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MMF vs. MFM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now, years ago on t'interweb, MFM used to mean Man on Woman on Man (no interaction between the men, both only focused on the woman). And MMF meant Man on Man on Woman (interaction between the men, as well as the woman.

Now, I see loads of people putting MMF on their profiles... do they really mean that?! What about you??!!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I just refer to a 3some with 2 guys as MMF... Neve had any guy run a mile thinking I wanted bi men if he was straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do. Some don't. Some don't know the difference, which is why I have felt for a long time that a glossary of terminology would be very useful on here.

People assume everyone knows that all sorts of terms mean, when the reality is very different.

ted.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

how about the f sits in a corner while the mm play with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about the f sits in a corner while the mm play with each other "

Would that be an MM....F then..??

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By *r BrightonMan
over a year ago

brighton

I prefer MMF but only if males are bi makes it more interesting and no hang ups when males touch which we all know will happen even bi accident lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Now, years ago on t'interweb, MFM used to mean Man on Woman on Man (no interaction between the men, both only focused on the woman). And MMF meant Man on Man on Woman (interaction between the men, as well as the woman.

Now, I see loads of people putting MMF on their profiles... do they really mean that?! What about you??!!"

Where does this come from?

TBH I've only heard the MFM used recently and in my mind it conjures up a picture of two guys desperate to keep the woman in between them in case accidental skin contact with the other guy unleashes some sort of bisexual genie that they can't get back in the bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh we haven't realised that the letters need to be in a certain order and mean different things. How niave are we!!!

So our amazing MMF's have actually been MFM's with no interaction between the males, although very comfortable with each other.

You learn something everyday!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aint it just as easy to sort out before the meet whst every one wants to happen and if two men are going to get into bed with one woman and get so close they need to be able to except the two men may end up touching each other even if not ment god it aint going to turn them not unless they find it so enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise that anyone put too much precedence on how the letters were arranged until I saw a thread about 6 months ago.

I haven't been swinging long term but I've seen 80s documentaries about it, about the use of contact magazines, putting keys in a bowl, the urban pampass grass myth etc, so maybe the arrangement of the letters was a strict code then. When I've seen the letters on here I havent come to any conclusions on whether it means bi play, I just know they are into threesomes.

But then I didn't realise in the BDSM world the spelling of dom/domme or the use of capital Ds and lowercase Ds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do. Some don't. Some don't know the difference, which is why I have felt for a long time that a glossary of terminology would be very useful on here.

People assume everyone knows that all sorts of terms mean, when the reality is very different.

ted."

I would concur as I thought mmf and mfm were the same, just 'spelt' differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where does this come from?

TBH I've only heard the MFM used recently and in my mind it conjures up a picture of two guys desperate to keep the woman in between them in case accidental skin contact with the other guy unleashes some sort of bisexual genie that they can't get back in the bottle "

It comes from years ago, I was an early(ish) adopter of using the internet, was on it about 18 years ago or so, and that was definitely what was meant then...! I suppose it's just like language, things change in meaning over time. I still think it's a useful way of indicating what you REALLY want though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I prefer MMF but only if males are bi makes it more interesting and no hang ups when males touch which we all know will happen even bi accident lol "

It's more relaxing for all concerned when the guys don't mind touching.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

suppposing your dyslexic .. you could turn up to the wromg meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't realise that anyone put too much precedence on how the letters were arranged until I saw a thread about 6 months ago.

I haven't been swinging long term but I've seen 80s documentaries about it, about the use of contact magazines, putting keys in a bowl, the urban pampass grass myth etc, so maybe the arrangement of the letters was a strict code then. When I've seen the letters on here I havent come to any conclusions on whether it means bi play, I just know they are into threesomes.

But then I didn't realise in the BDSM world the spelling of dom/domme or the use of capital Ds and lowercase Ds. "

Some people seem to Get very Uptight over Insignificant things.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Some do. Some don't. Some don't know the difference, which is why I have felt for a long time that a glossary of terminology would be very useful on here.

People assume everyone knows that all sorts of terms mean, when the reality is very different.

ted."

Yes this please even seasoned swingers might need to refresh... I find myself looking at urban dictionary loads after reading forums... much I would like clarity on

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If you are going to use MFM to mean no contact between the males then MFF must mean no contact between the male and the second female, also MMF = no contact between one male and the female.

That's why, IMO, it doesn't work as a separate acronym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefer mmf but didnt know about the way you type it mattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had no idea there was no distinction lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"how about the f sits in a corner while the mm play with each other

Would that be an MM....F then..?? "

That would be a MM F F OFF

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I just refer to a 3some with 2 guys as MMF... Neve had any guy run a mile thinking I wanted bi men if he was straight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to always refer to MMF until one guy asked for clarification and thought I meant a bi threesome eg the men

I then did a thread asking for opinion and Ruggers told me it was correct to say MFM for no male contact lol

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley

If you stutter you could be in the shit!

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"If you stutter you could be in the shit!"

Nah that would be MMF with orrible things

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By *inadaveCouple
over a year ago

bromley

So a mmmf with all guys bi is what we are trying to arrange, so hard finding 2 other guys to join us

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