FabSwingers.com forum: Just how many messages is "lots"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, quite new to the site and not sure if this has been covered recently but I'm intrigued by what would be 'lots' of messages.

You can read profiles which state "getting far too many messages to reply to for x,y,z resons" etc etc. So, how many messages/winks/whatever might a high interest profile (eg attractive couple, pics, can accomm, both bi ... nada nada) expect on an average day.

I wouldn't like to guess but when you log on you see 4000+ peeps on site - although not sure if that's UK only.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I get on average 50 emails per day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i average 50 a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say a new female on here can get them at a rate of about 1-2 a minute, i.e. too many to respond to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some couples, 1 message from a single guy is too many to respond to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i first joined i was gettin roughly over 100 messages a day!! xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"when i first joined i was gettin roughly over 100 messages a day!! xx"

I just fuck em

Stops um emailing me, mind you they then call me instead hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur bloody nuts wumman lol xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"ur bloody nuts wumman lol xx

I know!

sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im guessing lots could be 50 a day ???...i dont get a 10th of that number ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im guessing lots could be 50 a day ???...i dont get a 10th of that number ???"

imalady - without any real knowledge that would be my guess as well ... blimey, a full time job !!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"im guessing lots could be 50 a day ???...i dont get a 10th of that number ???

imalady - without any real knowledge that would be my guess as well ... blimey, a full time job !!"

I work from home, and all my work is email generated so its easy for me

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

To be honest I probably only get around 5-10 new contacts in a 24hrs period… but then again my heading says I don’t want any new “are you interested” messages at the moment… and when it’s obvious they haven’t bothered reading my profile or ignored what it says… then it’s still 5-10 too many! lol

But there are factors which change this:

Having a ‘meet today’ request up… it’s about one message per minute for the best part of an hour.

What time I am online…. there are certain times of day I’ll get more mail if I am online and the more you are online the more you get.

Being a single fem logged on after ‘closing’ will see a rush towards your inbox but the standard of message tends to be “feelin horni u interested”

Going in the chatroom at anytime of day will easily quadruple the messages received.

Going in the chatroom after ‘closing’ …. well I dare not count.

Going on cam in the chatroom with a bit of flesh showing …. pick a number between 20-50 then roll some dice and multiply the number you pick by the number you rolled.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I AM FEELIN HORNY

and I am often interested

Else I would be on facebook

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I AM FEELIN HORNY

and I am often interested

Else I would be on facebook

Are you suggesting anyone who doesn't appreciate that approach shouldn't be here?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"I AM FEELIN HORNY

and I am often interested

Else I would be on facebook

Are you suggesting anyone who doesn't appreciate that approach shouldn't be here?"

I am saying I am here for NSA sex

Not someone that has to jump through months and months of hoops

as well you know madam

Your appraoch is clearly different to mine

I dont knock yours and I feel you have no real need to knock my appraoach which you often quite clearly do

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I AM FEELIN HORNY

and I am often interested

Else I would be on facebook

Are you suggesting anyone who doesn't appreciate that approach shouldn't be here?

I am saying I am here for NSA sex

Not someone that has to jump through months and months of hoops

as well you know madam

Your appraoch is clearly different to mine

I dont knock yours and I feel you have no real need to knock my appraoach which you often quite clearly do

Oh... so the facebook comment wasn't a knock... I see.

Just to clarify, I am not partial to making anyone jump through hoops for any length of time.... I don't fuck performing dogs

And if someone wants to talk for months... that's their choice.... not mine.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"I AM FEELIN HORNY

and I am often interested

Else I would be on facebook

Are you suggesting anyone who doesn't appreciate that approach shouldn't be here?

I am saying I am here for NSA sex

Not someone that has to jump through months and months of hoops

as well you know madam

Your appraoch is clearly different to mine

I dont knock yours and I feel you have no real need to knock my appraoach which you often quite clearly do

Oh... so the facebook comment wasn't a knock... I see.

Just to clarify, I am not partial to making anyone jump through hoops for any length of time.... I don't fuck performing dogs

And if someone wants to talk for months... that's their choice.... not mine."

Like I said

Don't knock my approach

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I AM FEELIN HORNY

and I am often interested

Else I would be on facebook

Are you suggesting anyone who doesn't appreciate that approach shouldn't be here?

I am saying I am here for NSA sex

Not someone that has to jump through months and months of hoops

as well you know madam

Your appraoch is clearly different to mine

I dont knock yours and I feel you have no real need to knock my appraoach which you often quite clearly do

Oh... so the facebook comment wasn't a knock... I see.

Just to clarify, I am not partial to making anyone jump through hoops for any length of time.... I don't fuck performing dogs

And if someone wants to talk for months... that's their choice.... not mine.

Like I said

Don't knock my approach

Unless you are pretending to be a half-cut single male with a stiffy, messaging me after 'closing'... then I can't see where I did.

You obviously must appreciate being approached in that way. I don't.

I believe I have just as much right to express my preferences as you do yours.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

as I said

I never mentioned this particular thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be anything from 1 to 100 messages

If you see that on a profile we’d imagine it means, “don’t bloody email me/us” or they just don’t reply to messages.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Now now girls, you're agreeing with each other.

Nothing to see here, let's move on.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

It depends with us, as someone said earlier - time of day, ad in 'meet today'section etc - we don't go into the chat rooms so that doesn't apply - I guess we get average 5 - 10 per day - thats first contact mails - not from friends etc Z

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I obviously wrongly assumed (as you were making reference to the "Im horni u interested") you were making a point about what I had posted in this thread.

May be a little more clarity next time you make a 'non-knock' comment and there will be less of a misunderstanding

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

see you in an hour

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

I probably get between 10 and 15 a day, not that many I suppose but then again my profile doesn't give the impression that I shag anything with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I probably get between 10 and 15 a day, not that many I suppose but then again my profile doesn't give the impression that I shag anything with a pulse."

id agreee with this, i get about 10 messages per day and theyre not all from new contacts but can be from people i regularly talk to or friends.

i make it quite clear in my profile that i have preferences and am not free 24/7 for sex and i think the number of replies i get reflects that there is an element of self selection for the blokes that generally works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont you just love the forums x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest I probably only get around 5-10 new contacts in a 24hrs period… but then again my heading says I don’t want any new “are you interested” messages at the moment… and when it’s obvious they haven’t bothered reading my profile or ignored what it says… then it’s still 5-10 too many! lol

But there are factors which change this:

Having a ‘meet today’ request up… it’s about one message per minute for the best part of an hour.

What time I am online…. there are certain times of day I’ll get more mail if I am online and the more you are online the more you get.

Being a single fem logged on after ‘closing’ will see a rush towards your inbox but the standard of message tends to be “feelin horni u interested”

Going in the chatroom at anytime of day will easily quadruple the messages received.

Going in the chatroom after ‘closing’ …. well I dare not count.

Going on cam in the chatroom with a bit of flesh showing …. pick a number between 20-50 then roll some dice and multiply the number you pick by the number you rolled.

Yep, that's my experince too. Come 11pmish if I'm online I get around 10 messages from very young members or men in hotel rooms asking if "I wanna cum ova"! I usually grab my toothbrush and clean knickers for those: NOT!!

Outside of that about 4/5 a day if I've been on during the last 24 hours, much more if I'm online!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont you just love the forums x"

There is an element of predictability about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But there are factors which change this:

Having a ‘meet today’ request up… it’s about one message per minute for the best part of an hour.

What time I am online…. there are certain times of day I’ll get more mail if I am online and the more you are online the more you get.

Being a single fem logged on after ‘closing’ will see a rush towards your inbox but the standard of message tends to be “feelin horni u interested”

Going in the chatroom at anytime of day will easily quadruple the messages received.

Going in the chatroom after ‘closing’ …. well I dare not count.

Going on cam in the chatroom with a bit of flesh showing …. pick a number between 20-50 then roll some dice and multiply the number you pick by the number you rolled.

Outside of that about 4/5 a day if I've been on during the last 24 hours, much more if I'm online!

And let me guess you tell them no and they reply with you dont know what your missing lol

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

see you in an hour

haha your so not my type

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

see you in an hour

haha your so not my type

Fight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

see you in an hour

haha your so not my type

Fight!

handbags !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

see you in an hour

haha your so not my type

I suspect thats what at the heart of this matter, a woman scorned eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

see you in an hour

haha your so not my type

I suspect thats what at the heart of this matter, a woman scorned eh "

god knows obviously a bit of history there i guess??? entertaining tho ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

see you in an hour

haha your so not my type

I suspect thats what at the heart of this matter, a woman scorned eh

god knows obviously a bit of history there i guess??? entertaining tho ..."

enjoyed reading all of this - including the sub plot, which as said is entertaining.

As for the message levels - I'm still a bit gob-smacked at the scale of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyway miss polo

I'm off out to fuck while you compose your next essay

Enjoy your evening

see you in an hour

haha your so not my type

I suspect thats what at the heart of this matter, a woman scorned eh

god knows obviously a bit of history there i guess??? entertaining tho ...

enjoyed reading all of this - including the sub plot, which as said is entertaining.

As for the message levels - I'm still a bit gob-smacked at the scale of it all

dont beleive everything u read !! some people like to make out they are sssoooo popular..like i said i get about 5 a day !! im on the forums i webcam in chat and show off my body....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get loads, depending on how long im on the site etc, when i log on i usually have about 15/20 already there, but soon as i log on more messages seem to start coming thro, if i go in chat room and put cam on i get loads, ive had anything upto about 60 messages in a hour if im sat on cam, but then as a single female i would expect other women in here would get the same, single women are always going to attract more interest i think

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I suspect thats what at the heart of this matter, a woman scorned eh "

You just love a chance to get your spoon out don't ya bonky

Whoops silly me, of course you don't... if we are to believe what you post in other threads anyway

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Its not about pretending to be popular, its just a fact, I get lots maybe because I meet lots so to some men maybe I am a better bet.

And I like that because I AM HERE TO MEET!

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

i have 379 unread at the moment, but i would say some are from the same person with repeted messages, mine only build up so much cos i only read messages if i like the title so.

would not say i am popular more like too lazy to read n delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect thats what at the heart of this matter, a woman scorned eh

You just love a chance to get your spoon out don't ya bonky

Whoops silly me, of course you don't... if we are to believe what you post in other threads anyway

Why, and not for the first time, am I suddenly minded of that classic early 70's hit of Carly Simon

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