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Spotting a fake, part 1!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look on their photos for those wearing a tshirts printed with ekaf on

It's a mirror shot but look closely you will spit them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look on their photos for those wearing a tshirts printed with ekaf on

It's a mirror shot but look closely you will spit them "

That's a handy tip,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look on their photos for those wearing a tshirts printed with ekaf on

It's a mirror shot but look closely you will spit them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than a a year without a meet unless it says on profile just looking to use forums ect

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

People that have been a member for over a year with no veri or photo veri

There are many more

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"More than a a year without a meet unless it says on profile just looking to use forums ect"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' , "

So, gals aren't allowed to split up with their other halfs then?

P.s. My tip is, if the profile hasn't been photo verified, then i don't message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' , "

I had that on mine when I joined

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

after chatting ask them to chat on the phone, amazing how many stop talking or block you when you say that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid those who use 'text talk'.

It's language used primarily by 14 year olds so even if they aren't a fake, they're clearly a bad apple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' ,

I had that on mine when I joined "

Looks like my theory is flawed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after chatting ask them to chat on the phone, amazing how many stop talking or block you when you say that . "

Some people have asked us to chat at times and sometimes we can't be bothered. If we are arranging a meet then fine understandable but I/ we rarely talk to people early doors to prove we are real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' ,

I had that on mine when I joined

Looks like my theory is flawed "

Sure is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are loads of ways,profile content being outrageously pornographic,or just one line,pics that look like web porn pics,in which case google reverse image

Photo verification if not verified,I need to see face pics and lastly chat on the phone if im still interested at that point and all the other suspect points have been dealt with

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"after chatting ask them to chat on the phone, amazing how many stop talking or block you when you say that . "

I have a phobia of talking on the phone so I never do it.

I did have one guy insist early on (2nd message) that we would have to talk on phone or skype so he could see I was who I say I am. Bearing in mind he had no veris! Cheeky sod.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"There are loads of ways,profile content being outrageously pornographic,or just one line,pics that look like web porn pics,in which case google reverse image

Photo verification if not verified,I need to see face pics and lastly chat on the phone if im still interested at that point and all the other suspect points have been dealt with "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after chatting ask them to chat on the phone, amazing how many stop talking or block you when you say that . "

Or wife is always at work, at mothers etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ms J requests early chat with other female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of ways,profile content being outrageously pornographic,or just one line,pics that look like web porn pics,in which case google reverse image

Photo verification if not verified,I need to see face pics and lastly chat on the phone if im still interested at that point and all the other suspect points have been dealt with "

Agreed, single women with one line profile saying "i'm here to get f****d" and no photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checking their veries veries,came across one profile that had 4 veries which when checked their only veries were all from the same 4 profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Checking their veries veries,came across one profile that had 4 veries which when checked their only veries were all from the same 4 profiles."

It seems to be quite common, I just don't understand why somebody would bother creating multiple profiles just to verify each other. What do these profiles get out of it?? It's the same withers cam girls, what's the point ??

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

We rarely respond to non verified people to be safe, not to say we don't hotlist them to keep tabs. Then there are those that as a couple have no new pics or veris for a looong time.

In recent weeks though we,ve outed three single fems that mesaged, almost certainly fakes.

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

We just let the fakes have fun amongst themselves as we only really meet in clubs. We let people know when we will be at a club and if people would like to meet us come along. There are very few fakes inside a swingers club xxx

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS


"People that have been a member for over a year with no veri or photo veri

There are many more

"
. I am not fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People that have been a member for over a year with no veri or photo veri

There are many more

. I am not fake "

Well , you would say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that have been a member for over a year with no veri or photo veri

There are many more

. I am not fake "

But you have a veri! Even if it is from a guy and your straight!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If it seems to good to be true...

Any profiles with pics nicked from porn sites. I got a message from a 'porn star' who was visiting York for some training. Strangely his blog/Facebook didn't mention it though. If you're going to use fake pics, try and pick someone low profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Visible veri's (meet - not webcam) - regardless of time on site the more recent the better!

2. A thoughtful, descriptive profile rather than one line.

3. Pics - visible but not necessarily face. Google reverse comes in very handy when at all suspicious!!

4. Message content - one liners and looking to meet now = warning signs!!!

5. Unwillingness to chat on phone/Skype or meet for a social.

6. Gut instinct!!!

Pretty simple really - and if in doubt at any stage - move on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Visible veri's (meet - not webcam) - regardless of time on site the more recent the better!

2. A thoughtful, descriptive profile rather than one line.

3. Pics - visible but not necessarily face. Google reverse comes in very handy when at all suspicious!!

4. Message content - one liners and looking to meet now = warning signs!!!

5. Unwillingness to chat on phone/Skype or meet for a social.

6. Gut instinct!!!

Pretty simple really - and if in doubt at any stage - move on!! "
I have and do 4 out of 5. Hopefully I match No.2. Do not do and cant do No. 4. No. 6 is left up to the person looking at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant go on cam, it is not working, single female, no pics etc, so many things. normally it is a combination of things outlined here that helps with spotting a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Visible veri's (meet - not webcam) - regardless of time on site the more recent the better!

2. A thoughtful, descriptive profile rather than one line.

3. Pics - visible but not necessarily face. Google reverse comes in very handy when at all suspicious!!

4. Message content - one liners and looking to meet now = warning signs!!!

5. Unwillingness to chat on phone/Skype or meet for a social.

6. Gut instinct!!!

Pretty simple really - and if in doubt at any stage - move on!! "

I've met several people who haven't left veri so i can't veri either........ does that mean Im a shit shag ??!!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ms J requests early chat with other female."

Same here..... Ruby

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"cant go on cam, it is not working, single female, no pics etc, so many things. normally it is a combination of things outlined here that helps with spotting a fake. "

I am a single female without a cam. I also don't do Skype, instant messaging, chatrooms, or talk on the phone prior to arranging a meet. Now I could be fake, but I hope not.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' , "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the best ones are single men looking for fun and then their pics either have women's toiletries in the background or even wedding rings on... hilarious

Or just say meet me now...soon gets rid of them

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' ,

Why?"

OP...I demand a response to my question! YES you heard me....you cannot put up that kind of dribble and expect to go home free....WHY?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Visible veri's (meet - not webcam) - regardless of time on site the more recent the better!

2. A thoughtful, descriptive profile rather than one line.

3. Pics - visible but not necessarily face. Google reverse comes in very handy when at all suspicious!!

4. Message content - one liners and looking to meet now = warning signs!!!

5. Unwillingness to chat on phone/Skype or meet for a social.

6. Gut instinct!!!

Pretty simple really - and if in doubt at any stage - move on!!

I've met several people who haven't left veri so i can't veri either........ does that mean Im a shit shag ??!!?? "

That's a hurdle everyone faces!!

But guess its a vicious circle - the longer you're on site with no veri's - the more people may assume fake! But there's always the option for social veri's and club veri's - and generally I'd imagine at some point after plenty of meets at least one would leave a simple "they turned up on time, were nice and looked just like their pics" kind of comment!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant go on cam, it is not working, single female, no pics etc, so many things. normally it is a combination of things outlined here that helps with spotting a fake.

I am a single female without a cam. I also don't do Skype, instant messaging, chatrooms, or talk on the phone prior to arranging a meet. Now I could be fake, but I hope not."

You certainly wern't fake when I met you, but you could be now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' ,

So, gals aren't allowed to split up with their other halfs then?

P.s. My tip is, if the profile hasn't been photo verified, then i don't message them. "
were very genuine but never been photo verified so wat does that meen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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P.s. My tip is, if the profile hasn't been photo verified, then i don't message them. "

Oh I have not been photo verified ! Did not think it was necessary as I have verifications from meets ! Think they may notice if I was not the same person as my pics!!

or maybe they don't really care what my face looks like !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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P.s. My tip is, if the profile hasn't been photo verified, then i don't message them.

Oh I have not been photo verified ! Did not think it was necessary as I have verifications from meets ! Think they may notice if I was not the same person as my pics!!

or maybe they don't really care what my face looks like !!! "

Sorry, i should have worded it a bit better! I meant gals with no veris, no pics and no photo veri after being on site for a good few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Visible veri's (meet - not webcam) - regardless of time on site the more recent the better!

2. A thoughtful, descriptive profile rather than one line.

3. Pics - visible but not necessarily face. Google reverse comes in very handy when at all suspicious!!

4. Message content - one liners and looking to meet now = warning signs!!!

5. Unwillingness to chat on phone/Skype or meet for a social.

6. Gut instinct!!!

Pretty simple really - and if in doubt at any stage - move on!! "

Urk....OMG!! I'm a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Visible veri's (meet - not webcam) - regardless of time on site the more recent the better!

2. A thoughtful, descriptive profile rather than one line.

3. Pics - visible but not necessarily face. Google reverse comes in very handy when at all suspicious!!

4. Message content - one liners and looking to meet now = warning signs!!!

5. Unwillingness to chat on phone/Skype or meet for a social.

6. Gut instinct!!!

Pretty simple really - and if in doubt at any stage - move on!!

Urk....OMG!! I'm a fake. "

Me too! I KNEW i should have asked the gals i met if they were thinking about leaving the site!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"1. Visible veri's (meet - not webcam) - regardless of time on site the more recent the better!

2. A thoughtful, descriptive profile rather than one line.

3. Pics - visible but not necessarily face. Google reverse comes in very handy when at all suspicious!!

4. Message content - one liners and looking to meet now = warning signs!!!

5. Unwillingness to chat on phone/Skype or meet for a social.

6. Gut instinct!!!

Pretty simple really - and if in doubt at any stage - move on!!

I've met several people who haven't left veri so i can't veri either........ does that mean Im a shit shag ??!!??

That's a hurdle everyone faces!!

But guess its a vicious circle - the longer you're on site with no veri's - the more people may assume fake! But there's always the option for social veri's and club veri's - and generally I'd imagine at some point after plenty of meets at least one would leave a simple "they turned up on time, were nice and looked just like their pics" kind of comment!! "

I do not see time on here without a veri as a 'put off'. I will make my mind up whilst talking (chatting) to the person...fakes reveal themselves very quickly because they are not able to keep it up (no pun intended). I read every profile I am interested in, I carefully listen to what is not said, I will meet when both are ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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P.s. My tip is, if the profile hasn't been photo verified, then i don't message them.

Oh I have not been photo verified ! Did not think it was necessary as I have verifications from meets ! Think they may notice if I was not the same person as my pics!!

or maybe they don't really care what my face looks like !!!

Sorry, i should have worded it a bit better! I meant gals with no veris, no pics and no photo veri after being on site for a good few months. "

Gee that's good then ! Put some doubt in my mind then ! Was starting to think I was a fake too !!!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"after chatting ask them to chat on the phone, amazing how many stop talking or block you when you say that . "

or ask them to show on cam, same result usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut instinct, a finely tuned bullshit detector and a high level of cynicism.

Oh and we don't ever bother with phone or cam chats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our methods of feeling comfortable about potential meets,just because they don't tick all of our boxes it does'nt mean they're all fake,it just makes me a bit wary and ill back away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only meet in clubs..... cuts out all the faff......

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"we only meet in clubs..... cuts out all the faff......"

Clubs serve their purpose...cutting out the 'faff' is not one of them...you soon find yourself in a 'domestic' even in clubs....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they want to turn the conversation into something more suitable for the Stories and Fantasises threads then K.I.M!

Keep it moving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife can't speak on the fone now... but she is coming to the meet...

Or i cant ring you right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after chatting ask them to chat on the phone, amazing how many stop talking or block you when you say that . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..fakes reveal themselves very quickly because they are not able to keep it up (no pun intended). I read every profile I am interested in, I carefully listen to what is not said, I will meet when both are ready. "

This is very true. But it is easier for those of us who have either learned, or naturally have, effective questioning techniques. It doesn't have to be an interrogation, you are just protecting yourself. We had exactly the circumstance Bambi is talking about just this morning. I had my doubts about a guy and it took a few messages, biding our time and the other biggy - go back and look at the profile AGAIN... this guy (we believe) had changed things deliberately to make himself 'more attractive', then made the mistake of changing them back once the conversation was under way. Silly boy... Lol!

ted.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

'Couples' who message us and have no veri's, the female is always at work or out with friends but they would love to know the exact details of what would happen when we met x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we exchange messages, chat on the phone, meet up, play - they're not fake.

If we don't, we don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stop giving them clue's and advice !!..... posts like this just fuel it

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"We all have different ways to spot a fake profile, some are more obvious than others , however what signs do you look for?? One of my tips is to avoid single female profiles that start with 'recently single here to have fun' , "

I have asked you twice to answer a very simple question....no answer! In my opinion...YOU ARE A FAKE! Is that a fair judgment?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't cam or phone. But I have got plenty of veris.

And I will meet the verified. But I ask for face pics and that they verify the face pic. If he won't do that I move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Checking their veries veries,came across one profile that had 4 veries which when checked their only veries were all from the same 4 profiles.

It seems to be quite common, I just don't understand why somebody would bother creating multiple profiles just to verify each other. What do these profiles get out of it?? It's the same withers cam girls, what's the point ??"

People can have fake verifications?

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