FabSwingers.com forum: older women

By *rxireland OP Man
over a year ago

louth

Havent been on this site in a year now because was happy enough with what i was getting of the scene but after watching some porn and seeing pics of older women ie- over 60s it got me thinking. The oldest ive been with was a 32 yr old when i was 20 but now im starting to get a thing for the over 60s. Id love to meet one just for the experience and was wondering is there many blokes on here that have met this age bracket and how did they get on.

Is there even any 60+ women on here that meets younger guys and if so, what is it they look for in a guy my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail! "

Well said...!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try treating a lass as a human being and not a piece of furniture that you want to 'experience'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try treating a lass as a human being and not a piece of furniture that you want to 'experience'!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

Well OP.. That went well for you ... lol

Maybe think a bit more about how you word it next time..

It didnt read too well tbh.

Happy Swinging though.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

See you in another year bud once the flames have died down..

I can see what you wanted to say, but the way you wrote it did not help you.. At all. Tact, respect and thought go a long way buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess for some guys its like test driving an old car. We ain't for the scrap yard yet tho. Still plenty of life in us. Does Piss me off when they use the expression 'experience older' tho.

Fantasising is much nicer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just cant find that big book of meanings what it called again i cant spell but my book on life has shown me repect goes along way and yes i do have respect for all ages and enjoy the company aswell i wouldnt ever say i want to try them out it takes alot more than silly words to enjoy what ever may happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Havent been on this site in a year now because was happy enough with what i was getting of the scene but after watching some porn and seeing pics of older women ie- over 60s it got me thinking. The oldest ive been with was a 32 yr old when i was 20 but now im starting to get a thing for the over 60s. Id love to meet one just for the experience and was wondering is there many blokes on here that have met this age bracket and how did they get on.

Hello

If you have that kind of thoughts and ideas. Young man your dealings are really going to get crushed. By that educated woman .....I wish. No I would love to see that

Is there even any 60+ women on here that meets younger guys and if so, what is it they look for in a guy my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore meeting a lovely woman who is of an age similar to mine - she can be far more stimulating, exciting, licentious and knows her own mind and what she desires - lovely!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail! "

very well said

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail! "

I dont see what the problem is, yous are older and whats wrong with the OP saying experience. I have seen quite a few "older" women say that they do like meeting "younger" lads. What gives yous teh right to mention younger yet when it comes to the younger blokes, they get a hard time because the mentioned "older". Also, isnt swinging about having new "experiences"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why women are so offended at being called old...the fact is we are all older than someone and all older than we were a minute ago...if the guy had said grannys then I could understand the OP bashing, but getting offended isn't very constructive is it...im sure the OP would have prefered responses from ladies of a certain age who would be interested in meeting and not those that aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why women are so offended at being called old...the fact is we are all older than someone and all older than we were a minute ago...if the guy had said grannys then I could understand the OP bashing, but getting offended isn't very constructive is it...im sure the OP would have prefered responses from ladies of a certain age who would be interested in meeting and not those that aren't

Maybe it was the wording that the op used! Because to me, it looks like personallity, looks and attraction aren't a factor in this 'experience'. Just the age thing is! And heres me thinking you have to AT LEAST be able to communicate with a potential sex partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're presuming that they are not but he didn't say they weren't...its no different to a woman wanting a young guy or a black guy or a guy with an 8"+ cock etc, or a guy wanting 2 girls...some will be offended by those labels but most won't...those that are would be better keeping schtum than slating the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im sure the OP would have prefered responses from ladies of a certain age who would be interested in meeting and not those that aren't

...and did you see a line of such ladies lining up to give him a nice response...?

I wonder why not.......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a mature lady too and have been in a 4 yr relationship...at the end of the day its how you both connect with each other, age didnt come into it...i just saw her for who she was inside and thats all that mattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail!

Well said!

I never see what the problem is either! He called us older not 'old' and even if he's only a day younger than me, it makes me older than him! We're all here to 'experience' different things or am I on the wrong site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow there is n older guy thread and has got completely different reaction to this one!

For starters not one guy came forward saying he was offended at being called older.. Older is the fact, old is the insult

English lessons for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail!

Mature women then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow there is n older guy thread and has got completely different reaction to this one!

For starters not one guy came forward saying he was offended at being called older.. Older is the fact, old is the insult

English lessons for anyone

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why would i be offended i am old x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow there is n older guy thread and has got completely different reaction to this one!

For starters not one guy came forward saying he was offended at being called older.. Older is the fact, old is the insult

English lessons for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow there is n older guy thread and has got completely different reaction to this one!

For starters not one guy came forward saying he was offended at being called older.. Older is the fact, old is the insult

English lessons for anyone

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I am 52 and i am old and proud lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail!

Mature women then?"

Like cheese and wine!

if I am older than someone then that's exactly what I am.. Same as if I am younger than someone.. Neither means I am old or young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail! "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i guess for some guys its like test driving an old car. We ain't for the scrap yard yet tho. Still plenty of life in us. Does Piss me off when they use the expression 'experience older' tho.

Fantasising is much nicer

Yes makes us sound like some project

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail!

Mature women then?

Like cheese and wine!

if I am older than someone then that's exactly what I am.. Same as if I am younger than someone.. Neither means I am old or young

Lol

Age is just a number i guess hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look for someone who treats us like an average woman. We look for someone who doesn't call us 'older' (what a turn-off!), and who doesn't say they want to meet us 'for the experience'.

Epic fail!

Well said...!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i sure think he could of worded it better and had a bit more respect and i must say i love the way all u amazing ladies are sticking up for the more mature ladies

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By * a u lMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

It's mind over matter, if you don't mind then it dam well doesn't matter!!!! Personally I've found that ladies get more confident with time and self assured. I don't consider age as it's down to how people click and get on. Who wants a neurotic giggly 18 year old who doesn't know what she really wants. Ladies of all ages, keep having fun, it's your right to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyway he could of worded it without offending?

I don't see any problem with what's been written. Its no different from those who say they want to experience their first bbc or experience their first 3some...

I would love to experience a full on bi session with 2 younger guys.. Does that now mean I'm going to get young bisexual guys jump down my throat for calling them young or an experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyway he could of worded it without offending?

I don't see any problem with what's been written. Its no different from those who say they want to experience their first bbc or experience their first 3some...

I would love to experience a full on bi session with 2 younger guys.. Does that now mean I'm going to get young bisexual guys jump down my throat for calling them young or an experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyway he could of worded it without offending?

I don't see any problem with what's been written. Its no different from those who say they want to experience their first bbc or experience their first 3some...

I would love to experience a full on bi session with 2 younger guys.. Does that now mean I'm going to get young bisexual guys jump down my throat for calling them young or an experience

Ide love to join u for that

Cock willing here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

This is a much discussed topic on here and all I object to is being a box on someone's tick list, 500grams ham..tick, collect dry cleaning ....tick, sex with older/mature/milf/cougar.....tick.

Otherwise I have no objection to younger men expressing an interest as long as they realise that with age and experience comes the knowledge of what you want and the ability to get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said and we all love experance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is true that experience can be key to great sex but age does not always result in a more experienced person - that is why I disregard age and see people as individuals and believe that everyone has something different to offer.

However I do have to say the look of a sexy classy 40+ woman makes me go weak at the knees

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

So glad the irony has been highlighted

Women asks for huge black cock, a 9 inches or a younger guy then it is quite rightly her fantasy and preference

Poor lad here , writes quite a benign upbeat positive desire for an older lady , not suggesting she be grateful or anything negative other than granted age before personality but that's a minor and well accepted preference

Yet some decided to take this personally and attack and ridicule him , I think he was confronting a should I suggest taboo that many boys and girls have about being intimate with a significantly older person , it sounded more like an open mind than a box ticking exercise

I wish you well my friend I hope you find an open minded older lady who will enjoy your desire to deepen your experiences without judging you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So glad the irony has been highlighted

Women asks for huge black cock, a 9 inches or a younger guy then it is quite rightly her fantasy and preference

I wish you well my friend I hope you find an open minded older lady who will enjoy your desire to deepen your experiences without judging you

Good post!

XXXX

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

"I dont see what the problem is, yous are older and whats wrong with the OP saying experience. I have seen quite a few "older" women say that they do like meeting "younger" lads. What gives yous teh right to mention younger yet when it comes to the younger blokes, they get a hard time because the mentioned "older". Also, isnt swinging about having new "experiences"

Well said

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So glad the irony has been highlighted

Women asks for huge black cock, a 9 inches or a younger guy then it is quite rightly her fantasy and preference

I wish you well my friend I hope you find an open minded older lady who will enjoy your desire to deepen your experiences without judging you

well said.. nothing but hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So glad the irony has been highlighted

Women asks for huge black cock, a 9 inches or a younger guy then it is quite rightly her fantasy and preference

I wish you well my friend I hope you find an open minded older lady who will enjoy your desire to deepen your experiences without judging you

Exactly this

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By *rxireland OP Man
over a year ago

louth

Mixed replies but most not to happy with the older word i mentioned. Im sorry if i offended anyone

I take it ive shopped myself in the foot with not wording it differently. Will be more careful next time

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I assume this is directed at my post. I think "I'd love to meet one just for the experience" suggests that the OP is on a box ticking excercise and that is what I object to, I don't care how old a person is.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Mixed replies but most not to happy with the older word i mentioned. Im sorry if i offended anyone

I take it ive shopped myself in the foot with not wording it differently. Will be more careful next time

I doubt you've shot yourself in the foot there are plenty of women who like younger men but as you've recognised lots of older women don't like being referred to that way or being valued just for their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow there is n older guy thread and has got completely different reaction to this one!

For starters not one guy came forward saying he was offended at being called older.. Older is the fact, old is the insult

English lessons for anyone

why would i be offended i am old x"

one thing good about being old or older is that you haven't died!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wow there is n older guy thread and has got completely different reaction to this one!

For starters not one guy came forward saying he was offended at being called older.. Older is the fact, old is the insult

English lessons for anyone

why would i be offended i am old x

one thing good about being old or older is that you haven't died!"

As I'm always telling my father (86) being old is better than the alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How stupidly sad are some people.. Taking offence to an honest post and twisting it to make the lad look bad.. Just being difficult at the end of the day!

Pathetic.

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By *rxireland OP Man
over a year ago

louth

"How stupidly sad are some people.. Taking offence to an honest post and twisting it to make the lad look bad.. Just being difficult at the end of the day!

Pathetic."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How stupidly sad are some people.. Taking offence to an honest post and twisting it to make the lad look bad.. Just being difficult at the end of the day!

Pathetic."

Thats whats good about the forums though, we are all allowed our own points of view! Including yourself way i add!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How stupidly sad are some people.. Taking offence to an honest post and twisting it to make the lad look bad.. Just being difficult at the end of the day!

Pathetic."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How stupidly sad are some people.. Taking offence to an honest post and twisting it to make the lad look bad.. Just being difficult at the end of the day!

Pathetic.

Thats whats good about the forums though, we are all allowed our own points of view! Including yourself way i add!

the bad thing is the trolls and miserable twats they attract!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been bothered about age. I had a long relationship with a woman 20 years older than me when I was younger, and eventually married a woman 20 years older than me. I think it's great that there's sexy women in their 60s and upward enjoying sex, or big women or whatever - so different from the Playboy type that dominated porn for decades. So to me it's the person that counts really. I like the idea that there's diversity and everyone is capable of copping off.

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By *arandjasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

i love the forums!!!! if you want a laugh, just go into the forums and you will get one, people getting all het up and annoyed because someones opinion is different, or they word a post differently from they would, at the end of the day we are all here to TRY and have fun, dont agree with the opinions, dont read it, simples, and for the record, i am an older woman as well lol

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

This went well, I see....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about perception. If you find someone attractive, age is immaterial, unless you are liable for arrest of course...........

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