FabSwingers.com forum: loads of meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

if your fairly new and you come across a profile that have loads of veri's,do they put you off?

To us it does,some genuine hot looking couples out there who look fun. BUT we wont aproach due to being fairly new.

Also have bene knocked back once or twice for being newbies'........cant win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know why you'd get knocked back looking at your pics. But it is true many people won't go near anyone new or with no meet verifications, but everyone has to start somewhere. Good luck finding fun, if you were closer I'd be chancing a message to you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP; there are loads of swingers and clubs 'oop north' so pretty soon you'll not be a newbie anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if your fairly new and you come across a profile that have loads of veri's,do they put you off?

To us it does,some genuine hot looking couples out there who look fun. BUT we wont aproach due to being fairly new.

Also have bene knocked back once or twice for being newbies'........cant win

A long list of veris can be interpreted in many ways, some of which are related to the timescale over which they were accumulated. If someone has been on this site for five years and has 250 veris showing (and yes there are some like that) then that is still only one a week. Doesn't exactly make them the biggest sex maniac ever, does it? And always remember - the ones on show are ONLY those which the user allows you to see... A user may have only ten on show, but hides the other 330... and that is not unknown on here either.

All I am saying is, don't get hung up or put off by the 'Veri Issue' - it is always getting blown out of proportion.

As for you getting knocked back for being newbies, well ... you won't be newbies much longer, will you..?? And with pics like yours and at your ages, I have no doubt that in six months you will be wondering why the f**k you bothered posting this thread at all!! Lol!

Good luck - you'll get there...

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^^^well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if your fairly new and you come across a profile that have loads of veri's,do they put you off?

To us it does,some genuine hot looking couples out there who look fun. BUT we wont aproach due to being fairly new.

Also have bene knocked back once or twice for being newbies'........cant win

Try a club no one worries about verifications there much better to meet in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message, meet and see if you click - verifications are only other peoples opinions. We chose our first time to be with an experienced couple, glad we did, they were great fun and offered really good advice, have fun x

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Yes it did put me off when I was new. But the first couple I met had been swinging for years and decided to display their last three veris only.

So don't believe all you see!

I've sat through some bad films, gone on crap holidays and bought some rubbish merchandise based on reviews!

Disregard the number of veris, chat to them and make up your own mind. Veris are just other people's opinions. Beware!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if your fairly new and you come across a profile that have loads of veri's,do they put you off?

To us it does,some genuine hot looking couples out there who look fun. BUT we wont aproach due to being fairly new.

Also have bene knocked back once or twice for being newbies'........cant win

Must be daft, those pics are gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All I am saying is, don't get hung up or put off by the 'Veri Issue' - it is always getting blown out of proportion.

Good luck - you'll get there...

ted. "

Lol Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Must be daft, those pics are gorgeous x"

thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few veri's and love meeting newbies !

If people are put off by how many veri's we have so be it ...... Probably just aswell we don't show them all lol

Shame we are not nearer the op - perhaps we could convince them otherwise

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