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Cant travel cant accomadate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there guys it always baffles me when profiles say cant accom and cant travel, how hard does this make meets for people???

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Walk to a local hotel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't!

Unless they are so charming, good looking and hung like a donkey that one simply cannot resist complying to their demands!

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By *oyston VaseyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

ive noticed profiles like that .

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend

Doesn't have to be difficult it just needs a little more organising as normally children involved in my case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheap hotel when they should be at work/doing the shopping/while kids at school who knows lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live 30 seconds from a swingers club, therefore although I can accommodate and travel I could just as easily say can't do either and still be able to meet more people than most.

Many other people are unable to travel but would be willing to meet at a local hotel or dogging spot.

To put can travel on thier profiles may be misleading.

If you aim to pay for a hotel for your meets it might be misleading to say can accommodate.

Better to say no to both and then discuss what you can do in mails rather than mislead anyone.

If we see people cant accommodate or travel we instantly realise they have some other form of meeting in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often when profiles state no acom/no travel, they mean they can't accommodate (or wont) and can't travel too far, staying local is easy enough, and would you consider it travelling staying in your local town/city, of course it is, but if the profile stated they can travel, then people from much further away would then complain that they stated they could travel but they can't.

We initially had no to both, but it didn't stop us getting meets, been to Wigan, Oldham, Ashton, Manchester and we can't travel, we was offered lifts though.

It's easy enough really, problem is it's hard to define what anyone truly means by can't travel can't accommodate.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"It's easy enough really, problem is it's hard to define what anyone truly means by can't travel can't accommodate. "

If peeps can't accommodate a little explanation within their profile may assist any potential meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easy enough really, problem is it's hard to define what anyone truly means by can't travel can't accommodate.

If peeps can't accommodate a little explanation within their profile may assist any potential meets "
never get 1

just get who are you fab police statement once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may be in Jail

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By *oyston VaseyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City


"never get 1

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join the club mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easy enough really, problem is it's hard to define what anyone truly means by can't travel can't accommodate.

If peeps can't accommodate a little explanation within their profile may assist any potential meets "

Of course, but then who reads profiles anyway?.

Besides, like face pics they may want to keep that info for the select few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always read profiles, am i the odd one out?? or was it sarcasm??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah all single guys read profiles n reply to ads accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see profiles with that on it as cyber thrill seekers!!

hate mail to usual adress please!! xx

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I remember once inviting this guy to a small gang bang with a gorgeous Mexican lady at my place.

His reply? 'I don't have a car and I refuse to use public transport'

I think he wanted me to send a taxi for him.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i see profiles with that on it as cyber thrill seekers!!

hate mail to usual adress please!! xx"

I'm of a similiar view!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me as i have a son living at home, i can play during the day whilst he's at work tho ive got to book the time off hence its got to be a planned meet. Cant travel, though ive a car, my finances are so bad that even the bus fare home from work is beyond me. I would like to travel very much as there's a couple that have commented on here that id like to see but i just couldnt manage to afford to travel to them. My only option is a hotel but id even struggle to share the cost, are my good manners getting in the way there? Anyway ive met a few nice guys and a couple so it can be done even though id prefer not local, thats only so i dont meet anyone that i either work with or know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets only

Only online fun (cam, dirty emails etc)

People who only perve

Someone pretending their someone or something they are not

Time wasters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WE CANT TRAVEL OR ACCOMM WE DONT LIKE CLUBS OR HOTELS WE HATE B n B s.

BUT WE HAVE HAD SUM SUPER MEETS IN THE TENT LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always read profiles, am i the odd one out?? or was it sarcasm?? "

It's a common complaint that people don't read profiles, so with a little jest was pointing out that whatever the reason on can't travel/accommodate it's possible that it may not be noticed if placed in profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember once inviting this guy to a small gang bang with a gorgeous Mexican lady at my place.

His reply? 'I don't have a car and I refuse to use public transport'

I think he wanted me to send a taxi for him.lol

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Maybe he had a limp willy problem, and out of the blue stuff, so used it as an excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in doubt ask the profile owner in question, that usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If in doubt ask the profile owner in question, that usually works "

Exactly, it's easy enough, when writing the initial message simply add you noticed no accom/no travel and ask how they go about arranging meets, if at all interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also helps to show you paid some attention to the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It also helps to show you paid some attention to the profile. "

Whats a profile then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It also helps to show you paid some attention to the profile.

Whats a profile then?? "

Not the type the police have on you, ya minx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple.

YOU go to theirs and 'communicate' through the letterbox !!

I take accommodate to mean using my home for a few hours.

Others I've learned seem to think it means B and B .....

What do you think it means ?

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