll put a meet up

fucking stop being lazy and update ur profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I'm not playing"...but I'll put a meet up

fucking stop being lazy and update ur profile"

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By *ilKandMeCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

[Removed by poster at 24/07/13 23:23:33]

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By *ilKandMeCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

People begging for fabs every time they upload a new pic! If a pic is good you shouldn't have to ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your on cam in chat, don't put your cock right in front of your webcam trying to make it look big. Your not fooling anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my big one is black guys who spell like they talk and send you messages with words like, dis, dem, dat and tat in it

it really bugs me

fooking spell properly you went to school ffs

and breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a couple of guys in the past and they don't add you as a friend chat for ages and when you meet you don't get a very in return but the display yours and want to meet again..Im afraid that so rude I have blocked both so they cant display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably it's some, not all, of the long standing members who all know each other from socials and clubs. You disagree with one, just as in a debate, nothing personal, and you tend to disagree with all of them.

The pack of wolves mentality I haven't came across with new members, who do seem more friendly.

When you do have a disagreement, and they cannot seem to win- just fall back on being abusive and making it personal. Being misquoted and being attacked, usually by someone who cannot string a sentence together: full of spelling mistakes and no punctuation.

Niggles are with people who seem to think they own the site and often use 'we' or 'us' as though they are speaking on behalf of everyone on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that spend more time concerned with how others use the site than themselves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak, incorrect grammar and writing in the same manner that one speaks really irritates me. Your instead of you're is one that is the common offender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who accept your friend invite - and then never chat to your then onwards - what's that about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who hijack threads to flirt

Men who alternate between being bi and straight

People attempting to dictate how others should use the site

People complaining that every message should be answered

Complains about using the block functionality

Would you .... ? Threads

Look at me threads

Phew - I feel tons better now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably it's some, not all, of the long standing members who all know each other from socials and clubs. You disagree with one, just as in a debate, nothing personal, and you tend to disagree with all of them.

The pack of wolves mentality I haven't came across with new members, who do seem more friendly.

When you do have a disagreement, and they cannot seem to win- just fall back on being abusive and making it personal. Being misquoted and being attacked, usually by someone who cannot string a sentence together: full of spelling mistakes and no punctuation.

Niggles are with people who seem to think they own the site and often use 'we' or 'us' as though they are speaking on behalf of everyone on fab. "

Think those people literally don't have anything better to do with themselves. Maybe someone should start a support group to get them off it and to begin a productive life's again.

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

I really find it irritating when people use abbreviations, particularly none-official or common ones, and expect everyone to know what they're lacking about. The number of times people do this, especially in headings, and have the thread is spent explaining what the abbreviation means.

It just seems lazy to me, just like text speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys who have profile and just pics if thier cock at different angles lol"

What about body/face pics from all angles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably it's some, not all, of the long standing members who all know each other from socials and clubs. You disagree with one, just as in a debate, nothing personal, and you tend to disagree with all of them.

The pack of wolves mentality I haven't came across with new members, who do seem more friendly.

When you do have a disagreement, and they cannot seem to win- just fall back on being abusive and making it personal. Being misquoted and being attacked, usually by someone who cannot string a sentence together: full of spelling mistakes and no punctuation.

Niggles are with people who seem to think they own the site and often use 'we' or 'us' as though they are speaking on behalf of everyone on fab.

Think those people literally don't have anything better to do with themselves. Maybe someone should start a support group to get them off it and to begin a productive life's again. "

Hehe, yeah. Love it! Though I'm not sure that they ever had a productive life to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably it's some, not all, of the long standing members who all know each other from socials and clubs. You disagree with one, just as in a debate, nothing personal, and you tend to disagree with all of them.

The pack of wolves mentality I haven't came across with new members, who do seem more friendly.

When you do have a disagreement, and they cannot seem to win- just fall back on being abusive and making it personal. Being misquoted and being attacked, usually by someone who cannot string a sentence together: full of spelling mistakes and no punctuation.

Niggles are with people who seem to think they own the site and often use 'we' or 'us' as though they are speaking on behalf of everyone on fab.

Think those people literally don't have anything better to do with themselves. Maybe someone should start a support group to get them off it and to begin a productive life's again. "

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

Single male profiles with pics of them playing. So crass.

Profiles with only pictures of their cock at various angles.

People who message me who have clearly not read my profile.

People who send random friend invites.

People who email me a copy and paste message. They are so easy to spot.

Single men who puts something on their profile like "I am not like all the idiots on here, I am not a dick, I can get women in real life etc"

Single me who think if they post in the forums something like "I love to lick pussy" it is going to get women flocking to meet them. Us women are not stupid guys.

Guys who try and suck up in forum threads.

People who email me cock pics.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

My biggest niggle is

There are way too many hot women on here with gorgeous outfits! Jeez ladies delete your accounts and leave all the men to me please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on a first meet who pass wind infront of you... Come on, at least have the common courtesy to wait until the second meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who can't help but be nasty on threads!!

I was brought up to know that if I have nothing nice to say... Say nothing.

How hard is it to ignore a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess that my post came across wrongly. was just asking really. joining in, sorry

Sorry wasn't aimed at you although realised after it read that way

It was the 'veri's' lingo I was meaning to reference."
In that case, you are excused but I probably need to watch what I write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met a couple of guys in the past and they don't add you as a friend chat for ages and when you meet you don't get a very in return but the display yours and want to meet again..Im afraid that so rude I have blocked both so they cant display "
I wrote something similar about this on here. A return veri costs nothing, even if you just said they were a nice person? I always write a veri but am thinking why do I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who can't help but be nasty on threads!!

I was brought up to know that if I have nothing nice to say... Say nothing.

How hard is it to ignore a thread "

same - If nothing nice to say - say nothing

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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago

Round the corner

Friend requests by random people you not even chatted with !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who can't help but be nasty on threads!!

I was brought up to know that if I have nothing nice to say... Say nothing.

How hard is it to ignore a thread "

Could that be any more oxymoronic?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I have met a couple of guys in the past and they don't add you as a friend chat for ages and when you meet you don't get a very in return but the display yours and want to meet again..Im afraid that so rude I have blocked both so they cant display I wrote something similar about this on here. A return veri costs nothing, even if you just said they were a nice person? I always write a veri but am thinking why do I? "

Yup I think that's rude. If you didn't enjoy the meet so much then there's no obligation to write a veri. But don't then display one from the person you won't write one for.

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