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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

messaged a few single women on here lately and conversation going well then they ask if I have any friends I can bring with me as they like to play with multiple guys. Is the old fashioned 1on1 meet a thing of the past?, lol

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No not at all. I prefer 1 on 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi think your self lucky u got a reply I've been on here cple of months and can count replies on one hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a one on one lady .. So there are lots of us on here its just finding the right one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer one on one with special people. So In general guys get told one on one doesn't do it for me.

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I prefer one on one with special people. So In general guys get told one on one doesn't do it for me. "

Ha ha why not just tell them straight that there not your type rather than lie to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not at all. I prefer 1 on 1. "

+ 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer one on one with special people. So In general guys get told one on one doesn't do it for me.

Ha ha why not just tell them straight that there not your type rather than lie to them? "

Eh ? she's not lying

I'm the same as Cali. 1 on 1 is for my own partner. When I play I prefer multiple.

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

She said 1on1 with special people but generally tell guys that 1on1 doesn't do it for her but it does, lol

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

In general though it does show me that the 1on1 fans are out there so good will hunting me thinks, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry OP havent u heard the site is a swinging site???..

1on1 is fine, plenty play like that, but i think most would understand the key aspects of swinging(even though they have evolved a bit)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mfm but I play 1 on 1 a lot as you can give and receive equal attention without feeling someone's missing out ....if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She said 1on1 with special people but generally tell guys that 1on1 doesn't do it for her but it does, lol"

no most guys will not interest me one on one as I need more from someone I play with one on one.

So I will tell guys to wait till I am at a club. If they are not for me they get told that..

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"She said 1on1 with special people but generally tell guys that 1on1 doesn't do it for her but it does, lol

no most guys will not interest me one on one as I need more from someone I play with one on one.

So I will tell guys to wait till I am at a club. If they are not for me they get told that.. "

Right now that makes sense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 on 1 us good for nervous shy people....however group action is where it's at!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry OP havent u heard the site is a swinging site???..

1on1 is fine, plenty play like that, but i think most would understand the key aspects of swinging(even though they have evolved a bit)"

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"1 on 1 us good for nervous shy people....however group action is where it's at! "

Group action is on my bucket list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 on 1 us good for nervous shy people....however group action is where it's at! "

group fun is my thing with random people xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 on 1 for me. but then never played with more than one. scary thought so prob never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go with the flow?

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"1 on 1 us good for nervous shy people....however group action is where it's at! "

I disagree there are plenty of single women who are looking for a selection of fuck buddy options and have no interest in group fun, it's just finding those elusive ones, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 on 1 us good for nervous shy people....however group action is where it's at!

I disagree there are plenty of single women who are looking for a selection of fuck buddy options and have no interest in group fun, it's just finding those elusive ones, lol"

like has been said earlier this is a swinging site, you will find people only looking for 1 on 1, but not that many, swingers generally are trying new things and acting out fantasies, the top and bottom is people will use the site for what they want to, simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt that they're out there ... equal numbers with the group players in my experience.

I just cant get my own head around the group thing ... I've tried it and found it a little soulless. One to one is good, 3 or 4 is better but any more is a spectator sport for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife enjoys our sessions together with other guys but she really loves a 1 on 1

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By *ixma OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"No doubt that they're out there ... equal numbers with the group players in my experience.

I just cant get my own head around the group thing ... I've tried it and found it a little soulless. One to one is good, 3 or 4 is better but any more is a spectator sport for me. "

Couldn't agree more that's why I never have and never will participate in a gangbang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 on 1 us good for nervous shy people....however group action is where it's at!

Group action is on my bucket list. "

And mine small steps ! If you told me a year or 2 ago I'd be here now I would have laughed ! But the more I hear the more I'm intrigued !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit confused by Op and profile...while not intending to pick up on another post,

its just a bit strange ur meeting lots of couples and at parties, but ur OP is saying that u only participate if its a 1on1 session?- the pics also suggest there is someone else there

apologies if ur a cuckhold seeking bull lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might ask the next single lady if she's got friends that she could bring. That'll be interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No doubt that they're out there ... equal numbers with the group players in my experience.

I just cant get my own head around the group thing ... I've tried it and found it a little soulless. One to one is good, 3 or 4 is better but any more is a spectator sport for me. "

as you can't really have sex with more than four really at once, gangbangs are like lots of little 3sums or 4 Sums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say one good turn deserves another that normally ends that conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefere 1 to 1 , I get messages asking do I have another bi female I can bring. No I bloody don't ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really into one on one meets, group fun is where its at for me. One on one doesnt do it for me unless its someone special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me now as I'm looking to try new things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No doubt that they're out there ... equal numbers with the group players in my experience.

I just cant get my own head around the group thing ... I've tried it and found it a little soulless. One to one is good, 3 or 4 is better but any more is a spectator sport for me.

as you can't really have sex with more than four really at once, gangbangs are like lots of little 3sums or 4 Sums. "

I see the attraction in that for the lady but not the fellas (or not me at least)... perversely I do like the wanton intimacy of a one 2 one after a group session (although its been about 5 years since last experiencing that with long term partner)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1on1 are good if u like the sensual side and as mis dreams said the special people too but i just like to set the mood n relax ie the passion and sensual side or am i just a perv

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Iv met a few that wanted a fb or group etc but when you give them what they need/want theyre women...... They change their minds

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well, I will admit, I am a one on one meet person, boring I know to most on here, but hey, it's how I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 on 1 us good for nervous shy people....however group action is where it's at!

Group action is on my bucket list.

And mine small steps ! If you told me a year or 2 ago I'd be here now I would have laughed ! But the more I hear the more I'm intrigued ! "
This is me (I think re the intrigued, but nervous)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I might ask the next single lady if she's got friends that she could bring. That'll be interesting. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"messaged a few single women on here lately and conversation going well then they ask if I have any friends I can bring with me as they like to play with multiple guys. Is the old fashioned 1on1 meet a thing of the past?, lol "

im 1 on 1

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"1 on 1 us good for nervous shy people....however group action is where it's at! "

Now, I think that is some generalisation!

Why do some people always want to ram down your throat how other people should play!

Group sex has never had an appeal to me and it never will!

Shy and nervous? Hmm I don't think so, but then I do have other sides to me I like to fulfil! Just need to find the right person, and only one on one can do that for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety is the spice of life and the answer to this question !!!!

One on one or group action or both all are equally good at the time as its go with the flow or should be !!

Whichever or whatever you do should be right for you and right at the time xxx

Welcome to the wonderful world of swinging

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