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Cuckolding your definitition

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever those in relationship determine i assume as varying degrees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep the word covers a whole host of varieties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes from the nesting habits of the cuckoo, where it lays It's eggs in other birds nests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep the word covers a whole host of varieties."

Many variations, yes, but completely different?! I'm guessing some were incorrect.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means? "

Completely different?

How do you mean?

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

There is no definite definition to cuckolding as it means different things to different people. It could be where the husband just watches his lady in action, severe could be where the husband is made to watch with the lady and her date verbally abusing the hubby. The hubby may be made to watch or listen from another room or even by phone. She may go out and have sex and tell hubby about it afterwards etc.

So, basically, you can't give a definitive explanation as it has so many levels of intensity and is different to everyone who does it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means?

Completely different?

How do you mean?"

Well one man told me it was where he was locked in a chastity belt and only I would have the key.

Another has said its where the wife has sex with someone with a big cock infront of husband and hubby has to clean up afterwards.

Someone else told me they would spoil me to new clothes and want me to have sex with other people and date them and wear the things they'd bought.

I'm so confused

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

We only meet single guys. Loads have emailed us asking if we are in to the cuckold scene. Never really knew what to say because of the so many definitions. My hubby will watch, join in our me play alone and I tell him all the details. Not into this verbal abuse, chastity, tieing up or cleaning up. So not sure if we are cuckold what. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The true definition is as I said,but there are variants of this depending on people's choice of fetish.

But the basic idea is that your taking something that's not yours and planting your seed to humiliate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means?

Completely different?'

How do you mean?

Well one man told me it was where he was locked in a chastity belt and only I would have the key.

Another has said its where the wife has sex with someone with a big cock infront of husband and hubby has to clean up afterwards.

Someone else told me they would spoil me to new clothes and want me to have sex with other people and date them and wear the things they'd bought.

I'm so confused "

For a start you would need to be in a relationship with the cuckold. As a single woman I don't see what role you would play....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it have to be your husband or wife to consider it cuckolding? My husband is not in the scene, but I enjoy going to clubs with mates and seeing them play with other mates. Is it still cuckolding?

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury


"Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means?

Completely different?

How do you mean?

Well one man told me it was where he was locked in a chastity belt and only I would have the key.

Another has said its where the wife has sex with someone with a big cock infront of husband and hubby has to clean up afterwards.

Someone else told me they would spoil me to new clothes and want me to have sex with other people and date them and wear the things they'd bought.

I'm so confused "

All are forms of cuckolding x

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


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For a start you would need to be in a relationship with the cuckold. As a single woman I don't see what role you would play...."

Ammuses me when I see single female profiles that include cuckholding in the list of interests. Shows either a lack of understanding or an "off-profile" guy in the background lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means?

Completely different?'

How do you mean?

Well one man told me it was where he was locked in a chastity belt and only I would have the key.

Another has said its where the wife has sex with someone with a big cock infront of husband and hubby has to clean up afterwards.

Someone else told me they would spoil me to new clothes and want me to have sex with other people and date them and wear the things they'd bought.

I'm so confused

For a start you would need to be in a relationship with the cuckold. As a single woman I don't see what role you would play...."

I am in a relationship I'm married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically as the term is hundreds of years old it has taken on a new meaning and therefore open to interpretation. However still relates to an adulterous wife but these days actively encouraged.

I would suggest if cuckholding is suggested to you then you ask how they view it

And being female OP if you were to engage in such a scenario where the roles would be reversed you would be known as a Cuckquean and again that can mean a variety of different things to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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For a start you would need to be in a relationship with the cuckold. As a single woman I don't see what role you would play....

Ammuses me when I see single female profiles that include cuckholding in the list of interests. Shows either a lack of understanding or an "off-profile" guy in the background lol."

I diaagree as Cuckquean is not listed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means? "

The actual Oxford English dictionary definition of a cuckold is simply a man whose wife has been unfaithful. Most people on here who choose to call themselves a cuck are what I would describe as self inflicted cucks. They enjoy the thrill of their wife/partner having sex with another man. Some simply watch. Some are denied sex and are even aroused by having to perform humiliating duties for their wife and more extreme cases the wife's lover/bull/fuck buddy.

I have only really given a brief insight. It means many different things to different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The true definition is as I said,but there are variants of this depending on people's choice of fetish.

But the basic idea is that your taking something that's not yours and planting your seed to humiliate

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like i said before there isnt one definition as it covers many different variations, you dont have to humiliate/ be humiliated to cuckold/ be cuckolded yet it can include that.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means? "

I think the best way to understand cuckolding is to search Google for "cuckold contract". Try reading a few different contracts. I think the contracts explain the dynamics of a cuckold relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I just explained all that lol

Wikipedia it , there are some bits on there about it.

But as I said,it all depends on peoples fetish and how far they want to take it.

Clean up duties for instance isn't everyones cup of tea ,but is also seen as part of it.

Check with who you are thinking of taking part first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it someone holding your cuck

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"I thought it someone holding your cuck"

I suppose by some of the above definitions it would apply to me, and by others not.

I love watching her have great sex with another guy (or guys) and more often than not I will join in, but occasionally I will just watch.

We don't do the humiliation bit though and she is more than happy to watch me have sex with another woman (if she's not too busy herself

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Does that make me a Cuck? you tell me.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Since joining FAB I've been told several completely different definitions of cuckolding.

What do you think it means?

Completely different?

How do you mean?

Well one man told me it was where he was locked in a chastity belt and only I would have the key.

Another has said its where the wife has sex with someone with a big cock infront of husband and hubby has to clean up afterwards.

Someone else told me they would spoil me to new clothes and want me to have sex with other people and date them and wear the things they'd bought.

I'm so confused "

While all those may have cuckolding as the central theme they also have added extras

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