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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's your honest view on my profile I'm having zero luck with anyone at all. Thanks

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

No pics on your profile at all, and the two you do have are in your private gallery.

For starters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add a couple of photos apart from friend only ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your honest view on my profile I'm having zero luck with anyone at all. Thanks"

seems fine to me... then again, im not picky. you could put a face picture up. are you trying to make contact with couples or single females? last resort is local clubs/socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18-40 small age range..ur 30, u could at least try the mid 45's

lack of seeable pics

avatar could be bareback or porn lifted

cannot accom

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

All of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic is off putting. Its barely even of your cock, mainly some lady's vagine. Put one of yourself up.

Some will question your inability to accomodate but that's not really a major prob. Not everyone can.

Other than that the text is fine. Better than most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the pics comments. People want to see the goods.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback all. I shall attempt some changes going forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your honest view on my profile I'm having zero luck with anyone at all. Thanks"

bearback pic lovely ........

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

nothing apart from profile picture and maybe age range,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's your honest view on my profile I'm having zero luck with anyone at all. Thanks"

Bareback avatar on a single mans profile that shows more of the female body than his: instant turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has taken me over year to get two meets on this site, the latest was last night, totally unexpected (the original M never turned up), I took a chance and sent the couple a message, not expecting a reply (really friendly couple and will definitely be seeing them again).

Remember, there are 1000's of single men on this site and from what I have read and heard, far too many of them are extremely pushy, only want one thing and many never turn up to meets if/when they are invited. These are the guys who have ruined it for the genuine singles. They have made it very difficult for us. Hang in there

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"What's your honest view on my profile I'm having zero luck with anyone at all. Thanks

Bareback avatar on a single mans profile that shows more of the female body than his: instant turn off! "

This for me.

Also, your profile header made me think of Peter Andre

Sorry.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It isn't just about your profile...It can be about how you approach other members. That first message can be important.

have you read their profile

do you match what they seek

etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol weve been on hear a week

and my ass hurts.. pleanty of people to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All feedback was welcome although sweeping remarks about bare back is a little wide of the mark without understanding the circumstances the picture was taken in but hey ho. Good to hear people's views.

I will make some changes and see how it goes

Thanks!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"All feedback was welcome although sweeping remarks about bare back is a little wide of the mark without understanding the circumstances the picture was taken in but hey ho. Good to hear people's views.

I will make some changes and see how it goes

Thanks!

"

But without an explanation of the circumstances, people only have the picture to go by don't they?

And the pic is mainly a woman's naked body with half a disembodied cock sticking out of it. Hardly selling YOU is it, considering you aren't the main focus of the photo.

You've been given lots of good tips to help improve your success rate. Good luck

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

No Pictures, and I'm assuming you're part of a couple with that thumb print of you with a female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These are the guys who have ruined it for the genuine singles. They have made it very difficult for us. Hang in there "

No, no, no, no, no! Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!!!!

Every time I read something like this I feel my brain will implode!!

Nobody - repeat, nobody - can ever be responsible for anyone else's lack of 'success', giving anyone else a 'bad name' or preventing them from getting meets.

It's a cop out, an excuse, total BS and the staple line used by those who can't interact in a manner others find interesting and attractive, and who often would find life on these kind of sites a lot easier if they put as much effort into their profiles as they do their moans in the forums!

Rant over.

Apologies for being a day early!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These are the guys who have ruined it for the genuine singles. They have made it very difficult for us. Hang in there

No, no, no, no, no! Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!!!!

Every time I read something like this I feel my brain will implode!!

Nobody - repeat, nobody - can ever be responsible for anyone else's lack of 'success', giving anyone else a 'bad name' or preventing them from getting meets.

It's a cop out, an excuse, total BS and the staple line used by those who can't interact in a manner others find interesting and attractive, and who often would find life on these kind of sites a lot easier if they put as much effort into their profiles as they do their moans in the forums!

Rant over.

Apologies for being a day early! "

Hit+nail+head!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never made any assumptions about anyone I just asked for thoughts. As they assume makes ass of u & me and that's clearly happened. Again forums are a place for trolls to vent there clearly wide of the mark thoughts and fair play they are entitled to do that. One ladies suggestion I have taken on board and made changes already. Others I may follow. People should not just assume that because I am a single guy with a fem in a picture means "I'm a couple" that's frankly BS. I chose to upload that picture because I like it, others may not. So what get over it. I asked for feedback and I'll accept or ignore your comments as I chose. Frankly some of the people who have commented around my profile I wouldn't like to meet just by the comment. Surprisingly it's the guys who have made most sense. How ironic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile looks ok and better than a lot I've read. A few pics might be an idea but I know you say you've taken on board some of the other suggestions. Personally I don't like to see intimate pics of other women on single mens profiles but that's just my opinion. If you like the pic, then keep it. It's your profile Good luck and enjoy the site x

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By *ustJakeMan
over a year ago

Manchester/north east


"It has taken me over year to get two meets on this site, the latest was last night, totally unexpected (the original M never turned up), I took a chance and sent the couple a message, not expecting a reply (really friendly couple and will definitely be seeing them again).

Remember, there are 1000's of single men on this site and from what I have read and heard, far too many of them are extremely pushy, only want one thing and many never turn up to meets if/when they are invited. These are the guys who have ruined it for the genuine singles. They have made it very difficult for us. Hang in there "

Excellent post mate, couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your honest view on my profile I'm having zero luck with anyone at all. Thanks"

That not true at least u have some luck

Even if its zero , so some look is better then no luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's your honest view on my profile I'm having zero luck with anyone at all. Thanks

That not true at least u have some luck

Even if its zero , so some look is better then no luck"

Errrr yeah thanks. I think????

Thanks Legs! For the comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your honest view on my profile I'm having zero luck with anyone at all. Thanks

That not true at least u have some luck

Even if its zero , so some look is better then no luck

Errrr yeah thanks. I think????

Thanks Legs! For the comments "

You're welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a few pics on your public gallery would go a long way. Is there a reason that you're holding back from doing that?

A person's profile copy gives a really good insight into their personality, yours isn't too bad to be honest but it needs to be backed up with at least a couple of pics, I personally think it does anyway, others may disagree.

And with regards to trolls etc.. this is an open forum, you will get the odd negative comment as well as constructive advice. Just take it on the chin and don't get too stressed about it.

Good luck, keep calm and carry on

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I never made any assumptions about anyone I just asked for thoughts. As they assume makes ass of u & me and that's clearly happened. Again forums are a place for trolls to vent there clearly wide of the mark thoughts and fair play they are entitled to do that. One ladies suggestion I have taken on board and made changes already. Others I may follow. People should not just assume that because I am a single guy with a fem in a picture means "I'm a couple" that's frankly BS. I chose to upload that picture because I like it, others may not. So what get over it. I asked for feedback and I'll accept or ignore your comments as I chose. Frankly some of the people who have commented around my profile I wouldn't like to meet just by the comment. Surprisingly it's the guys who have made most sense. How ironic. "

My apologies. When you posted this thread asking for honest comments I naively thought that's what you wanted: silly me not recognising this was a variation on a theme "look at me" post.

Your profile is excellent, your female friend has a hot body, your easy going lovely nature shines through. For the life of me I can't fathom why the bitches are playing hard to get.

How's that?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These are the guys who have ruined it for the genuine singles. They have made it very difficult for us. Hang in there

No, no, no, no, no! Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!!!!

Every time I read something like this I feel my brain will implode!!

Nobody - repeat, nobody - can ever be responsible for anyone else's lack of 'success', giving anyone else a 'bad name' or preventing them from getting meets.

It's a cop out, an excuse, total BS and the staple line used by those who can't interact in a manner others find interesting and attractive, and who often would find life on these kind of sites a lot easier if they put as much effort into their profiles as they do their moans in the forums!

Rant over.

Apologies for being a day early! "

Really? Then please explain the rather large amount of profiles saying they are NOT looking for single guys as the men they have met have been too pushy or whatever. I see so many profiles writing single guys off because of previous experience, so many status updates complaining of the lack of manners from single guys, the utter rudeness and or vulgarity displayed by some of them. Being in sales for the last 20 odd years, I'm fairly certain I can converse on any level in any situation. Given the chance that is. I'm under no delusion/illusion, just read some of the posts on the forum to see for yorself, besides, I'm not complaining, just letting the OP know what the situation is a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honest view of my profile means making swiping remarks about a picture which includes bareback... Hmm good one that.

Sarcasm clearly not your strongest point either. Especially from a hidden profile.

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