FabSwingers.com forum: no

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

does no mean no even in a private party and if you want to get friendly with someone does it have to be in the open with a group watching on or in a private room or is there no private rooms in a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does no mean no even in a private party and if you want to get friendly with someone does it have to be in the open with a group watching on or in a private room or is there no private rooms in a party"

Would depend on what was said before party.

If you have been invited expressly to perform as and for a group then I think that should be honoured.

If it's a party with no particular aim other than everyone's fun then you should be able to go to another room. If it's in someones home they should have stipulated which rooms are for use.

NO always means NO. ALWAYS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely no always means no irrespective of whether its at a party or in private!

Or have I misunderstood your question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most party's have private rooms and it's up to those playing if they want to play in front of others. This is a real turn on for some. As far as the first comment, a major rule in sex, not just in swinging is that no most definitely means no unless you fancy the Police chapping on your door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no if's and buts, NO will always mean NO.

As for the rest, its what your comfortable with that matters.

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By *aucy and naughtyCouple
over a year ago

London (Swiss Cottage)

Yes no always means no - it's the only way you can enjoy this lifestyle whilst feeling safe!

Also I can tell you as a law student that the moment there is a doubt about consent you should leave well alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some very long and complicated words in the English language but the most unambiguous ones is "No" so please help me which part of "No" are you having difficulty with?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am surprised there is a need to ask the question.

No means no in any situation, never mind swinging.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The only exception to this rule is when you ask your wife/girlfriend if those are new boots/shoes she is wearing?

Under those circumstances "no", can often mean "yes".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No always means No, to ignore it is at the very least assault or even attempted rape.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I am surprised there is a need to ask the question.

No means no in any situation, never mind swinging.

110% agree... I am surprised the question is being asked... especially since for a lot of people swinging is about trust for a ton of people

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

first rule of swinging in any situation is No means No - no exceptions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"first rule of swinging in any situation is No means No - no exceptions!"

Unless you're looking at an "ON" switch in a mirror

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"first rule of swinging in any situation is No means No - no exceptions!

Unless you're looking at an "ON" switch in a mirror

I tried light humour a few posts up - i don't think it's happening...

...apparently there are NO exceptions.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"The only exception to this rule is when you ask your wife/girlfriend if those are new boots/shoes she is wearing?

Under those circumstances "no", can often mean "yes"."

Ah, yes, except that No

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The only exception to this rule is when you ask your wife/girlfriend if those are new boots/shoes she is wearing?

Under those circumstances "no", can often mean "yes".

Ah, yes, except that No

I thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for all the advice just at a private party we were told it spoilt the occasion when one guy was told no but still tried it on numerous times after but the host said we had ruined his party but on there profile it said all the people know the rules and no means no as it has allways done for us but not last nite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only exception to this rule is when you ask your wife/girlfriend if those are new boots/shoes she is wearing?

Under those circumstances "no", can often mean "yes".

Ah, yes, except that No

I thank you."

I was laughing ffs ...sensitive arse.... I just hadn't got roudn to saying so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You guys have been unlucky then..

No means no always,we been to a few parties and have never heard of anyone say that a party has been ruined because someone has said no.

Hopefully this wont put you of going to another party.

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