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Why is it so hard to meet a mature lady???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"

Have you tried hanging around a care home

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"

Use your message filter settings to block guys and TV's?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X

Have you tried hanging around a care home "

with a puppy and a bag of werthers originals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse me! I don't live in a care home...yet lol.

I think some women just assume that the younger guys are immature. I met a guy for a social drink last week who was 28 and we had an absolute blast! Might play, might not, but it was a really fun meet

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Your profile. Therein lies the answer to your question.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.

A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.

I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Your profile. Therein lies the answer to your question. "

Specifically, the lack of said profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile. Therein lies the answer to your question. "

Seriously, I think it a masterpiece , very concise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse me! I don't live in a care home...yet lol.

I think some women just assume that the younger guys are immature. I met a guy for a social drink last week who was 28 and we had an absolute blast! Might play, might not, but it was a really fun meet "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile. Therein lies the answer to your question. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe because you don't accom?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.

A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.

I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.

"

Let me just caveat that though. Some younger men clearly know their way around a woman's body.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"

if your messages are like your profile you will struggle. Say a bit about yourself, tell people what you can offer and don't use text speak. Good luck there are mature women looking for younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are sounding a bit like Jay in the inbetweeners, but cracking (PS: Don't mean dusty) reply fella.....

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us."

This, it doesn't mean you don't have to put as much effort in.

I know I'm 24 but personality-wise, I'm about 60 so answering honestly, the turn-off's are:

Your profile is virtually non-existant.

Your username suggests you're some sort of "GhaHANGstah" wanna-be and imagining from a mature lady's point of view, it wouldn't make me want to meet you, the text speak adds to that.

All in all, there is no information about yourself, why you're worth meeting or what you can offer.

You have to look at the way you're selling yourself and think why should anyone choose me over the THOUSANDS of other guys on here who have actually put an effort into their profiles.

That's not meant horribly but thinking that is the best way to get your answer and put it in your profile.

- Amy. x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

OP - where are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet a mature woman, a few years older than myself.

They do tend to enjoy themselves more in bed, and, if you do something not quite right, they will tell you what to do.

Lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women can afford to be picky on here.

Try up town on a Saturday night. I usually have more luck that way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met a few sophisticated classy ladies off of here,they must like a big strong lad to take care of them in the bedroom dept. and i'm only too happy to oblige

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.

This, it doesn't mean you don't have to put as much effort in.

I know I'm 24 but personality-wise, I'm about 60 so answering honestly, the turn-off's are:

Your profile is virtually non-existant.

Your username suggests you're some sort of "GhaHANGstah" wanna-be and imagining from a mature lady's point of view, it wouldn't make me want to meet you, the text speak adds to that.

All in all, there is no information about yourself, why you're worth meeting or what you can offer.

You have to look at the way you're selling yourself and think why should anyone choose me over the THOUSANDS of other guys on here who have actually put an effort into their profiles.

That's not meant horribly but thinking that is the best way to get your answer and put it in your profile.

- Amy. x"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.

A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.

I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.

"

we have not found this to be the case, most of the younger guys certainly know what they are doing and their way round a womans body

personally I much prefer the young ones

(waits for sarky comment)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"

You sound like a gangsta wannabe under the delusion us older ladies are going to waste our advancing years messaging you to find out what?!! There are thousands of hot young, intelligent young men with interesting profiles.

Now who do you think the oldies will pick?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.

A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us.

I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

terrible name, terrible profile and cant accom. enough said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"

as said set message filters

additionaly your profile is very limited in content, so you want them to make the effort to message you so they get to know more ........ erm pass and move on to any number of mire complete informative profiles.

No pics don't ask what are best pics the forums are full with that question being asked go have a look.

Cant accommodate erm ok that's rarely perceived by us as anything other than married playing away, that's us so lets not all jump on the band wagon.

Been here 11 months and not verified, photo very not withstanding, try going to a social and meeting people.

good luck

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"

Lol

C'mon!!message me if u wanna find out more,that's not a profile,try.

Any old birds fancy a shag,message me if u wanna find out more.

They'll be queuing round the block mate,mark my words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until the middle of winter. Old biddies will do anything for a lump of coal and a tin of soup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait until the middle of winter. Old biddies will do anything for a lump of coal and a tin of soup "

oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the unfortunate reality is it is hard to meet up with any ladies, due to the number of men on the site. best of luck any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would anyone know you are looking for an older lady - your age preference on your profile says 18-99? Your profile is just asking for people to message you, ooops no, msg me, there is no need for people to msg u when there are great guys out there putting a lot of effort into their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been trying to meet a nice older lady for fun, im gettin no where lol all i get is messages from tv'z and guys!! Any tips please? X"

No profile, no pics = no meets.

It isn't rocket science!

Oh......and block single guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile. Therein lies the answer to your question.

"

ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all honesty your profile is too bare. Has no content. You do not stand out at all.

A lot of young guys think that just because they are young us "mature" ladies will swoon and be overwhelmed by their generosity to actually message us

I personally prefer to meet men around my age or older. Someone who knows his way around a woman's body.

"

I'm sorry but I need to disagree with this quote . I like many other young guys know our way around a women and much much more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling the OP may well be a Minimalist...

ted.

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