FabSwingers.com forum: Turned on or off ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was wondering how many women get turned off by "Need a dirty slut to suck me off" messages or updates? And how many get turned on by it?

Personally its not my thing .. Just got a message from someone pic looked ok , message was polite , then looked at his profile .. See the slut thing and was turned off instantly.... So made me curious about how others feel

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ohhh no I couldnt bare it..

would be deleted instantly.. nice polite chat for me thanks...

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By *he BendoversCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle

A bit too coarse for my liking so a turn off for me!

Suzie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off big time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off. And if they were sat opposite a short sharp heel placed somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from a stranger yes, instant turn off... but from someone I've had some fun with and built up a rapport with, I quite like a bit of dirty talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off! A few on my local update page who keep putting this as their status are on my blocked list. Can't bear to read it several times a week!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Each to their own ... I'm not pretending I'm not a dirty bird !!! Lol ... But I'm no ones slut !!! Had a man say it mid plAy once! His lucky his dick was not in my mouth at the time !!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off for me

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"from a stranger yes, instant turn off... but from someone I've had some fun with and built up a rapport with, I quite like a bit of dirty talk.

Agree....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"from a stranger yes, instant turn off... but from someone I've had some fun with and built up a rapport with, I quite like a bit of dirty talk.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Turn off, along with 'who's going to empty my balls for me'. Oh I will, with a small sharp knife

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By *oth-wayMan
over a year ago

notts derby

never call a lady slut it will get you nowhere... bad move

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Turn off, along with 'who's going to empty my balls for me'. Oh I will, with a small sharp knife

Lol lol

Yer make me want to run over there asap ... NOT !!

.. Some mutual pleasure is so much more appealing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"never call a lady slut it will get you nowhere... bad move

Well some like it ! But its all about finding out what floats each others boats first

... And that's a 2 way street

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

It is all about the context and how you play. I would not randomly call anyone a slut but in play Ruby is my slut and others have been to.

If anyone else said it to her in a bar tc they would get my heel!

Master

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Yukky yukky gross. .. you better be my Friend to get away with talking to me like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no they wouldnt be my type of person.

had a message from a man saying how much he disliked my pictures and when i looked at his profile it said he was looking for a slut.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no they wouldnt be my type of person.

had a message from a man saying how much he disliked my pictures and when i looked at his profile it said he was looking for a slut.

WTF ! I just don't get that ! Why message some one to say that you are not their cup of tea !!!!!! Its mad ! What a twat !!!!

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"no they wouldnt be my type of person.

had a message from a man saying how much he disliked my pictures and when i looked at his profile it said he was looking for a slut.

WTF ! I just don't get that ! Why message some one to say that you are not their cup of tea !!!!!! Its mad ! What a twat !!!!

Totally agree, must be someone with very low self esteem who is making themselves feel better by being a total prick, I am sure you are not lamenting his loss to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no they wouldnt be my type of person.

had a message from a man saying how much he disliked my pictures and when i looked at his profile it said he was looking for a slut.

WTF ! I just don't get that ! Why message some one to say that you are not their cup of tea !!!!!! Its mad ! What a twat !!!!

Maybe he was trying some reverse psychology lol

I would be put off by a man with these types of comments as well. I always think men who say these things to women they dont know would be terrible lovers anyway. they are only thinking of their owe pleasure and fantasies and obviously not concerned with finding out what the women like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you dirty filthy orrible lot, we all know you're constantly gagging for it. Stop fighting it, don't hide it you slaaaaaaags.....said in Ray winston voice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Yeah you dirty filthy orrible lot, we all know you're constantly gagging for it. Stop fighting it, don't hide it you slaaaaaaags.....said in Ray winston voice.

Oh !!!!!! Busted !

you win

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

When I see it in profile updates. I instantly think selfish lover.

First message is a no from me as well.

However in messages from guys I know and met it is a completely different thing.

In public it is a definite no no, but alone in the bedroom, now that's quite horny.

We all like different things don't we?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I see it in profile updates. I instantly think selfish lover.

First message is a no from me as well.

However in messages from guys I know and met it is a completely different thing.

In public it is a definite no no, but alone in the bedroom, now that's quite horny.

We all like different things don't we?

Oh yes of course its all about what ever floats your boat ... There is no wrong or right

... Like I said at the top I was just curious to know what other people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn off, along with 'who's going to empty my balls for me'. Oh I will, with a small sharp knife

Lol agreed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turn off, along with 'who's going to empty my balls for me'. Oh I will, with a small sharp knife

Lol agreed x"

Deffo agree, and with the poster above who said that these men are obviously thinking only about what they want, and not about what a potential playmate might want.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

"from a stranger yes, instant turn off... but from someone I've had some fun with and built up a rapport with, I quite like a bit of dirty talk.

That is how it is for me, not on a first chat, puts me right off. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was wondering how many women get turned off by "Need a dirty slut to suck me off" messages or updates? And how many get turned on by it?

Well... I would be either way :P not very nice. Then again, others would likely be turned on by it :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a general rule my preference is for tall black guys but if I could have a meet with Ray Winstone he could say whatever the hell he likes to me, just his voice makes me want to "drop em" which on its own would be difficult as I don't actually wear any!!!!!

With regard to the thread, Im not averse to dirty talk from a guy during the heat of the moment as long as he still treats me with respect!!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

If it was said in a message from somebody we had never met then instant turn off, I'm only a slut when I want to be called one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when grizzly calls me slut, but it's only when we are having a naughty night. And that's because I am his slut haha. Anyone else is likely to get a slap ( or blocked )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was wondering how many women get turned off by "Need a dirty slut to suck me off" messages or updates? And how many get turned on by it?

Can't stand it, myself (Mrs Bling here). Had a message yesterday morning from a 'friend', talking about me being a slut (in a supposedly nice way). Turned me off completely.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"Was wondering how many women get turned off by "Need a dirty slut to suck me off" messages or updates? And how many get turned on by it?

People with updates like that or have it in their profile will never meet me. It shows to me the respect they have for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was wondering how many women get turned off by "Need a dirty slut to suck me off" messages or updates? And how many get turned on by it?

People with updates like that or have it in their profile will never meet me. It shows to me the respect they have for women. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt mail them or reply to them its a huge turn off.

It would be like me posting need a smelly cock to fuck my arse...not atttactive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a massive turn off for me. I think its wrong for a guy to call a woman a slut because she likes sex. You dont see many women asking for slut guys to come and give them oral.

Some men have a very misguided view of womens sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant turn-off for me too....

It's not just that it's unattractive and makes the sender look like a brainless moron - the real offence is the assumption that I'm so dull, desperate and simple that I'll actually accept it...!!!

My usual reaction is - "who the hell are you and why do you think that I should even waste one more second of my life even to reply to you???"

Treat me with respect, as a real person, and awaken my intellect and you're already half-way into my knickers.

Treat me like an idiot and I'll treat you the same!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A turn off along with pictures showing gaping ass holes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant turn-off for me too....

It's not just that it's unattractive and makes the sender look like a brainless moron - the real offence is the assumption that I'm so dull, desperate and simple that I'll actually accept it...!!!

My usual reaction is - "who the hell are you and why do you think that I should even waste one more second of my life even to reply to you???"

Treat me with respect, as a real person, and awaken my intellect and you're already half-way into my knickers.

Treat me like an idiot and I'll treat you the same!!!

But sending that reply they do have your attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big turn off, the only guy that can get away with it within reason is my hubby, since he has a nice member. So it is a pleasure to help him enjoy himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total turn off. That and calling me slut etc i hate. What happened to good old fashioned nice terms like babe,Hun,sexy etc

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes I can see why it would be a massive turn off, in fact it's damn right disrespectful to the lady, you don't even know anything about them and your coming out with that. Me thinks it's one of those cases of some men thinking just because it's a swinging site that you can say anything to a woman and she'll lap it up as there looking predominantly for sex....er wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldnt mail them or reply to them its a huge turn off.

It would be like me posting need a smelly cock to fuck my arse...not atttactive "

Sat in team males holding area here. Looking around, I think you may have generated some interest with that last comment. There's a guy in here who's sent out a pic of his erect member, one milion times asking women to let him have it. Exhausting stuff getting it erect that many times, but hey ho were all premier league stuff in our team you know.

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

its a turn off for me with a no thank you as a follow up ,

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