FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Is it just me or....,

Jump to newest
 

By *eisenberg2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rochester

One lady I spoke to briefly like 4 months ago (never met her) randomly sent me a msg asking me if I'm able to give her a lift to a 'bbc meet' .... I replied just to clarify, that is she being serious and actually asking me to pick her up and drive her to another guys house .... She replied basically ... 'Yes ,,,you could have got to play too'

to which I replied, no offence but I'm not that desperate ...

I'm not sure, did I overreact ....???? I mean I'd understand if me and her had some sort of friendship ... But I found her request kinda rude and degrading ...lol or am I the one being rude here..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nna_tonyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

That is unbelievable! Fab taxi service? Maybe you could think about it as a business idea. Also, I know a lot of people use it and are ok with it, but I personally can't stand the term BBC.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take some impulsive fun..honestly..whats the issue?

unless u just want 1on1 fun?

If i liked her, I would have went...and of course, had a great time meeting the other guy if he was a decent laugh

degraded? nahh...uve just missed out on some sexual fun, if she wasnt ur thing fair enough.

this IS a swinging environment, it normally includes group sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask you to accompany me to a meet........ Then keep you all to myself......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur totally right. Friend of mine in fab said got similar request from a female expecting him to be her taxi. Personally I couldn't even consider typing such a request let alone seriously expect a tea reply

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is unbelievable! Fab taxi service? Maybe you could think about it as a business idea. Also, I know a lot of people use it and are ok with it, but I personally can't stand the term BBC."

he was asked if wanted to also play..what IS the issue??????

I still dont see where the desperation part comes in

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nna_tonyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Sounds to me like the offer to play was added as an afterthought when he called her on it tbh.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read the OP's interests, that gives me a clue, u might have enjoyed the meet.I'm stating again , she invited u to play.

Ive had several guy pals ive ended up messaging for lifts to gangbangs..I think only one guy actually asked what was in it for him....DuHHHHHHHH!

I'm really surprised at the response to a gangbang meetup, just cos she asked for a lift?????- to another guys house!!!?!

shocking

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds to me like the offer to play was added as an afterthought when he called her on it tbh."

well I hope she got a lift, and a good fuck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eisenberg2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rochester

Mate, each to their own . Some pple have pride . Some don't . I've given lifts to party's etc ... Especially if its someone ive met or at least talk to quite regularly,....But u gotta realise the last contact I had from this lady was 4 months ago ...which made it random, we are all different tho, like I said some has pride, some don't ... Even though I probably would have had the opportunity to play I still don't feel like I must run taxi duties before I get lucky ... It ain't that serious.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She clearly added the offer as an after thought hopefully because she realised how cheeky she sounded!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you were right to say no some people have more front than blackpool

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eisenberg2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rochester


"She clearly added the offer as an after thought hopefully because she realised how cheeky she sounded! "

Lol my thoughts exactly

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

No OP, you did not overreact....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate, each to their own . Some pple have pride . Some don't . I've given lifts to party's etc ... Especially if its someone ive met or at least talk to quite regularly,....But u gotta realise the last contact I had from this lady was 4 months ago ...which made it random, we are all different tho, like I said some has pride, some don't ... Even though I probably would have had the opportunity to play I still don't feel like I must run taxi duties before I get lucky ... It ain't that serious. "

fair enough, but I dont chat to people for months on end, especially on a consistent basis.so to me, if I felt like it I would have just went and had some fun.I dont take it that serious either, but hey...some people might just come across as cheeky, but urself and her must have had some connection at the start.IMO are u doing anything better tonite?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She clearly added the offer as an after thought hopefully because she realised how cheeky she sounded! "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eisenberg2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rochester

Lol, mate, I'm having an American dad new season marathon ..... This shit is funny lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, mate, I'm having an American dad new season marathon ..... This shit is funny lol. "

fuck that geez a lift to this gangbang,u can wait outside till I come out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she was taking piss! if had wanted to meet u she would of done..yet happy to meet you basically for a lift to go get fucked by someone else.... personaly if guy did that to me and wanted me drive em fuck another Tgirl id tell em f**k off as its an insult! especialy if chatted months before hand yet never met!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eisenberg2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rochester

. How's waiting outside anymore fun ... Lol, my hands here.... Lubes not too far away .... If shit gets real , il get down to business lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eisenberg2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rochester


"she was taking piss! if had wanted to meet u she would of done..yet happy to meet you basically for a lift to go get fucked by someone else.... personaly if guy did that to me and wanted me drive em fuck another Tgirl id tell em f**k off as its an insult! especialy if chatted months before hand yet never met!"
spot on !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on how she approached the subject.

If it was "hi there, know we've not chatted for a while but wondered if you'd fancy a 3sum with me and another black guy? If so could you pick me up" etc...then I'd be ok with that.

If it was "hi there, I'm meeting another black guy but need a lift, can you help" then definitely not.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Notice its just the men saying you should of done it. But I'm with you, you done the right thing in my opinion. Nice to see a guy with standards. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Notice its just the men saying you should of done it. But I'm with you, you done the right thing in my opinion. Nice to see a guy with standards. X"

so I dont have standards because I dont take opportunities, or have an impulsive drive..aye ok lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Notice its just the men saying you should of done it. But I'm with you, you done the right thing in my opinion. Nice to see a guy with standards. X

so I dont have standards because I dont take opportunities, or have an impulsive drive..aye ok lol "

Ffs paddy! We all know you have standards.

It's just that they're not the same as anyone else's...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Notice its just the men saying you should of done it. But I'm with you, you done the right thing in my opinion. Nice to see a guy with standards. X

so I dont have standards because I dont take opportunities, or have an impulsive drive..aye ok lol

Ffs paddy! We all know you have standards.

It's just that they're not the same as anyone else's... "

shhh am just teasing lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think you did right, she was being cheeky. Perhaps if she'd approached it in another way, then maybe it might have been different.

On the same topic, I had a guy message me last month saying he was really looking forwards to seeing me at the Paradise Club, which was great. On the next message he then let me know he couldn't get there and would I mind picking him up and taking him.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she was taking piss! if had wanted to meet u she would of done..yet happy to meet you basically for a lift to go get fucked by someone else.... personaly if guy did that to me and wanted me drive em fuck another Tgirl id tell em f**k off as its an insult! especialy if chatted months before hand yet never met!"

^^^ this!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you did right, she was being cheeky. Perhaps if she'd approached it in another way, then maybe it might have been different.

On the same topic, I had a guy message me last month saying he was really looking forwards to seeing me at the Paradise Club, which was great. On the next message he then let me know he couldn't get there and would I mind picking him up and taking him. "

Hi Tina, let us know when you're on the taxi run again to paradise please and you can sling by Newark on the way and pick us up too so we can both have a beer or two.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

Hi Tina, let us know when you're on the taxi run again to paradise please and you can sling by Newark on the way and pick us up too so we can both have a beer or two. "

lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only as bad as a guy i met....had met him a couple of times at a club....and not actually had a full on one on one meet,just a little bit of contact.

He mailed ne asking if i fancied spending a night with him and having some fun so i agreed....after making the arrangements he then said oh and there will be another couple with us!!!

Erm i choose who i arrange to play with i dont need it arranged for me thank you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She maybe think all men are hard up on fab and will do what ever for a shag ....... your right in feeling like you do ... Your not here to be a mug and to run around for others.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not just you. I would feel that way too. It is a swinging site, we are all here looking for sex in one of it's variants but she was just being cheeky.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have no shame. What a cheek and to insult you by offering you to play after you questioned her, well says more about her then you!

You were perfectly right in saying NO.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have offered lifts but that's my choice. To be asked in that way is hard faced.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top