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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do single men who have contacted you and had a negative response continually message, making subjective comments regarding your intent for being on the site. Yet when you attempt to reply they have blocked you. We expected a few with behavioral issuesbut at least we expected maturity

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why not just block people you aren't interested in after you reply "no thanks" .... then they can't continually message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people take ANY reply as an expression of interest (yes, even a "thanks, but no thanks" reply) - and keep on mailing with "why not", "what can I do to change your mind", etc.

And some people get so excited when they see they've got a message, they can't bear the disappointment of realising they've been unsuccessful - these are the ones who vent with the "your loss", "you're ugly anyway" messages.

I now don't reply to people I am not interested in. The FAQs say that it's not rude not to reply, so I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know... I accept it as is. Just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how many single blokes mail me who can't accom, and when I say we don't accom sorry, they follow it up with "outdoor fun?" just goes to show people don't read your profiles!! annoying

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't know how many single blokes mail me who can't accom, and when I say we don't accom sorry, they follow it up with "outdoor fun?" just goes to show people don't read your profiles!! annoying "

Lol, yes us too. Outdoor fun to me means a picnic and a go on a cocony shy

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Queue chorus of 'I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts'

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By *ammy007Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

lol and you have...

Still what is more funny is when they say they are going to the meeting place, they have requested evidence that its all booked and paid for then they send you a very sexy email and block you... Leaving you to stay in your hotel on your todd....

Single males might be a nightmare but some of us are good. Still I go sit in my empty hotel room... Damn the single women!

Jammy

On holiday in Hull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All single males on this site get tarred with the same brush, when in fact we are not all the same.

Personally I never send repeated emails with demands, slagging off, etc. I simply send ONE individually composed message AFTER reading the profile in full - it does though get incredibly frustrating when the message is deleted without being read - time after time after time.......

But I supposed I should expect that

My profile clearly states I won't accomodate couples (I don't want to be outnumbered in my own house), but despite that I have had couple DEMANDING I accomodate if they are going to grace me with their prescence. I even had one cheeky bastard couple send me a list of what they wanted for breakfast! Needless to say they were told exactly where they could put their breakfast!

I have also had one couple contact me as they were in my area and wanted to buy some drugs!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All single males on this site get tarred with the same brush, when in fact we are not all the same.

Personally I never send repeated emails with demands, slagging off, etc. I simply send ONE individually composed message AFTER reading the profile in full - it does though get incredibly frustrating when the message is deleted without being read - time after time after time.......

But I supposed I should expect that

My profile clearly states I won't accomodate couples (I don't want to be outnumbered in my own house), but despite that I have had couple DEMANDING I accomodate if they are going to grace me with their prescence. I even had one cheeky bastard couple send me a list of what they wanted for breakfast! Needless to say they were told exactly where they could put their breakfast!

I have also had one couple contact me as they were in my area and wanted to buy some drugs!!!

I like my eggs sunny side up Please luv

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