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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im having a debate with mr first

he thinks that swinging couples will have more sex with new people than what the non swinging single will have

for example the single may have sex on average once or twice a month

wots your thoughts????

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If i stopped swinging tomorrow and wasnt with my boyfriend i dont think id be having sex again. The reason is i wont just sleep with anyone, i wont just invite any old guy over and i dont want cheap d*unken one night stands. So it would be of to the convent for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"If i stopped swinging tomorrow and wasnt with my boyfriend i dont think id be having sex again. The reason is i wont just sleep with anyone, i wont just invite any old guy over and i dont want cheap d*unken one night stands. So it would be of to the convent for me lol"

But hell would have frozen over before that happened xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what is sex?"

lol kitty look down do you see your feet

thats what sex is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your in a relationship with someone, be it boy/girl friend or married then you will have someone to have sex with and therefore will have sex more often than someone who is single. If your also a couple who are swingers then that sexual activity will increase!

If your single and not into swinging then to me it's obvious that your not going to be as sexually active!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your in a relationship with someone, be it boy/girl friend or married then you will have someone to have sex with and therefore will have sex more often than someone who is single. If your also a couple who are swingers then that sexual activity will increase!

If your single and not into swinging then to me it's obvious that your not going to be as sexually active! "

your point is true but if you read the thread again what we actually mean is new ppl your partner is not included if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OOh its a hard one, some of my single friends do have an awful lot of sex, one noght stands etc, depends on the person I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OOh its a hard one, some of my single friends do have an awful lot of sex, one noght stands etc, depends on the person I guess."

ok heres a question just 4 you who gets more you or your pal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With new people other than my partner, then definatly my friends, but then saying that we have children so cant get out but they dont, I think that has alot to do with it also x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With new people other than my partner, then definatly my friends, but then saying that we have children so cant get out but they dont, I think that has alot to do with it also x"

we can travel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With new people other than my partner, then definatly my friends, but then saying that we have children so cant get out but they dont, I think that has alot to do with it also x

we can travel lol"

Did your ground work, laid the trap and sprung it at the perfect moment - Like ya style. lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With new people other than my partner, then definatly my friends, but then saying that we have children so cant get out but they dont, I think that has alot to do with it also x

we can travel lol

Did your ground work, laid the trap and sprung it at the perfect moment - Like ya style. lmao"

easy bait xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"im having a debate with mr first

he thinks that swinging couples will have more sex with new people than what the non swinging single will have

for example the single may have sex on average once or twice a month

wots your thoughts????"

I think that a lot of single guys do rather well...... but you get out what you put in, just because you happen to be a couple, it doesn't mean you'll get more sex.... all it means is there is one more person who has to agree... for example mr might like a couple but you don't

Just remember that singles can be as choosy about there playing partners as couples are... and yes, that goes for single guys as well.....

I would tell mr not to go in with any pre-conceived notions, assumptions are very dangerous things to make...

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I find it harder to find couples than singles..there are 4 people that have all got to like each other,4 peoples ideas and fantasies to take into account...it aint easy lol

But when it works wey hey!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im having a debate with mr first

he thinks that swinging couples will have more sex with new people than what the non swinging single will have

for example the single may have sex on average once or twice a month

wots your thoughts????

I think that a lot of single guys do rather well...... but you get out what you put in, just because you happen to be a couple, it doesn't mean you'll get more sex.... all it means is there is one more person who has to agree... for example mr might like a couple but you don't

Just remember that singles can be as choosy about there playing partners as couples are... and yes, that goes for single guys as well.....

I would tell mr not to go in with any pre-conceived notions, assumptions are very dangerous things to make..."

he doesnt he just said if he was a single he wouldnt of had as much

its a forum and we were simply asking ppls opinions on who they think gets more no assumption just merely a question chill out man lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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he doesnt he just said if he was a single he wouldnt of had as much

its a forum and we were simply asking ppls opinions on who they think gets more no assumption just merely a question chill out man lol"

it is a forum... I just gave you a different slant than the other have, if everyone gave the same answer, it would be a boring place.....

for example... I know a lot of single guys and couples who go to greedy girls nights in clubs (not really my thing but hey) and the great thing about swinging is that it can cater to everyones tastes and preferences, and I am sure most people are happy... even me even you....

like honeypot said.... when it is couples there are 4 people you have to please, singles meeting couples it is 3, so to that extent it can be more complicated for couples...

In answer to your question, I don't really think it is really a case of who gets more as such, more a case of how much you want to play and finding people you click with, thats the hard bit

sean xxxxx

p.s very chilled thanks.... only 8 hours now till MSU play in the final four, I'll get slowly more d*unk as the afternoon goes on.......

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


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he doesnt he just said if he was a single he wouldnt of had as much

its a forum and we were simply asking ppls opinions on who they think gets more no assumption just merely a question chill out man lol

it is a forum... I just gave you a different slant than the other have, if everyone gave the same answer, it would be a boring place.....

for example... I know a lot of single guys and couples who go to greedy girls nights in clubs (not really my thing but hey) and the great thing about swinging is that it can cater to everyones tastes and preferences, and I am sure most people are happy... even me even you....

like honeypot said.... when it is couples there are 4 people you have to please, singles meeting couples it is 3, so to that extent it can be more complicated for couples...

In answer to your question, I don't really think it is really a case of who gets more as such, more a case of how much you want to play and finding people you click with, thats the hard bit

sean xxxxx

p.s very chilled thanks.... only 8 hours now till MSU play in the final four, I'll get slowly more d*unk as the afternoon goes on......."

Don't get so d*unk you miss it whatever MSU is Fabio lol

I understand MSU as something else ...although I can see where it could fit into swinging in some cases lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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Don't get so d*unk you miss it whatever MSU is Fabio lol

I understand MSU as something else ...although I can see where it could fit into swinging in some cases lol"

MSU is Michigan State University honey......

the only things we are really famous for is partying and rioting... not always in that order!!!! lol

we are in the National semi final of the basketball tournament, which happens to be in out home state 90 miles away!!... 50,000 MSU fans in a 72,000 stadium... wish i was there.... but have 20 guinness's to keep me going....

sorry for the hijack folks!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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he doesnt he just said if he was a single he wouldnt of had as much

its a forum and we were simply asking ppls opinions on who they think gets more no assumption just merely a question chill out man lol

it is a forum... I just gave you a different slant than the other have, if everyone gave the same answer, it would be a boring place.....

for example... I know a lot of single guys and couples who go to greedy girls nights in clubs (not really my thing but hey) and the great thing about swinging is that it can cater to everyones tastes and preferences, and I am sure most people are happy... even me even you....

like honeypot said.... when it is couples there are 4 people you have to please, singles meeting couples it is 3, so to that extent it can be more complicated for couples...

In answer to your question, I don't really think it is really a case of who gets more as such, more a case of how much you want to play and finding people you click with, thats the hard bit

sean xxxxx

p.s very chilled thanks.... only 8 hours now till MSU play in the final four, I'll get slowly more d*unk as the afternoon goes on......."

think u should put the drink down m8 and try an read the thread again

ppl who attend clubs are classed as swingers the question was who gets more new shags NONE swingin singles or swinging cpls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i fuck myself everynight (or i did LOL) does that count??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i fuck myself everynight (or i did LOL) does that count??"

no we said someone new but cause its you yes it counts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With new people other than my partner, then definatly my friends, but then saying that we have children so cant get out but they dont, I think that has alot to do with it also x

we can travel lol

Did your ground work, laid the trap and sprung it at the perfect moment - Like ya style. lmao

easy bait xx"

ha ha ha easy who us?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With new people other than my partner, then definatly my friends, but then saying that we have children so cant get out but they dont, I think that has alot to do with it also x

we can travel lol

Did your ground work, laid the trap and sprung it at the perfect moment - Like ya style. lmao

easy bait xx

ha ha ha easy who us?"

would love to find out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think _abio actually has a point firsttimers, swinging couples who regularly visit greedy girl nights a clubs may well get more partners in a few visits than any non swinging single will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"think _abio actually has a point firsttimers, swinging couples who regularly visit greedy girl nights a clubs may well get more partners in a few visits than any non swinging single will. "

is very confused now the question was/is who gets to have sex with DIFFERENT/NEW ppl the none swinging single (none swinging singles dont attend greedy girls nights at clubs as that would make them a swinging single)or us swinging cpls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats confusing about swinging couples visiting greedy girls nights?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I read it as swinging couples would get more fun at a greedy girls night than a single non swinging male would get out on the pull with his mates

Was I reading it right? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I read it as swinging couples would get more fun at a greedy girls night than a single non swinging male would get out on the pull with his mates

Was I reading it right? lol"

well you've come the closest lol

we'll put it a different way honey do you have sex with new ppl more than lets say more than a none swinging single friend of yours

dont understand where greedy girls,clubs etc.. came into it lol

cause we neva asked that in the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

greedy girls nights and clubs come into it because a lot of swinging couples play in clubs, not sure why you cannot see this or see where the relevence is.

are we missing something here? or have we read the thread wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"greedy girls nights and clubs come into it because a lot of swinging couples play in clubs, not sure why you cannot see this or see where the relevence is.

are we missing something here? or have we read the thread wrong."

no u havent exactly read the thred wrong

really trying to put this in a way u can understand.....fair enough cpls go 2 clubs ect..(as do singles) we know that

but take a cpl like u and us (swingers) and compare ourselfs 2 one of your single non swinging friends

do u reckon that on average that they have more 1 night stands than u will have meets or play in a club even?

over a period of time lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im gonna kill him 4 starting this off lol

i told him who gives a fuck anyway lol

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i fuck myself everynight (or i did LOL) does that count??"

I like you Kitty, my kinda girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trying to read this thread is giving me a headache xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"trying to read this thread is giving me a headache xx"

i know lol

come on we are a geordie and a scouser lol

we promise not 2 do another one lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"im having a debate with mr first

he thinks that swinging couples will have more sex with new people than what the non swinging single will have

for example the single may have sex on average once or twice a month

wots your thoughts????"

Wouldn't it depend on the couple?

I know a few couples who only swing a few times per year.

I know a few couples who now only swing with one or two couples they have known for a while.

As long as everyone is getting as much as they want, who cares? lol

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

as a new voice on here

and not being on this site long

as a single male my sex life was mabe once or twice a year since coming on to this site I have not gone a week with out a meet and now have a couple who come to me every two weeks on a sat

so i would say any one on here is getting more (one very happy 55yr old)

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"as a new voice on here

and not being on this site long

as a single male my sex life was mabe once or twice a year since coming on to this site I have not gone a week with out a meet and now have a couple who come to me every two weeks on a sat

so i would say any one on here is getting more (one very happy 55yr old)"

Yay good on ya old git thats ,lovely to hear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hey old git wots ya trick????

lol

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but take a cpl like u and us (swingers) and compare ourselfs 2 one of your single non swinging friends

do u reckon that on average that they have more 1 night stands than u will have meets or play in a club even?

over a period of time lol"

I would say that our single vanilla friends have so so so much more sex with other people than we do with others, but we don't see the comparison here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

whey hey ...there's that word vannilla's again...i love it lol

didnt have a clue what it meant but i think ive got it now lol

xx

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By *idland-richardMan
over a year ago

kidderminster

im single and i have not meet no one yet no one is looking for a single men boo boo who

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