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DOES AGE MATTER

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

WHAT DO THE SWINGERS ON HERE THINK.

we are sick of people saying your not for us. yous are to old. yous are old enough to be our mum n dad. TEENAGERS WHO DO THEY THINK THEY ARE LOL

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Every one is entitled to their own preferences - if some people feel you're too old for them then what's the problem? Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well i think yous are lush for your ages dont be put off im sure theres loads of single females that want to meet yous LOL

JIMMY

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"well i think yous are lush for your ages dont be put off im sure theres loads of single females that want to meet yous LOL

JIMMY"

We've not been put off by anything! It was you that started the thread about being knocked back by being told you were too old! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

SORRY ZOE

that message was off me and meant for us as a joke hope u see the funny side and like i said SORRY if it caught your eye the wrong way xxjimmy

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"SORRY ZOE

that message was off me and meant for us as a joke hope u see the funny side and like i said SORRY if it caught your eye the wrong way xxjimmy"

no problem - have fun Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's the Geordie sense of humour not everyone gets it lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Considering your profile is hidden I am surprised they would know much about you anyway

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

It's when they start comparing me with their grandparents that I really get upset

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HEY IF IT MAKES 1 OUT OF EVERY 5 PEOPLE LAUGH TODAY I WILL BE OVER THE MOON LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i put age prefrences as do most on profie for a reason i dont want to meet ones as old as my mum n dad it just wouldnt feel rite and defo dont want to meet very young nothing to do with abilities just my prefrences xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HEY IF IT MAKES 1 OUT OF EVERY 5 PEOPLE LAUGH TODAY I WILL BE OVER THE MOON LOL"

i think them odd maybe a little high

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My basis on the age discussion is that I am 38, I dont really want to meet men younger than 30 really and that is due to having something in conversation with them. Alot of 20 something people dont understand the concept of not being able to drop everything and have a meet as I have a young family. Hence why having moe in common with 30 plus. I normally dont meet men older than late 40s due to some men at 48 are still youthful looking and in mind and spirit too but then some men at 48 are the opposite. I look for attraction and conversation and a spark. Not sure what conversation I would have with a 25 year old, probably very little and similar for a 55 year old.

It is very much to personal preference. Some single ladies who are in their late 40s wont meet men of a similar age to them and only want younger men. That is their choice. There are always exceptions though. I have met a lovely guy who is 30 who has a maturity of a much older man ie similar age to me. He has the body of a 30 year old which is lovely lol but I see him as the same age as me.

Age to me isnt the most important thing, as chemistry can happen with anyone but I do like to be able to chat with them too on a level. I just try to respect everyones choices and if someone chooses to meet say thin ladies under 35 years then that is their choice. I look for personality and the ability to read my profile BEFORE mailing me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a age preference simply because we have children in the 25-35 age group and dont wish to meet similar ages because they may know our children, and they would remind us of them probably. Otherwise we just prefer people around our ages or older because we usually have something in common be it a memory of an event pop group or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it matters to most if being honest, we prefer to meet people as close to our age as possible, online is different from social gathering though, as age can go out the window face to face, we would tend to steer clear of couples with a big age difference though, maybe just old fashioned but when you see profiles with an 18 year old female with a 45 year old partner it would make us run a mile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age obviously matters to a lot of people, be it a limit on how young, or how old.

We have an upper limit on our profile, as Kate chooses not to meet guys more than 10yrs her senior. I prefer ladies over 40yrs, but havent put a top limit because that will probably be directed by Kates limit as we only meet couples.

There are exceptions to all rules, and at a recent party, I enjoyed a little "dalience" with a lady of 30 and Kate entertained a guy older than her preferred limit.

Club and party meets are different, for us at least, to private meets. We go to parties and clubs to play and have an all round good time. We see private meets as more intimate and perhaps, personality, conversation and physical attraction are more important traits.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Think it matters to most if being honest, we prefer to meet people as close to our age as possible, online is different from social gathering though, as age can go out the window face to face, we would tend to steer clear of couples with a big age difference though, maybe just old fashioned but when you see profiles with an 18 year old female with a 45 year old partner it would make us run a mile."

So would i - towards them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it matters to most if being honest, we prefer to meet people as close to our age as possible, online is different from social gathering though, as age can go out the window face to face, we would tend to steer clear of couples with a big age difference though, maybe just old fashioned but when you see profiles with an 18 year old female with a 45 year old partner it would make us run a mile.

So would i - towards them...."

Deviant

You've got a nice age range.... although would you in all honesty meet an 88 year old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey - wait till you get to my age then! lol.

Seriously I think anyone over 40 knows exactly what the score is; sex really does get better, people are more tolerant and life is a lot more laid back - which is just how you should be to enjoy it!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Think it matters to most if being honest, we prefer to meet people as close to our age as possible, online is different from social gathering though, as age can go out the window face to face, we would tend to steer clear of couples with a big age difference though, maybe just old fashioned but when you see profiles with an 18 year old female with a 45 year old partner it would make us run a mile.

So would i - towards them....

Deviant

You've got a nice age range.... although would you in all honesty meet an 88 year old?"

As a matter of course? No.

But i met a 60 yea old who was fitter, slimmer and sexier than many 30 years old women on here.

Makes me laff when i see couples/singles in their 30' stating 'noody over 40' - thus including Barry the bald sweaty 18 stone builder who's 32, but excluding the likes of me etc etc....

Each to their own and all that, but i take 'em as i find 'em - and i've turned down people in their 20's...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My basis on the age discussion is that I am 38, I dont really want to meet men younger than 30 really and that is due to having something in conversation with them. Alot of 20 something people dont understand the concept of not being able to drop everything and have a meet as I have a young family. Hence why having moe in common with 30 plus. I normally dont meet men older than late 40s due to some men at 48 are still youthful looking and in mind and spirit too but then some men at 48 are the opposite. I look for attraction and conversation and a spark. Not sure what conversation I would have with a 25 year old, probably very little and similar for a 55 year old.

It is very much to personal preference. Some single ladies who are in their late 40s wont meet men of a similar age to them and only want younger men. That is their choice. There are always exceptions though. I have met a lovely guy who is 30 who has a maturity of a much older man ie similar age to me. He has the body of a 30 year old which is lovely lol but I see him as the same age as me.

Age to me isnt the most important thing, as chemistry can happen with anyone but I do like to be able to chat with them too on a level. I just try to respect everyones choices and if someone chooses to meet say thin ladies under 35 years then that is their choice. I look for personality and the ability to read my profile BEFORE mailing me lol x"

Couldn't have put it better myself: very well said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres alot to be said for the older experiance ...and i should know still single and fit at 58.. and still enjoying pleasing ladys

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"theres alot to be said for the older experiance ...and i should know still single and fit at 58.. and still enjoying pleasing ladys "

But to be fair....you would say that lol

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"theres alot to be said for the older experiance ...and i should know still single and fit at 58.. and still enjoying pleasing ladys

But to be fair....you would say that lol"

Ditto!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only have one problem with age restrictions

1 third of the people that contact us have an age criteria on thier profile that I am 10-15 years over.

Great that they have an age restriction its thier choice, great that they know what they want. just dont bloody ask us for a meet if we are outside what your looking for, it aint going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can always try me out jane ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im at a funny age!! (mind u my maw been sayin that for yrs!!) i have 25 to 45 but sometimes feel 25 is too young and 45 too old but sometimes just depends on the individuals attitude and outlook on life! xx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"you can always try me out jane ...lol"

Only if you book the Paramedic....I ain't taking no responsibilities for you croaking on the job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"you can always try me out jane ...lol

Only if you book the Paramedic....I ain't taking no responsibilities for you croaking on the job!"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha ha ..i like it jane ..paramedic with jump leads booked ....

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Have checked my household insurance terma and conditions....it makes no mention of me being covered for killing any old blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though im an old bird, i feel 35 and sexy and i prefer men of that age, but i have had younger and older the guys older than me are more passionate that the 20 somethings! For me its down to chemistry, cant do with the "age and shape dont matter" that makes the ladies feel like a piece of meat! There has to be attraction, or its not enjoyable for me, its more like a job! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's many a good tune played on an old fiddle oops wrong thread.... off to the stupid sayings one

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