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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure u will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x"

Your better off alone, especially from liars they never change.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

welcome .hope you can get thru the pain that all that causes i'm still reeling from all mine.

and hopefully find new friends on here that will help xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time for you to have a lot of fun then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x"

I found that when I was in a similar situation last year that the people that came to my support have become my most valued friends.

But.... Be careful as no matter how strong you think you are, your vulnerable currently.. so give yourself time.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Sweety... big hug xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you will do fine on here and soon forget all about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one or more steps at a time. Whatever pleases you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and look to the future

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I avoid like the plague people recently out of long term relationships trying to ease their pain by using casual sex as a panacea.

In my experience they do not make good bedfellows. Take time out to "heal" op, then enjoy the bounty on offer here.

Good luck!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Having fun socially will be a huge lift, becareful of playing if you're a tad vulnerable atm. This is the time to get support from friends and family.

No doubt you have friends off here you can trust that you know would be there to chat, not exploit ?

If you were closer we,d invite you over for a bbq and a laugh. Do everything you can to avoid dwelling over it. Life is too short xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I avoid like the plague people recently out of long term relationships trying to ease their pain by using casual sex as a panacea.

In my experience they do not make good bedfellows. Take time out to "heal" op, then enjoy the bounty on offer here.

Good luck!"

yeah get your head straight first is good advice

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By *oecurler69Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Have some smiles and laughter it will make you feel better little by little.... xx

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Well, I'm sorry to hear your plight. Your better off out of there.. That's for certain.. You'll always have a mixed review, "you get over the last by climbing on the next, get your head straight first etc"

Personally I'd say don't do anything until your sure. It's not a good place to be when you freak out with a stranger

Either way. Time to start living for you know. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having fun socially will be a huge lift, becareful of playing if you're a tad vulnerable atm. This is the time to get support from friends and family.

No doubt you have friends off here you can trust that you know would be there to chat, not exploit ?

If you were closer we,d invite you over for a bbq and a laugh. Do everything you can to avoid dwelling over it. Life is too short xxx"

Thank you, what you have said is so true xx

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By *inful_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x"

What a complete prick. Hope you find lots of fun. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for all your advice

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I avoid like the plague people recently out of long term relationships trying to ease their pain by using casual sex as a panacea.

In my experience they do not make good bedfellows. Take time out to "heal" op, then enjoy the bounty on offer here.

Good luck!"

actually i am sure the "white knights" will be along... but I tend to absolutely agree...... nothing wrong with taking a bit of me time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope things go well bunni x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it goes well love ur tatts! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x"

welcome and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x"

Definitely his loss. Silly man - you're hot!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome. I would definitely say give yourself as much time as you need before jumping into casual sex.

Sounds a similar story to mine, all the lies etc.

I did it too soon and learned the hard way. Thats why im just sticking to existing friends at the moment.

When your ready, get out there and have a damn good time. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome. I would definitely say give yourself as much time as you need before jumping into casual sex.

Sounds a similar story to mine, all the lies etc.

I did it too soon and learned the hard way. Thats why im just sticking to existing friends at the moment.

When your ready, get out there and have a damn good time. X

"

Thank you for your advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x

Definitely his loss. Silly man - you're hot!! X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x"

More fool him, chin up x

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts

Take it easy, I'm pretty sure u won't be short on offers. As mentioned already. Take your time and things will fall into place. All the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x

I found that when I was in a similar situation last year that the people that came to my support have become my most valued friends.

But.... Be careful as no matter how strong you think you are, your vulnerable currently.. so give yourself time. "

I too have been in a similar situation and what Cali said is very true. Its taken me 6 months, lots of wine, buckets of years and a coucellor to finally find the strength and peace.....just take care and you are way better off than being with a liar xxx big hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi all, i came on here as a couple..but since he walked away from me after he lied to cover more lies to cover a big lie, i am now on here as a single woman.

So please be gentle x

I found that when I was in a similar situation last year that the people that came to my support have become my most valued friends.

But.... Be careful as no matter how strong you think you are, your vulnerable currently.. so give yourself time.

I too have been in a similar situation and what Cali said is very true. Its taken me 6 months, lots of wine, buckets of years and a coucellor to finally find the strength and peace.....just take care and you are way better off than being with a liar xxx big hugs "

Thank you chick xx

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By *otnhornyalwaysWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Not to repeat wot others have said but recently in similar situation..found out my partner pues about pretty much everything n was chattin n prob meetin others for sex....ironically thats how i found out about this lovely site so spose not all bad. Its his loss hun n u do wot feels right for you. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bunnie I tried to make you laugh with my message to you , but not sure if you had read it , xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll be fine, take your time & decide what it is you want & go for it. xx

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

I echo what others have said.

Better off without him.

Take your time.

Good luck on a new beginning.

Don't look back, that's not the direction you're going.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Window shop on here... And remember you have the control... So get back on that horse when you're ready...

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Onwards and upwards.

A sexy girl like you will no doubt be able to have as much fun as she wants.

Do whatever feels right but I'd agree with the other advice that make sure you're ready.

When you are there is a hell of a banquet to choose from.

Keep smiling and look to the future x

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

His loss

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