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By *ickey and Minnie OP   Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Hi Guys

We are a genuine bi fem couple, chatted to a few people on msn, got caught out a few times by guys prenteding to be girls.

Even arranged a meet with a girl who we'd seen on cam and she didnt turn up.

So we are thinking of not bothering any more, are we doing something wrong or are we just mingers??

Thanks in advance

M & M xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Have you thought of trying a club

or

hosting a party at home or in a hotel

People love a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your not mingers thats for sure, but sadly as in anything in life, we rely on peoples ability to be truthful and upfront, something that is becoming a rare quality in people now.

you will like most of us here, be let down, be faked by men and be frustrated on many occasions, However, one good meet, will make up for all the bad times. So keep on, you will also with time, out the fakes a lot quicker, and not waste much time there

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By *ickey and Minnie OP   Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

We have thought about a club, and will probably be our next venture although we're not sure of we're ready for the 'full swap yet' and im guessing that single fems are as rare in clubs as on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't think you're mingers or that you're doing anything wrong

You clearly state what you want, have face pics and are willing to cam and phone to prove you are who you say you are

I don't know why your fem did'nt turn up,did she offer any explanation?

What you're looking for is the same as many other couples are looking for on here so its just a matter of keep trying and im sure it will work out for you with perseverence

good luck

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

honey has put just what i would have, plus the suggestion of clubs.Single fems are rarer in clubs than single guys but we do exist.

your comment about not ready for full swap yet is interesting..maybe consider a soft swap with a couple you like, esp one with a bi female ?

good luck ..it can take ages to find someone but when you do its well worth it. I've played with my original couple for over 6 years now.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up guys!

Everyone on here has experienced being let down by men, women and couples. Who knows what goes through someones head when they arrange a meet and then don't follow it through.

There are some lovely, lovely people on here and you'll have the best time.

You certainly aren't mingers, you're a very attractive couple! The problem on FAB is that everyone on here represents the whole of society and as in 'normal' life, people will waste your time without giving a seconds though but there are a large amount of genuine, friendly, horny people on here and you WILL have a brilliant time!

Good luck and let the idiots just wash over your head!

Ol

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"We have thought about a club, and will probably be our next venture although we're not sure of we're ready for the 'full swap yet' and im guessing that single fems are as rare in clubs as on here lol"

You do exactly what you feel happy doing at all times

And more and more single girl do go these days as its a safer place for them to meet

I would be more than happy to escort you round Chameleons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have to expect a few turnips on a free sexual social site guys, there are quite a few i have noticed on here my self. but the genuine folk outweigh the ones with nothing better to do than be ass holes on here......hang in there and get to know the real players, as they will introduce you to more genuine people over time..patience...

and good luck

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

get your names down for the social in may too if you can...gloucesters not a million miles from you and its a great way to meet new people

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

* shameless plug for Gloucester social*

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By *ickey and Minnie OP   Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Thanks guys, if anything else we're not mingers lol.

The excuse the girl made to us was that her dog died and she didnt feel up to it, which is fair enough, she even then said we'll arrange it for the new year, and that was the last we heard, no replys to mails etc.

But hey ho as you all suggest we'll keep trying and thanks again.

M & M xx

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By *azza2010Couple
over a year ago

newcastle

just looked at u both and no your not mingers,very atractive,know what u mean by time waisters thou they can be very anoying but dont let that stop u enjoying your fun keep at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just keep on plugging away if you encounter time wasters just block them hopefully they'll soon get fed up if they can't access half the profiles.

as others have said your not mingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi guys why not try and find people with a few decent verifications which might go some way to help you find reliable meets

the 2 females talking on the phone helps out many timewasters

we are new to swinging and have been to a club 4 times and had fun and found it a great experience. The timewasters we have found are people we chatted with on msn. We intend to stick to verified people to try and avoid being let down. We are going to a couple of social events too so hoping to meet some potential future meets when there.

good luck guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u r def not mingers at all very attractive couple ...just keep on doing wot ur doing ....if ur brave enough have small party, dont advertise, hand pick ur own couples.....its a great way to meet people ....good luck

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By *ickey and Minnie OP   Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Thanks for all your help guys, at least we know its not how we look, just eager to dip our toes in (amongst other things)

Will keep tryin and hope all goes well, if not its off to parties we go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a recent Thursday night in Chameleons there were 15 single females.

Sometimes there are none, often there are a few, but those that are there are genuine and looking for fun of course.

That doesn't mean they are looking for couples though, many single females prefer 1on1 with males or females.

You just have to decide if what you want is worth the effort of trying to find it.

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By *ickey and Minnie OP   Couple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Well we think the end justifys the means so we'll keep lookin and ignorin the idiots

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"get your names down for the social in may too if you can...gloucesters not a million miles from you and its a great way to meet new people "

and if you're lucky you may get to see Sprites amazing nipps!!! xxmwahxx

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