FabSwingers.com forum: Dwindling bi feelings

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When we first started playing about 10 years ago I was really really keen on girly fun. Now for some reason it just doesn't really do anything for me.

Anyone else found this? I still find women attractive but not sure I want to play that much

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

You might just have been going through a phase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that it's possibly quite common for your interests to change with life.

I'm just bi, but mostly gay - I find that my interest in, and desire for men is something that comes and goes.

That's why I'm here - to enjoy their company without having to get into any long-term involvement.

The important thing is to just be yourself and go with your feelings. Nobody says that you have o do anything!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Annie I think that describes it. I wouldn't say it was a phase as I had strong bi feelings for over 25 years!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's exactly like me, it really really takes a special lady for me to want to play now. One thing that really pisses me off is the amount of guys who ask when talking about meeting is if I have a friend who can join us. No I fooking don't and just because I am bi doesn't mean I'm going to jump on every female I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with your feelings.

Besides - women-to-woman play is usually engaged at several levels - it's essential that you feel more than just a little chemistry.

I adore women, but won't do anything if that spark isn't there!

It's worth waiting for the ones that can awaken you...

And it's important to respect your own instincts, whatever they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's exactly like me, it really really takes a special lady for me to want to play now. One thing that really pisses me off is the amount of guys who ask when talking about meeting is if I have a friend who can join us. No I fooking don't and just because I am bi doesn't mean I'm going to jump on every female I see. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we first started playing about 10 years ago I was really really keen on girly fun. Now for some reason it just doesn't really do anything for me.

Anyone else found this? I still find women attractive but not sure I want to play that much

Exactly the same happening here. It has to be a very, very sexy girl for D to be interested now.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

me too i like to kiss the the girls

and cuddle and lick their boobs

but i not really do very much more than

that now ,still prefer a nice cock so

does that make me not bi ??

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

i have exactly the same feeling at the moment i have had relationships with women and men but right now im not feeling it with many of the women we meet just because im bi it doesnt mean i want to play with all of you. Im definitely enjoying playing with men more than women these days. This is not a phase but i would say im now bi submissive as i tend to play with women for Sirs enjoyment more than my own which is fine by me as i reap the rewards.

However even he has said that hed rather i played with men as i enjoy it more and he enjoys my enjoyment. You are not alone in your feelings but i think its life and things change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nik can take it or leave it.

she doesnt like it when people automatically think she is going to be bi

or she utterly fucking hates it if the other male half thinks she will put a show on with his gf

she def prefers cock

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I go through phases with my bi feelings. At the minute, I'm craving cock. Not really into bi play. I know that this may well change sometime soon.

Sexuality is fluid, depends on mood, moon and song. Well mine is anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we first started playing about 10 years ago I was really really keen on girly fun. Now for some reason it just doesn't really do anything for me.

Anyone else found this? I still find women attractive but not sure I want to play that much

EEK! Well just do long as ya hunky dude hubby's bi feelings ain't dwindling tooooo?? The sun will continue to set somewhere on the old empire lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a bi curios feeling twice and acted on it. Both times were good fun and I enjoyed. I may never get that feeling again but if I do I'll probably act on it again. In the meantime I'm more than happy sticking to what I like best and that's tall fit handsome men

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Mrs FJ really prefers a dominant woman, she's very attentive and faaaaar from selfish but enjoys the more submissive role which then in turn potentially draws the same dominant streak within.

She certainly enjoys kinky couples, we both do. Whereby all play together.

As much as she loves this though she does have a huge desire to see the guys play which from my perspective means it flow, chemistry clearly apparent and this allows her real life porn whilst sat admiring, fiddling until she can hold back no further.

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