FabSwingers.com forum: What exactly does curvy mean on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some say the female body has curves some say slightly overweight! Just wondered your take on it!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go by what I can see rather than the description given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means fat

just look at the pics 99% of the women on here who describe themselves as curvy are clearly fat

but in their defence people don't like the word fat, its rather harsh and make you sound like you have a chip on your shoulder about your weight if you say im fat, so what would you have them put?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

curvy means round..

not flat... not skinny.. curves can go in as well as out... hourglass. shapely. voluptuous .statuesque . rubinesque.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are gonna have different interpretations on what's curvy

What I might find curvy, you might find fat

vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy = big arse, big chest, big thighs, small waist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided on curvy rather than ample but I have my size on my profile and no one has complained - so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would normally consider myself curvy. But after looking at pics of fems on here who class themselves as curvy, I put myself as average on here, if you know what I mean. Lauz xx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I wouldn't describe curvy as fat, I'm fat, but there is no option for that, so I've put large.

My sis is a curvy size ten, big boobs, slim waste and a bit of a bum!

I was nice and curvy at a size 14 or 16, but I guess curvy is more of a shape than size, so ignore my midnight ramblings.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

It is subjective, and usually a judgement call based on the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are gonna have different interpretations on what's curvy

What I might find curvy, you might find fat

vice versa"

I love curves but someone will think a woman I like is overweight. I think people are very honest about their appearance here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think people are very honest about their appearance here.

do you really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think people are very honest about their appearance here.

do you really? "

Most people, yes. As far as everyone else goes, they're either not giving themselves enough credit or looking at themselves through a circus mirror.

But I think most are honest because the truth will come out on meeting so why lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some say the female body has curves some say slightly overweight! Just wondered your take on it!?"

I think of someone as curvy if they have a well defined waist. There are a lot of thinner women who are also curvy. I consider myself curvy but i am also overweight. I like the sound of curvy better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think people are very honest about their appearance here.

do you really?

Most people, yes. As far as everyone else goes, they're either not giving themselves enough credit or looking at themselves through a circus mirror.

But I think most are honest because the truth will come out on meeting so why lie?

I suppose the problem is we all see different, but I have seen loads of profiles on here where their selected body type don't match the real them, but then they may not see themselves as I do so those they may feel they are being honest I may not

its a subject that everyone will never see eye to eye on I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think people are very honest about their appearance here.

do you really?

Most people, yes. As far as everyone else goes, they're either not giving themselves enough credit or looking at themselves through a circus mirror.

But I think most are honest because the truth will come out on meeting so why lie?

its a subject that everyone will never see eye to eye on I suppose "

It's all down to interpretation. If you agree with them, then you're attracted them. If you don't agree, the you move on.

Of course, sometimes, it will be painfully obvious what type they are but then other times it could go either way. A lot of it is related to self-esteem too. Sometimes, when you're told negative comments about yourself, you start to believe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's what the dictionary (the one I refer to anyway...) says:Curvy:- Shapely or Voluptuous. So...

Shapely:- Having and attractive or well-proportioned shape. Voluptuous:- Curvaceous and sexually attractive.

Curvaceous:- Having an attractively curved shape.

Don't see the word 'Fat' in there....??

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as curvy, im not straight up and down, nor am I fat, im a proper woman with tits and a waist x

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Jessica Rabbit is curvy. Don't know if that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I hear curvy I think of people like Michelle marsh or Kelly brook or holly Willoughby.

But I don't know, ask the pope, he knows everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

uh oh did someone say the f word

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Curvy is a very subjective term and means different things to different people.

To me curvy is more of a shape than a size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put curvy. I'm overweight but hourglass shaped so it seems about right. People can judge whether I'm for them through the pictures I have up - it isn't like they have to imagine the shape of my body.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"I decided on curvy rather than ample but I have my size on my profile and no one has complained - so far

me too... it all baffles me so I just state my size clearly and make sure full pics are shown before we meet. I have had the humiliation of rejection on first sight from a dating site and so I always make it as clear as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends where you like your curves, I am NOT curvy but I have a round bottom, shapely legs and a good bust. I don't have a slim waist so class myself as ample, I am a size 18/20 so also fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I decided on curvy rather than ample but I have my size on my profile and no one has complained - so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a size 24 and chose 'fabulous'...even though men call me curvy. Its a confusing word!

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Anything over a size 18 I think is fat as opposed to curvy and a size 18 is generous, really it should be 16 but hey... If you don't have a smaller waist to hips or ass ratio than you're also losing the curvy status and dippin' into the fat status!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything over a size 18 I think is fat as opposed to curvy and a size 18 is generous, really it should be 16 but hey... If you don't have a smaller waist to hips or ass ratio than you're also losing the curvy status and dippin' into the fat status! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pears shaped do smaller on top with a big bum & thighs. I picked large on my profile and clearly state my size and have full body pics available.

Some guys describe me as curvy, I take that as them been to polite to say fat. I'm not embarrassed about my size, I'm working very hard to change it but the label of fat isn't a nice one and more often then not an so insult. Too many guys have resorted to calling me fat when I've turned down there requests for a meet.

I agree honestly is the best policy. The description the confuses me id "rugby player build" I mean Matt Dawson is a very different build to Lawrance Dalalio so what is that then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything over a size 18 I think is fat as opposed to curvy and a size 18 is generous, really it should be 16 but hey... If you don't have a smaller waist appear vass or ass ratio than you're also losing the curvy status and dippin' into the fat status! "

Blanket statements don't work - size 18 at 6ft is vastly different to size 18 at 5ft, different build types as well can make two people with the same dress size appear vastly different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put curvy. I'm overweight but hourglass shaped so it seems about right. People can judge whether I'm for them through the pictures I have up - it isn't like they have to imagine the shape of my body.

Ya still Stoaner material bonny lassie

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Responses further proving how subjective the terminology is.

Just like most labels you see on profiles. Everyone's estimation of what a great ass looks like for instance will differ (i scratch my head at this one a lot). Same as what an hourglass shape equates to. Or athletic build on a guy. Or even a WE/ VWE man.

Be as honest as you can upfront on your profile/ in communication to avoid potential misunderstandings. At the same time, people shouldn't delude themselves or others.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Blanket statements don't work - size 18 at 6ft is vastly different to size 18 at 5ft, different build types as well can make two people with the same dress size appear vastly different. "
if you're 6ft and a size 18 you are fat! My wife is 5' 11 and she's a size 12 with very wide hips and ample butt... If she were to be a size 18 she would look and be fat.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"I class myself as curvy, im not straight up and down, nor am I fat, im a proper woman with tits and a waist x"

I'm sorry but every woman has tits and a waist and is therefore, according to your definition, a 'proper woman'.

I suspect though that you mean because you go in and out in 'the right places', you're more of a woman than those who don't.

To set the record straight, the proportions of another woman's tits and waist doesn't render her any less of a woman than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its too subjective on here to give a definitive answer,personally I think its a shape regardless of size but the way the sizing option works on here its leaning towards larger sizes

I just have full body pics on and then people can see for themselves because while one person on here will call me curvy another will call me slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's what the dictionary (the one I refer to anyway...) says:Curvy:- Shapely or Voluptuous. So...

Shapely:- Having and attractive or well-proportioned shape. Voluptuous:- Curvaceous and sexually attractive.

Curvaceous:- Having an attractively curved shape.

Don't see the word 'Fat' in there....??

ted."

curvy isn't fat

but the question was what does curvy mean on here and lets be honest most fat women choose to class themselves as curvy

if your nipples point to the floor, you have a over hang on your belly and rolls in your back, im sorry your not curvy your fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blanket statements don't work - size 18 at 6ft is vastly different to size 18 at 5ft, different build types as well can make two people with the same dress size appear vastly different. if you're 6ft and a size 18 you are fat! My wife is 5' 11 and she's a size 12 with very wide hips and ample butt... If she were to be a size 18 she would look and be fat."

They say opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is a shape not a size overweight people and slight people can be curvy!

Hour glass figure...boobs hips and bum bit small waist is curvy.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Whether you're 5ft or 6ft is neither here nor there. If you are of a dress size 18 you are most likely going to be considered fat irregardless of height. Don't know why the F word bothers women on here so much... There are sooo many fat women I find attractive even though I prefer the slimmer lady and so many slim women that I don't find attractive. At the end of the day it's you that counts and those that find you attractive. Deluding yourself by calling yourself curvy doesn't change anything 'cause deep down we all know what we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a big bust and bum and bigger thighs but a small waist and small every thing else i class myself as curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive put myself as curvy but i do have it stated on our profile my size i also tell people whilst we are talkin that i am a "larger"lady i also have full length naked pics so people can see i have never had any complaints i am trying hard to change my weight but because it not a weight i am used to i couldnt care less if people didnt like it...

Its a matter of opinion if u dont like it move on

Everyone is different

Bekki xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether you're 5ft or 6ft is neither here nor there. If you are of a dress size 18 you are most likely going to be considered fat irregardless of height. Don't know why the F word bothers women on here so much... There are sooo many fat women I find attractive even though I prefer the slimmer lady and so many slim women that I don't find attractive. At the end of the day it's you that counts and those that find you attractive. Deluding yourself by calling yourself curvy doesn't change anything 'cause deep down we all know what we are."

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Here's what the dictionary (the one I refer to anyway...) says:Curvy:- Shapely or Voluptuous. So...

Shapely:- Having and attractive or well-proportioned shape. Voluptuous:- Curvaceous and sexually attractive.

Curvaceous:- Having an attractively curved shape.

Don't see the word 'Fat' in there....??

ted.

curvy isn't fat

but the question was what does curvy mean on here and lets be honest most fat women choose to class themselves as curvy

if your nipples point to the floor, you have a over hang on your belly and rolls in your back, im sorry your not curvy your fat

I would never class myself as curvy because I'm not. But I don't get my knickers in a knot over those who do.

If someone wants to meet a woman who has 'curvy' on her profile and no clear, full length photo then surely all they need to do is ask for one and then make up their mind on whether they're interested? Hardly rocket science.

I don't like the term 'fat' though (even though it's accurate) as it has developed an extremely negative connotation especially as it's often tagged with an equally negative adjective (fat ugly, fat lazy etc). I just say I'm overweight generally. On here, if we're doing private meets I give my dress size and there is a full length photo of me on our profile. I'm not out to embarrass myself by deceiving people.

It's not a problem in clubs because people can see what size I am.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

true but in reality fat is a harsh word, I have no problems saying im fat but you say it on here and you come over as a fat bord with a chip on her shoulder, people used to mail me telling me not to be so hard on myself etc so I changed my profile and took the word fat off and put voluptuous instead which people do find more accepting, if you put your fat people tell you your not, if you put curvy when you fat people say your not you cant win sometimes lol "
of course fat is a very harsh word and would never use it to describe anyone generally speaking. I'm using it on here as a point of reference. Babe you have the right attitude and its women like you that I find attractive 'cause you won't have too much of an issue with your body so will probably emit more sexiness

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Seems to be a loaded topic... bit I must say... pronouncing people fat does seem a little nasty. I guess that word just seems very negative... I don't count myself as "delusional" for not wanting to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would normally consider myself curvy. But after looking at pics of fems on here who class themselves as curvy, I put myself as average on here, if you know what I mean. Lauz xx"
me too lauz .i thought I was curvy but then then tha gets misinterpreted so i put average as gone to a size 12 now.when I was a size 8 to 10 i put slim but i still tend to have 38 dd tits whatever size i am so am curvy really .i try not to lose sleep about it .not had many complaints as yet .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is negative and some will find it offensive.....its not a word i use for people and always think people can describe themself how they choose most people have pics ive full ones and never had a problem,people choose who they want to speak to regardless of how they describe their body shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this post has the potential to kick off lol but i'd like to point out that i have got fat bollox,now that does not piss me off like it would if the fuckers were curvy hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this post has the potential to kick off lol but i'd like to point out that i have got fat bollox,now that does not piss me off like it would if the fuckers were curvy hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a big bust and bum and bigger thighs but a small waist and small every thing else i class myself as curvy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this post has the potential to kick off lol but i'd like to point out that i have got fat bollox,now that does not piss me off like it would if the fuckers were curvy hahaha

Im sat here in tears laughing at that comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads always seem to end up as a platform for women bashing,,be they thin or fat, note to self to stop reading them, as every time they appear it always goes the same way.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"These threads always seem to end up as a platform for women bashing,,be they thin or fat, note to self to stop reading them, as every time they appear it always goes the same way."

They're a depressing read and I always come away with yet another dent in my self confidence. I should steer clear as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some say the female body has curves some say slightly overweight! Just wondered your take on it!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These threads always seem to end up as a platform for women bashing,,be they thin or fat, note to self to stop reading them, as every time they appear it always goes the same way.

They're a depressing read and I always come away with yet another dent in my self confidence. I should steer clear as well."

Yes, always lots of thinly-veiled digs. Of course it is better to be honest and upfront about yourself, I know I am fat, you can clearly see I am on my profile pictures, but these threads do nothing but make people feel worse about themselves. Always notice how they are usually started by men as well

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

FFS!!! This question is asked every day!!! Are people visually impaired on here or what?!!

Body size, including cock size is subjective. If I feel trading standards need to be called I snigger, say to myself right, if you believe so good luck with that and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I always say ALL woman have curves, it is called boobs, bum and waist!

The degree of curviness alters on each individual.

I could describe myself as curvy, slim or athletic.

It is far better to make your own mind up judging by pictures and then going on to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"curvy means round..

not flat... not skinny.. curves can go in as well as out... hourglass. shapely. voluptuous .statuesque . rubinesque. "

You can be curvy and slim at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I always say ALL woman have curves, it is called boobs, bum and waist!

The degree of curviness alters on each individual.

I could describe myself as curvy, slim or athletic.

It is far better to make your own mind up judging by pictures and then going on to meet someone.

Not to mention hips!

I swear people who ask this question need to go to specsavers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy should mean big boobs small waist and a bum

I've seen some beasts class themselves as curvy

Its no different than men who discribe themselves as athletic,with no muscles definition at all.

Makes you wonder what other lies they tell If they and pull that one.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"FFS!!! This question is asked every day!!! Are people visually impaired on here or what?!!

Body size, including cock size is subjective. If I feel trading standards need to be called I snigger, say to myself right, if you believe so good luck with that and move on!

/thread

This post needs to be quoted in the inevitable future threads that come up about body shape and size. They are like blue touch paper everytime!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"FFS!!! This question is asked every day!!! Are people visually impaired on here or what?!!

Body size, including cock size is subjective. If I feel trading standards need to be called I snigger, say to myself right, if you believe so good luck with that and move on!

/thread

This post needs to be quoted in the inevitable future threads that come up about body shape and size. They are like blue touch paper everytime!"

Some people are new here and may not realise its been posted a lot.. nor will they know they can search posts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are only a blue touch paper if people bite......and some just come in like a moth to a flame and then wonder why they get burnt

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"These threads are only a blue touch paper if people bite......and some just come in like a moth to a flame and then wonder why they get burnt"

Fair point. A lot of the time, it stems from self esteem issues (however slight or buried they might be), but i guess that is a topic for another time eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's what the dictionary (the one I refer to anyway...) says:Curvy:- Shapely or Voluptuous. So...

Shapely:- Having and attractive or well-proportioned shape. Voluptuous:- Curvaceous and sexually attractive.

Curvaceous:- Having an attractively curved shape.

Don't see the word 'Fat' in there....??

ted."

I'm not slim but nor am I fat, size 14 with an hourglass shape...therefore I (along with most people who know me) describe myself as curvy. Marilyn Monroe, Kelly Brook, JLo, Beyonce, Nigella Lawson & Holly Willoughby are ladies I'd class as curvaceous, not overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These threads are only a blue touch paper if people bite......and some just come in like a moth to a flame and then wonder why they get burnt

Fair point. A lot of the time, it stems from self esteem issues (however slight or buried they might be), but i guess that is a topic for another time eh?"

It is self-esteem issues. Some people here listen to others waaaaay too much. As a consequence, they change their body type to appeal to the masses, which is a losing battle due to people's preferences being so random.

Also, when a person lacks confidence, that itself is not attractive. So you've shot yourself in the foot before bodies are considered.

So the next time someone says "that's not your body type." Just tell them to jog on. You didn't ask them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well... each to their own. If you chat to them and enjoy it, then it'll not matter how you perceive them.

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By *oversforfun2000Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Blanket statements don't work - size 18 at 6ft is vastly different to size 18 at 5ft, different build types as well can make two people with the same dress size appear vastly different. if you're 6ft and a size 18 you are fat! My wife is 5' 11 and she's a size 12 with very wide hips and ample butt... If she were to be a size 18 she would look and be fat."

Think this is really off the mark I am 5"10 and a size 16 would say I am overweight but would consider myself curvy as opposed to fat!! Blanket statements like this don't work!!

I think if you have a defined waist you are curvy no matter what size/height/weight you are!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These threads are only a blue touch paper if people bite......and some just come in like a moth to a flame and then wonder why they get burnt

Fair point. A lot of the time, it stems from self esteem issues (however slight or buried they might be), but i guess that is a topic for another time eh?

Also, when a person lacks confidence, that itself is not attractive. So you've shot yourself in the foot before bodies are considered.

So the next time someone says "that's not your body type." Just tell them to jog on. You didn't ask them!

very very true, the whole subject is incredibly boring , if you go by what others tell you on here you would go crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's what the dictionary (the one I refer to anyway...) says:Curvy:- Shapely or Voluptuous. So...

Shapely:- Having and attractive or well-proportioned shape. Voluptuous:- Curvaceous and sexually attractive.

Curvaceous:- Having an attractively curved shape.

Don't see the word 'Fat' in there....??

ted.

curvy isn't fat

but the question was what does curvy mean on here and lets be honest most fat women choose to class themselves as curvy

if your nipples point to the floor, you have a over hang on your belly and rolls in your back, im sorry your not curvy your fat

That's me sorted then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. I'm fat and perfect with that. I don't use "curvy" to describe myself, nor euphemisms like "chubby" nor clinical degrading terms like "overweight". Over what weight? But I digress.

If there was the option to select "fat", I would choose it. But I choose "fabulous" because that's what I feel like regardless of size. People call me "curvy" perhaps because they still think fat is an offensive word and they usually associate it with fat, bald, redfaced hooligans and not ladies. I understand why girls feel confident about calling themselves BBW, but when people use the term to describe me I block them immediately. To me it sounds like "oh, she's large but she's got a pretty face" or shit my godmother would say. Ugh.

On my profile description I do say I'm fat, and show my full body pictures, etc. Then again, I also mention I fancy "curvy" women because I understand not everyone is as confident as me nor has awareness about fat politics, etc. they still feel conflicted about their bodies and would find it offensive if I said "I like fat chicks, you're so fat and hot". But then again, I like people who fit in the traditional definition of curvy (big tits and bum) regardless of their overall size. I would bonk Nigella Lawson and Christina Hendricks (traditional dictionary curvy girls) just like I would bonk Scarlett Johansson (skinny) and Rebel Wilson (fatty) equally. Dunno. It's all a matter of confidence and ways you refer to yourself at this stage of confidence.

But then I see men refer themselves as "curvy" when it's a traditional feminine definition?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Curvy should mean big boobs small waist and a bum

I've seen some beasts class themselves as curvy

Its no different than men who discribe themselves as athletic,with no muscles definition at all.

Makes you wonder what other lies they tell If they and pull that one."

BEASTS?? Charming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blanket statements don't work - size 18 at 6ft is vastly different to size 18 at 5ft, different build types as well can make two people with the same dress size appear vastly different. if you're 6ft and a size 18 you are fat! My wife is 5' 11 and she's a size 12 with very wide hips and ample butt... If she were to be a size 18 she would look and be fat.

They say opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as curvy..

and a healthy 14/16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy well to put it simple great figure great body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beyoncs is curvy and definitely not far!!!

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I'm down as curvy on our profile.......if some people think I'm fat then so be it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some say the female body has curves some say slightly overweight! Just wondered your take on it!?

Totally agree, lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some say the female body has curves some say slightly overweight! Just wondered your take on it!?

thank you

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It would appear that curvy on here in most cases is another word for fat, our take on curvy is hourglass'ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blanket statements don't work - size 18 at 6ft is vastly different to size 18 at 5ft, different build types as well can make two people with the same dress size appear vastly different. if you're 6ft and a size 18 you are fat! My wife is 5' 11 and she's a size 12 with very wide hips and ample butt... If she were to be a size 18 she would look and be fat.

They say opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one.

Very true also i have a sister who is just over a foot shorter than me she is a size 10 im a size 16 and we look around the same build so height does factor in it for sure,she always says she would rather be a size 16 and tall anyday as she would have nice legs not little dumpy ones

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"curvy means round..

not flat... not skinny.. curves can go in as well as out... hourglass. shapely. voluptuous .statuesque . rubinesque. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me its a shape not a weight

people ideas on the shape seem to differentiate aswell

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

John is a 6'3" 50" chest & 36-38 waist & i am a size 18 & depending on tops a 20 so we are large not curvy lol!

Does it effect our meets...no not in the slightest, we do get the odd crazy people that state they only meet women up to a size 14 contact me for meets...why when they don't like big people lol!

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By *urvyKattWoman
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

So reading through this post - I'm 5ft, a "curvy" size 16 with an hourglass figure. Should I now change my profile name to FatKatt????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hourglasses have changed in modern times. Something to do with bigger sand or maybe more of it.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

There's a perfect picture which shows the "standard" body shapes women tend to be defined by. Google it.

Even then, most women are different, and even amongst those with similar body shapes, there are a vast amount of differences.

And that....is a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CURVEY can be a size 6 .. tits and a bum not straight down ......... or like me a size 14 .. 5.8 big tits and long legs and a nice peachy bum , lol I am not skinny I am not fat ... I am curvy , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the descriptions *can* be anything. Nobody can be forced to describe themselves a certain way.

Lots of people liked the emperor's new clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CURVEY can be a size 6 .. tits and a bum not straight down ......... or like me a size 14 .. 5.8 big tits and long legs and a nice peachy bum , lol I am not skinny I am not fat ... I am curvy , lol

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Hourglasses have changed in modern times. Something to do with bigger sand or maybe more of it."

I keep pebbles in my hour glass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't it mean a nice bust to match the ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hourglasses have changed in modern times. Something to do with bigger sand or maybe more of it.

I keep pebbles in my hour glass."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im curvy I guess cause I am size 10-12 and some clothes for my waist I have to buy in an 8 x but I really hate being described as curvy x much prefer being called slim lol xxx

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By *iftygreyshadesMan
over a year ago

Aberaeron

" I wouldn't describe curvy as fat, I'm fat, but there is no option for that, so I've put large.

My sis is a curvy size ten, big boobs, slim waste and a bit of a bum!

I was nice and curvy at a size 14 or 16, but I guess curvy is more of a shape than size, so ignore my midnight ramblings.

Well you look good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just dunno how a physical definition of a body type can even say 'thats sexy'

'shes tall athletic and has features people like in her face, though is she sexy? is she fuck...plus she bores me to tears with her inane jibes about others...then she starts talking about making me go to gym, fuck that I said...I work enough..I just wanna relax after my shift (she went jogging in a huff), I then came on fab n gotta quickie with an actual SEXY bbw honey"

shh true story

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

"I just dunno how a physical definition of a body type can even say 'thats sexy'

shh true story"
will never be able to play the xylaphone on my ribs ( hang on till i check spelling of said instrument)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just dunno how a physical definition of a body type can even say 'thats sexy'

shh true storywill never be able to play the xylaphone on my ribs ( hang on till i check spelling of said instrument) "

Close. Xylophone

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON

"It is subjective, and usually a judgement call based on the individual."

Well put, why it is always better to meet in person before agreeing to sex-you may be pleasantly surprised, or not! lol

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I am curvy .. boobs & bum with a waist .. yes im over weight too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curvy .. boobs & bum with a waist .. yes im over weight too. "

add a tight squirty pussy and am cool with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate it when people correct me when i say i'm fat by saying i'm curvy.....i look like the michelin man ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy to me is flat in the right places and nice bum and boobs. There are an awful lot of ladies on here that state they are curvy but are indeed just fat. Not that being fat is a bad thing as some find that more attractive than slim women. Think fab should maybe put a lot more categories in for both men and women

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Curvy to me is flat in the right places and nice bum and boobs. There are an awful lot of ladies on here that state they are curvy but are indeed just fat. Not that being fat is a bad thing as some find that more attractive than slim women. Think fab should maybe put a lot more categories in for both men and women "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hourglass figure with small waist. Not 6 o'clock

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