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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

Just a quickie

Do you like me wonder if a person or couple doesnt list safe sex on their interests that they are into bb? We have had lots of people in the last week message us without safe sex on their list and upon asking have been told if other people want us to then we will at which point we loose interest as we are safe only. What would you assume or would you just ask to confirm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that you can make any assumptions from "Interests" lists...

There's actually none of my interests listed on there - not even good old-fashioned "having sex"....

So some people just chose things that nearly fit - the rest just seem to tick everything....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never assume anything,just ask the question

Too much of this assuming business happening on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot to mention it on my profile and the do's and donts of a potential meet, luckily he asked first.

Never assume incase like me they forgot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soap: What do they say about assumption being the brother of all fuck-ups?

Tom: It's the mother of all fuck-ups, stupid!

Soap: Brother, mother, any other sucker. It don't make any difference. They're still fucking guns and they still fire fucking bullets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never assume anything,just ask the question

Too much of this assuming business happening on this site "

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming is as bad as reading between the lines...

If you want to know the answer to something, never second guess, just ask !!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I dont make assumptions about any prospective meet. Its about communication between the two interested parties despite whats written or listed on the profile. Thats why social meets are always recommended.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

To make an assumption is to make an ass out of u and mption. Remember that, it's a good saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother asking anyone, I just assume everyone does bareback. People lie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a quickie

Do you like me wonder if a person or couple doesnt list safe sex on their interests that they are into bb? We have had lots of people in the last week message us without safe sex on their list and upon asking have been told if other people want us to then we will at which point we loose interest as we are safe only. What would you assume or would you just ask to confirm"

Interests are interests doesnt mean they are 100% into it or 100% not into it, could mean the idea appeals or they like it

i never assume about anyone or anything

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

That's like assuming someone who says 'safe sex' always uses protection. The amount of bb requests I've had from people listing 'safe sex' as an interest is disturbing.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

You know what they say about assumptions don't you... " it's the mother of all fuck ups"

Specially not on here, or where you health is concerned.. Question everything, if someone doesn't like it. There loss

No glove no love is the motto of the new world nowadays.. Way to risky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never assume anything,just ask the question

Too much of this assuming business happening on this site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To make an assumption is to make an ass out of u and mption. Remember that, it's a good saying."

I think you meant something like this:

Never assume anything because it can make an ass/of/u/me

Learnt that when training in the Forces.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Never assume anything,just ask the question

Too much of this assuming business happening on this site "

This

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"To make an assumption is to make an ass out of u and mption. Remember that, it's a good saying.

I think you meant something like this:

Never assume anything because it can make an ass/of/u/me

Learnt that when training in the Forces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never read the list of likes as it's basically just a tick box thing and I don't hold that much merit by it.

Every time we arrange a meet we clarify what the expectations are. When we actually do meet, face to face, we again go over what we like, rules etc. Safe sex is stated as a definite rule.

I don't treat the profile as gospel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assume the position

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Best to clarify things, definitions of a GB or a party need putting in place for instance. As regards safe that is open to being taken many ways, some people do protected vaginal and anal penetration but swallow, others want covered oral too. Just ask the questions, read the verifications and make your own mind up whether you want to meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assumption, excellent word. Not trying to be a grammar nazi, but have a look in the Dictionary at what it means, not some saying that has been heard.

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