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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've found lately that our limits and kinks are broadening and starting to enjoy things we though we never would. Has this happened to others?

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"We've found lately that our limits and kinks are broadening and starting to enjoy things we though we never would. Has this happened to others? "

Yes is the simple answer. The latest is a dungeon and whips (gently for now), if you'd have said I would be doing that a few years ago I'd have laughed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes deffo.

This lifestyle has definately broadened our horizons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God yes, we started with baby steps nearly 13 years ago - separate room and straight sex, to 3 somes, 4 somes, anal, rimming, Bi- curious to fully Bi, gang bangs .... lol

It's almost like, what's next on the list... Neither of us has tried any type of flogging or ropes, but who knows ...? Lol xxx

Keep experimenting we say xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Variety is the spice of life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely - I was sub curious when I joined fab! Now I'm actively looking for a new Dominant and I've done things I wouldn't have dreamed of doing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. Would never have thought about doing some of the things ive done in the last couple of years, ten years ago. Loved every minute tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. I have a long term FB and we meet often. When we first met she would go ballistic if my fingers should 'accidentally' touch her bottom. Gradually she has softened and has tolerated me occasionally and gently playing with her bum. At the weekend she blew me away though when midway through me going down on her she ordered me to finger her bum. Gobsmacked.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And i hope u had her loving every moment of it and keep it up

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By *ryme_gyMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

Absolutely! I think the sort of person who's attracted to this lifestyle will always strive for more when it comes to sexual experience.

In fact in my opinion people who do not see the attraction of new experiences will grow stagnant.

That said I think I'll call it a day if "normal" sex ever gets boring though.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"We've found lately that our limits and kinks are broadening and starting to enjoy things we though we never would. Has this happened to others? "

Yes our limits have changed over the years and I'm sure they will continue to do so.

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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Definitely - am open and enjoy things now that I would never have even thought of not so long ago. My only concern is, does it become addictive? Pushing boundaries so much that unless you're doing something new or unusual does it get stale? Can't say it has so far, but what about anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've found lately that our limits and kinks are broadening and starting to enjoy things we though we never would. Has this happened to others? "

I never thought i would Luke watersports, and whilst its still early days I'm loving it so far . . Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... loving it too!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Learning stuff I didnt even know existed

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

agree...

Experimenting with a trusted partner means that I'm more open to trying new things and seeing what turns us on.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely, I do stuff I'd never thought of years ago. You see it with all sorts, people getting into, S&M Gb numbers etc. On the GB front alone I've met women who've been nervous of meeting 3 or 4 men, next thing it's 10, then 15 and they just keep wanting more. It's all part of the wonder and fun of this lifestyle, discovering new parts of your delights and desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've found lately that our limits and kinks are broadening and starting to enjoy things we though we never would. Has this happened to others?

I never thought i would Luke watersports, and whilst its still early days I'm loving it so far . . Xxx "

That's great, but how does Luke feel about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"agree...

Experimenting with a trusted partner means that I'm more open to trying new things and seeing what turns us on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, all of our original rules have been thrown out of the window!!!

As long as the lines of effective communication are kept open as a couple for us the rules and limits will always be fluid as we are finding that this is about experimentation and mutual satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. For ages we went to chams and just played with each other but in a public room, it was enough for us. I remember walking into the cinema room and seeing a woman indulging in a bukkake session. I left the room disgusted. I can't believe how naive I was, though I personally still wouldn't do bukkake but I don't hold the view it's demeaning to women as I once did.

There are still lots of things I won't do, anal, rimming, spanking etc. And there's things I've tried I'm not keen on, such as girlie play, but I'm glad I've tried and experienced it.

The thing I never thought I'd experience but tried and enjoyed was dvp. Years ago that would have been classed as utter filth to me but I like how my perception has been changed by reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone said a few years ago I'd be on this site doing the things I have I would have laughed them silly but my list has grown and grown since being on here cant wait to cross a few more off ....trouble is for every one I cross off I add at least another one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if someone said a few years ago I'd be on this site doing the things I have I would have laughed them silly but my list has grown and grown since being on here cant wait to cross a few more off ....trouble is for every one I cross off I add at least another one lol"

Our list keeps growing too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I started and things have changed and evolved quickly ,things I thought wasn't important to me have become very important. there are a few things on the list I'm keen to do just gotta wait fr the right couple etc to do them with I'm in no rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if someone said a few years ago I'd be on this site doing the things I have I would have laughed them silly but my list has grown and grown since being on here cant wait to cross a few more off ....trouble is for every one I cross off I add at least another one lol

Our list keeps growing too. "

its great isn;t it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always open to new influences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've found lately that our limits and kinks are broadening and starting to enjoy things we though we never would. Has this happened to others?

I never thought i would Luke watersports, and whilst its still early days I'm loving it so far . . Xxx

That's great, but how does Luke feel about it? "
. . Not sure yet still looking for him xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I came to swinging with pretty definite ideas about what I won't do.

But they are all based on experience. In my younger years I had a huge variety of sexual opportunities and being easy going and open minded I said why not and gave things a go.

As a result I can say with confidence and based on experience what will not get me sexually excited. There are a few things I haven't done, but they are so far out there that I'm fairly confident they wouldn't float my boat.

Although... Scat anyone? "

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