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"We've been to la chambre loads of times had plenty of soft swing encounters but we both want to play with a woman I know in the rooms its pretty much full on but wouldn't like to overstep the mark and presume the other lady is bi how to approach and play any advice please" I go to La Chambre, and I'm not bi. I've had several approaches, which have been: "would you like to play with us", from me: "no thanks, I'm not bi". The straightforward question is DEFINITELY the approach to take. I would be mortified if a woman 'came on to me' physically, as I would then have to ask her to stop. (I'm happy to say 'stop touching me without asking' to a man, though ) However, I do usually manage to subtly put out the 'not bi' signals, so that I rarely get asked to play with couples. Do you have any reason to believe the lady you're attracted to actually IS bi? If she's not giving out any bi signals, then she's probably not. | |||
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"In a club, ask. Outside you need to be more subtle. Worst ones are those who say yes when they clearly are not when you start playing but are putting on a show for the partner or something, not good " Definitely this one... Xx | |||
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"sometimes a laying a gentle hand on another ladys leg/thigh (non genital place) will give you the answer. " Yes! And usually even before that you should get some indication of whether you're welcome or not. If they avoid eye contact and turn away it's likely a no. | |||
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"sometimes a laying a gentle hand on another ladys leg/thigh (non genital place) will give you the answer. Yes! And usually even before that you should get some indication of whether you're welcome or not. If they avoid eye contact and turn away it's likely a no." ^ this | |||
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